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There's this guy I've liked for a while now and he took me out on a date Saturday night. I had fun and so did he. Yesterday I thought I might as well tell him that I liked him because everyone was under the impression that he liked me--not only did he take me out, but I went over his house and met his family and he picked me up, drove me home, payed for the date (it was a dance and he bought the ticket and went through a lot of hassle so that I could come), and walked me to my house and everything. When I told him I liked him, he told me that he liked this other girl and he was having issues and was unsure. I'm just really frustrated--how come he was sending me mixed messages? I'm really angry at him for leading me on like that and taking me out, just so I'd be there if things with girl #1 didn't fall through. I'd like to give him a piece of my mind but I don't even know where to begin. I wrote him an angry letter that I might give to him...and it's all about how he pretty much led me on and played little boy games with me and how he's an a-hole, but he's also a great guy, generally, and just because he didn't treat me right doesn't mean I'm over him yet. I even say that if he were to ask me out, I'd say yes. (Although I didn't write that I'd probably have to see a little more effort on his part, although it's true.) Should I give him the letter? (We don't go to the same school and we rarely see one another so I'd have to give it to a friend to give to him.) Or should I give him a piece of my mind someway else? Or should I just give up and leave him alone? What should I do? Thanks.
hey, that was totally rude of him. you have a right to give him a piece of your mind. i wouldnt recommend giving it to a friend to give to him because they might read it or just not even give it to him. if your going to say something to him you have to say it directly too him.
In my opinion, I don't think I have a bad personality. I'm not stuck up, I don't cause any drama, I'm honest, I can keep secrets, and I'm nice unless someone gives me a reason not to be. I mean, I can be "mean" sometimes with guys except I'm kidding and they know it. I'm not shy, but I'm not incredibly outgoing -- I'm just normal there. Plus, all of my friends say I'm hilarious. Most of my friends, who are girls tell, me I'm pretty and I've had some of my guy friends tell me I'm "hot". I'm not stupid, but I'm not a genius. Since pretty much everyone but me cares about this at my school...people say I'm popular (I hate that word and I don't care about "popularity" just to make that clear). The thing is, I've never had a boyfriend -- NOT ONCE. I don't get it. Every single one of my friends has at least had ONE boyfriend sometime in their life, but me. No, I don't only want one cause "everyone" has one. In your opinion, does it sound like I'm doing something wrong? Why can't I get a boyfriend?
hey, well i think it might be one of two things. a) they see you as more of a friend or b) think your too popular for them and that your way out of there league. actually there is another possibility, they might think that your too flirty and that you arent girlfriend material.
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i am house wife from india . actually i want to know wht r all the symtoms of prganancy after how many days v should check how v know tht v r prganent .nw i get back ache my friend say this also symtom of preganent hw can i confirm it. i never get any vomiting bt my period dates extended pls help me and answer i am vry eagar my husband also is vry eagar to know it pls reply me clearly as quick as possible
hey, take a pregnancy test and find out.
I've read a bunch of places that if you put mayonnaise in your hair it works great as a deep conditioner. I was wondering though if it leaves a bad smell once your hair is dry and everything. If you've tried it, has it worked and does it leave a bad smell in your hair the next day?
hey, dont bother. it leaves your hair greasy and oily. your better off using a salon approved conditioner.
I have recently been to a Kelly-Paul Hair Salon to get low-lights and to get my hair cut. They also gave me a conditioning treatment. My hair had been extremely damaged before. My hair was breaking off, I had split ends every where, my hair was very frizzy, etc. After the treatment, it was in great condition because there were no more split ends or frizz ANYWHERE. If any of you have been there, do you know what products they use on your hair for the deep conditioning treatment?
hey, im not really sure that your going to find someone who can answer that. because im sure that there is more than one kelli-paul salon and that they all use different products. call or go to the salon that you went to and ask personally.
