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ok usually my perios is about 4 or 5 days long .. but last week i got it on wednesday (the 20th) and its still here! heavy as it was when i first got it.. i just want to know.. is this normal? also last month wasnt heavy.. like at all.. i rate high

thank u so much!! ♥

Yes its normal..i get that alot. Im not sure but im pretty sure that it depnds on how active you are..like if your out doing alot of things it tends to get lighter..the heavier it is the more pains you get , the less active you get..if you have stomach pains use a hot water bottle an some pamprin it works well for me..its normal..i ususally get every other month like that..

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i really wanna be a singer when i grow up but im kinda shy and dont like to sing infront of alot of people. can you please help me and tell me how i could get over that ?

Try singing in front of a bunch of friends an when u get comphortable with that go to karoke things to try singing..as soon as ur ready for that..try doing birthday parties and weddings it will help you

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is tanning bad for you? what about tanning beds?

it is bad for you, but its not as bad if you wear sunscreen..tanning beds are just as bad as being outside..just wear sunscreen if you get burnt wait a couple days before u go back so u dont get skin cancer

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well, my boyfriend wants me to go down his pants .. and i will and all . but i dont know what to do when i go down, can anyone help me ?! please !! i rate high for good answers !!

Well you can ethier give him a hand jo..or give him a blow job..If you give him a blow job..lick from top to bottom an swirl your tongure around the head of his dick, then just suck like alolly pop without ur teeth on it..keep going down more each time..an then go a little faster each time also..make sure you have his balls in your other hand another thing guys like is if you give him a hand job while u are also holding his balls an giving him head.

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I'm 18 and I was supposed to get my period on the 20th. I've had my period for 3+ years, and its been very regular (ALWAYS early or on time.) I just got on birth control and since my period has been late, they gave me a shot so my period would start right away (so I could start taking the pill.) Well it's been more than 2 days, and I still havent gotten it. I'm not sexually active or anything, so pregnancy is out of the question. I know it's suppose to be irregular the first couple years, but I've had it longer. Should I be worried?

Dont be worried... when you first get in birth control it takes a couple months to get your peroid regular again..when i first got on it it took me like 3 months to finaly get a regular peroid

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Can I still go to the gyno for my first check up if I have my period?

Yes, but i wouldnt recomend it.. you will prolly feel more uncomphortable if you are on your peroid.

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i'm currently using the depo-provera needle as a form of birth control but i'm switching to the Evra patch in August. I was just wondering, if you or someone you know, uses it and what are the most common side effects. any info you can give about this patch would be really helpfull!

Im on the patch an have almost been on it for a year.. I didnt really have any real bad sie effects i mean i slept alot the first month an i had an iregular peroid the first month an migraines thats it..Ask your doctor what some side effects are

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OK im 14/f and i wear a 32C and im not sure if guys like the big breast? ANd i dont wear padded(Spelling?) bra or anything and their really big. im tiny and i have big breast is that normal?
I rate High for real answers!
thanx

Yes its normal..Guys do like big breast so you have an advantage of many other girls that it takes for ever to get boobs. Dont be afraid to show them off in tight shirts an so on, you have em you look good in them dont be ashamed..some girls would die for them. if you dont like them try wearing an undershirt, tank top thing over your bra an under a really tight shirt that should hold them in a little bit

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Hey Im 15/f and I was just wondering what are some signs that you are pregnant? and when do you start getting them? like how many days or weeks after your missed period? Im like so confused!!! I've been having these strange stomach pains and its only been like a day or two after I was suppose to get my period..could I be pregnant?
thanks
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You could be but thats a un likely chance i mean your still young your peroid could be just not regulated yet. Some signs are vomiting, smelling unusal things an smelling everything, stomach pains, moodiness, cramps..those are just some there are alot more.

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I finger myself and i can't even get close to an orgasim... i try rubbing my clit and i get excited but i can never get off... any suggestions of how to keep myself busy when the boyfriends not around?

Try using a Viberator or even watch porn

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can someone please say what every color bracelet means. i know some colors have to do with sex, others with like anorexia, and others with like cancer and stuff. so can someone just say what all of them mean? thanks a bunch. hopefully this can stop all the jelly bracelet confusion!

Im not sure what all of them mean but i thought id help you a little bit..

