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so basically the other day i was suppose to hang out with my boyfriend he said to call him at one. So i call him no answer so i figure ill go spend time with other people till he calls me back. Well 5 at night rolls around i call him again still no reply. My one friend then says she called and talked to him. i was like wtf why would he do that to me. So i call again no answer. So i look at his myspace im not anywhere on his top.(i was number one) WEIRD. So then i write him a message telling him how i feel and i write on my myspace that i found another guy just to see if that would get his attention so he would call me. So then he calls me the next day is like whats with the message and said he didnt have his cell phone and he had a buncha missed calls from my frineds and stuff. So i of course felt like an idiot so he didnt talk to me because i was at my friends house. Then my he calls me later and it turns up he thought i had another guy lined up because my one frined who said she called him and answered said so. HE didnt know who to believe!!! And apparently he never even talked to her that night. So she screwed up the realtionship. Then later he calls and says lets just forget about the whole thing. Then the next day he tells me things are weird. WAY TO SEND MIXED MESSAGES. So i start crying yet again. So he wanted to break up so we could fix things. what is there to fix i dont get it. I AM STILL IN LOVE. And today we were suppose to hang out but his mom opened his mail(hes 18) and saw he went over the limit on his account so she wont let him use the one car. i want things to go back to the way they were. Should i just end this or should i continue trying to fix it?
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Hey. It sounds like your friend is really not a friend at all. She completely messed things up for you guys (because you seemed fine) and that is a Horrible friend. Please don't take that badly but that was really mean what she did to you. She may have been really jealous or something. What I would do is I would write him a really long letter explaining exactly what happened and what your friend did. Explain how hurt she made you feel and that you really don't understand why she did this but say that you're going to end the friendship until she tells you why. Tell him that you just wrote that thing on myspace because you were angry with what your friend told you which was obviously a lie. I'm sure he'll understand after all of this. He was probably just very hurt by what you wrote on myspace (thanks to your friend) and didn't understand. I'm sure he will after you explain all this and if he doesn't it's his own fault. I really hope this helped you and good luck! =)
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hey, i dont think thats it all completly your friends fault. there was a big red flag in there. you told him that you had another guy. YOU NEVER DO THAT, unless you want trust issues forever. its going to be hard to get things back to normal. im not even sure if that will happen. most of the time in these situations it doesnt, unless the guy loves you 100% and doesnt want to ever loose you. im guessing thats not true with him considering he ignored all your calls because your friend said something. he should have asked you about it first, instead of ignoring you. my answer is try to work it out. if it doesnt fix right away then its not meant to be.
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Why would you lie to your boyfriend and say you have another guy???? Of course he's going to break up with you when you say you found another guy. Why would he trust you afterwards when he know you just lied to him?? Its not your friend who ruined the relationship, I think you did that yourself. You sound young, maybe he wants a more mature relationship because hes 18. Maybe this is for the best.
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