My friend Melissa met this boy Bob who goes to her school. They just started talking one day, and now they talk alot. The problem is that Bob doesn't really seem to be "at her speed". For example, he's already talking about them "doing it" and he wants her to come to his house. But Melissa's not ready for that stuff yet. What should she do? My advice is for her to tell him she just wants t be friends, but I'm not even sure whether she likes him or not. What's your advice? Thanks
hey, talk to her asap! they just met and he wants to have sex with her already?! hes just looking for sex and not a real relationship. tell her that because if she really likes him shes going to get hurt.
where can i buy cheap polos? besides old navy ? thank you :] (meaning under 25 dollers! )
hey, they have cheap polos at kohls.
http://www.kohls.com/products/product_page_vanilla3.jsp?PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=391610779&FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=427022789&bmUID=1170117616452
http://www.kohls.com/products/product_page_vanilla3.jsp?PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=391610781&FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=427022789&bmUID=1170117643018
how do i know if i like a guy? like. . . i cant tell the difference because i might have a crush on my best friend. OR do i just see him as my best friend, because i cant tell. i get excited to see him and im also anxious to talk to him. but sometimes i ignore him too. i dont know, i just wanted to hear your guys opinions. any stories of your own experiences? =)
hey, well i think that its right in the middle of a crush and a liking. just hangout with him more and decide. if you cant picture your life without him, then i bet its a crush [=.
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ok well i like this guy...and i was just wondering what guys in general would find most attractive about a girl.
also what are some good flirting tips?
and lastly what are some signs to tell me whether or not a guy likes me?
all help appreciated! thanks!
hey, alright well http://www.links2love.com should help with all your questions.
if you have very tight "bouncy" small curls, is there anyway you can make them looser? for example from this
http://www.wigsalon.com/img/full/kiradc.jpg
to this
http://www.just-hairstyles.com/curly/c23.htm
(well not exactly, but you get the point)
and also, is there anyway of doing that WITHOUT having to straighten AND curl it every single day?
Thank you!
hey, well you could try perming it to make it looser.
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ok well i just recently started getting my period a few months ago...i've had like 4 or 5 so far. and whenever i get it, i constantly feel like i have to pee. that might not sound so bad but its like painful...theres like a pain in my bladder and vaginal area, ussually i have to sit in the restroom for hours for it to go away...i've even had to come home from school it's gotten so bad.
is this normal? and is there anything i can do to either make it go away faster or all together?
thanks!
hey, try taking midol. if that doesnt help go see a gyno.
mother not speaking to father, brother not speaking to father, other brother not speaking to mother, and NO ONE speaking to me.
My family is falling apart, and they refuse to get help or talk to eachother and I don't know what to do!
hey, next time your allowed to go out, go to a family counciling(sp?)place. explain to them your problem and how you cant get the rest of your family out of the house to talk to him, or even talk to them yourself. the place should be able to tell you what to do to try to make things better.
my father and brother (14 yrs old) havn't spoken for 6 months because of a tiny little argument.. and because they're both being stubborn, this has affected my whole life, myother younger brother (10 yrs old) is afraid of our family falling apart and my mother is turning into a monster, screaming, being mean and irritated all the time, she never used to be that wya before this. I've tried talking, several times. Tried getting out of the house, but since my dad's mad all the time, he won't let me go out a lot.
What do I do? Just leave it alone?
hey, since you`ve tried talking to them and they wont listen theres nothing much that you can do. next time your allowed to go out, go to a family counciling(sp?)place. you can even take your little brother with you if you want. explain to them your problem and how you cant get the rest of your family out of the house to talk to him, or even talk to them yourself. the place should be able to tell you what to do to try to make things better.
I've liked this guy for the longest time and he never knew. I think he likes another girl though and I just found that out. The girl we think he likes is a year older than him and she thinks that he does too so does my best friend. She dosn't like him she likes someone else. He acts like he does too. And now I think I won't have a chance with him. He's everything to me and now I just feel broken hearted although he never knew I liked him but I just was hurt when I found out he liked someone else. I was thinking it would have happened. I feel like I don't like him but I still do and I can't help it! Please help!
hey, well you definately should tell him how feel asap! i would have already told him as soon as i was sure that i felt this way, but thats just me. the reason why i say to tell him is because a) he might secretly like you, but thinks that you will NEVER go for him, b) is afraid to approach you about liking you, or c) is afraid that you will think he is "weird" if he opens up to you and tells you how he feels.