Pink* breast Cancer
Yellow* Just plain Cancer (livestrong0
i think blue? is for tsunami

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what are some good hair straighteners that won't really damage your hair alot

I use revlon streightner its godl and white it works really well for me.. or even use a blow dryer that works also

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ok.. i get my braces off soon (august) and i was wondering if anyone knows any good products to whiten your teeth??? i checked my dentist but the lazer treatment is 500$ and not including the stuff you have to keep putting on your teeth every so often.i just want something cheap and easy to start out with. Thanks!!!

I use the tooth paste colgate whitening expressions with a vaniella flavor it works for me..they also have diff flavors. Or simply white for your teeth.

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I wasnt exactly sure which category to put this under, but here goes...

Shaving is a BITCH! yes, yes it is. My question is:

Has anyone tried those bladeless shaving kits? do they really work? Does it last longer than shaving? does it remove ingrown hairs too, or should i just go for the wax?

yeah i know, kinda stupid, but im sick of shaving and at least dont want to walk around band camp with a bunch of nix and cuts.

thanks!

the nair bladeless shaving kit does not work.. i mean yeah it works but it lasts just as long as regular shaving does an it just takes more time to remove the hair i would not reccomend it.. try the wax i havent tried it yet but i heard it works wonders!

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does anyone know how to make really good smokey eyes like how they have it in the magazines and stuff?

You a black eye liner on the top and bottom of your lids..smudge it in a little bit on the top and on the sides..then take a black eye shadow and aply a little at a time.( the more u rub it in the more grayish it looks).an keep adding more till u get the look you want

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I am 57 years old and have hazel/green eyes. I have a fair complexion and dyed light natural auburn hair. What eyeshadow should I wear to bring out the green?

Where a blue eye liner on the top lid with a little bit of pink sparkle powder maybe mabelline..and a black eye liner

If your not that out going then try just a light brown shadow and a blue or black liner

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im not exactly the preppy girl but i want to wear pretty clothes and have pretty makeup and nice hair. i have brown hair and brown eyes. my hair is above my shoulders and i wish it would grow. how can i make my hair grow? do u have any makeup tips for me? what kinda clothes are great but not too expensive?

You can go to a debs or delias they have good deals on clothes.. even every now and then wal mart has some good tops. Fashion bug is good also..try to keep your style simple but let it represnt you also.. For example i love bright colors.. so one day id wear a bear of blue jeans a pink sparkle belt, an a cute black top..with a hand bag an prolly a cheap pair of comphortable shoes..to make your hair grow try getting it trimmed every 5 weeks it takes the dead off the ends an makes it grow faster.

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well i was wondering if ny1 knew any good spray/cream anything that i could use to put in my hair before or after i straighten it so its smooth. i have like black curly curly hair.or something to help it so its not so fried help! thnx //♥

Bed head after party...it smoothes n makes it shine an also smells very good. la looks curl booster(its not just for curls) Ausie frizz gel

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ook my hair is really think and i used to wear it up all the time and now theres like a dent i my hair, its barely noticable but i can see it and it really bugs me. i hardly wear my hair up now and it still hasnt gone away. does anyone kno how i can make it go away?

o i tried straightening it and it doesnt work.

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Well you could buy g2b damaged hair control conditioner..you leave it in for 10 minutes an then rinse it out. Then blow dry it streight hold the blow dryer up over your head instead of just normal blow drying...then use a revlon streitner its gold and white..its about 20$ an it works really good. it also gets away frizziness..If this doenst work then go to your salon an ask for a streightning perm..that will deff. work.

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i think this weekend my boyfriend and i will start having oral sex..i've never done it before but he has and he's had sex before....i don't wear thongs.. but yet i don't wear big grandma underwear..they're exactlylike thongs.. like with the strings around the hips and all.. but instead of the string up my ass, it's just all covered..i'm scared that his other girlfriends wore thongs and stuff and that when he sees i don't he'll think i'm like a looser or something...do you think it matters.....or do guys REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY prefer thongs and totally hate like thekinda underwear i wear

My boyfriend doesnt care what i wear..yea i wear thongs, but i asked him what he would prefer and he told me that he just wants me to feel comfortable around him..Under garments shouldnt matter at all.. its what he likes aboutyou on the inside that matters the most. If he has a problem with the kind of underwear you wear throw him out hes no good..You are you an dont let him change that. if you let a guy judge you by your under wear hes gonna try to judge you with more things.

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