Where can I get some plain, black pants? Nothing fancy, and not Dickies. Just plain black pants that are like jeans, but not. Anyone have any idea where I could get some? I'd appriciate it a lot. =) Thanks!
hey, tellos all the way. there the brazilian kind [=.
Ok I need advice to give to my friend Betty on how NOT to feel this way. It only happens when she works (which is Monday thru Friday). She feels as if she is leading two lives. She says she gets up goes to work (being the first life), comes home (this being the second life), then does the same thing all over again the next day. BUT she ISNT in a rut. She says she has been feeling this way since her dad died 19 years ago. MY QUESTION: What can I do to help her.
hey, it seems to me like her schedule is too much. in order to avoid feeling this way she will need to go out with her friends a lot. have a girls night out.
i have this problem i hate letting people get to close and whatever and i really dont like many people but everytime i like somebody i always have to like the people i cant have eigther there taking or i just cant have them and it drives me insane it hurts so much to like somebody really like somebody and you just cant have them help if you can
hey, alright well i know how hard liking someone you cant have is. it sucks, but i think half the problem is you yourself. you dont like getting close to people, so i bet you push them away without even noticeing. you cant except someone to like you back or to have a relationship if you do that. you need to open up to people and let them get close before you even think about any of that stuff. im sure people will like you. just give them a chance.
this guy that i have been hooking up with since nov still isn't over his ex. she says things to him. and everything. how can i try and help him get over her? i have strong feelings for this guy. and i don't want to lose him. i don't truthfully care that much about him being with me but for him to get over her.
hey, well you cant just change someones feelings. its going to take time for him to get over her, especially if there relationship was long or he really loved her. the best things to do would be to a) be there when he needs you or just needs to talk and b) advise him to stay away from her. dont push that subject tho. that will just make things worse and he will just probably think your jealous and wrong about everything.
so basically the other day i was suppose to hang out with my boyfriend he said to call him at one. So i call him no answer so i figure ill go spend time with other people till he calls me back. Well 5 at night rolls around i call him again still no reply. My one friend then says she called and talked to him. i was like wtf why would he do that to me. So i call again no answer. So i look at his myspace im not anywhere on his top.(i was number one) WEIRD. So then i write him a message telling him how i feel and i write on my myspace that i found another guy just to see if that would get his attention so he would call me. So then he calls me the next day is like whats with the message and said he didnt have his cell phone and he had a buncha missed calls from my frineds and stuff. So i of course felt like an idiot so he didnt talk to me because i was at my friends house. Then my he calls me later and it turns up he thought i had another guy lined up because my one frined who said she called him and answered said so. HE didnt know who to believe!!! And apparently he never even talked to her that night. So she screwed up the realtionship. Then later he calls and says lets just forget about the whole thing. Then the next day he tells me things are weird. WAY TO SEND MIXED MESSAGES. So i start crying yet again. So he wanted to break up so we could fix things. what is there to fix i dont get it. I AM STILL IN LOVE. And today we were suppose to hang out but his mom opened his mail(hes 18) and saw he went over the limit on his account so she wont let him use the one car. i want things to go back to the way they were. Should i just end this or should i continue trying to fix it?
hey, i dont think thats it all completly your friends fault. there was a big red flag in there. you told him that you had another guy. YOU NEVER DO THAT, unless you want trust issues forever. its going to be hard to get things back to normal. im not even sure if that will happen. most of the time in these situations it doesnt, unless the guy loves you 100% and doesnt want to ever loose you. im guessing thats not true with him considering he ignored all your calls because your friend said something. he should have asked you about it first, instead of ignoring you. my answer is try to work it out. if it doesnt fix right away then its not meant to be.
i asked before what to use to clean belly button piercings and someone answered me saying to use saline soultion. does anyone know how to clean it with this stuff?? thanks
hey, take a little cotton ball. pour some on it and just gently clean around the piercing.