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OKay my ex boyfriend n i were in love for a total of 8 months we talked about our kids n how we wanted to get married n stuff.. but now he dumped me and after 2 weeks he has a new girlfriend [[my bestfriend]] she promised me that she would not go out with him and now she backstabbed me n went out with him! Im totally not over him and i dont know what to do.. i still love him so much.. but he doesn't care about me.. [[if u have advice]] tell me cause i rate high!He also tells me he hates me n doesn't care about me.. idk what to do!
-In love-

same thing happened to me, twice. it sucks ass! lol! but sadly theres really nothin u can do but just forget about him as much as u can, try to see other ppl nd wen ure around him act like everythin is just dandy cuz u dont want him to kno that ure hurt nd everythin, nd as for ure frend thats not cool she shouldnt hav done that i think u should ditch her cuz thats really not cool! im sorry nd dont worry cuz u'll get over this, i did! lol! hope i helped!
.:Keryn:.

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Ok, well i have this friend who always tells rumers about me! i hate it and i always tell her how i feel, but everytime i tell her she goes and tells another rumer! what should i do?! help me please!
signed.
Losing a friend?

i think u should ditch her. i mean wut kind of frend spreads rumors bout u? seriously thats just mean! i kno u prolly dont want to cuz she mite be cool or sumthin but if shes gonna be spreadin rumors bout u then just forget her cuz thats not cool
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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My parents both smoke... i dont like it at all and i know its killing the both the both of them! I dont want them to die and i dont want my lungs to suffer from it.. what can i do to tell them that they need to stop! I rate high.. please help me!

just tell them how u feel about them smoking nd give them ideas about how they could quit, nd if they say they cant quit cuz sum people r too addicted some times just ask them to smoke outside and away from u
hope i helped good luck
.:Keryn:.

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i met this girl from plymouth and she seems really kool and i kno shes good in bed but shes evil and hears voices in her head...wat do i do

welp the evil voices hav magically disappeared cuz this kid paid for her for them cuz hes madd fucked up in the head!! so theyre gone!! so now shes just a cool girl from plymouth who u heard was good in bed!! ((u'll just hav to find out the truth bout the good in bed stuff ureself.. lol!))
.:Keryn:.

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Hi my name is Casey(girl) and im 14 years old.I try really hard for guys to like me but i never seem to attract that many. How do i get guys to like me??

Be ure self nd dont care wut ppl think of u! ure great!! lol!! if u care a lot about wut other ppl think u wont be true to ureself nd thats never cool!! lol!! hope i helped!!
.:Keryn:.

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is it just me.. or does it bug you girl when guys try toooo hard.. yea its cute that they wanna give you the world.. but isnt it like.. sometimes i just need a good time?!! or am i crazy! thanks x0x0x0

Hell Yeah!! lol!! i hate it wen guys tries to hard!! agh!! lol!!
.:Keryn:.

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how big r your tits?

wouldnt u like to kno!!! ;-)

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Ok my boyfriend and I just started going out. But the other day i was out with him at a club and this girl came to us and told us that she's pregnant and he might be the father of her baby. Im really confused i dunno if i should stick with him or lose him. bcuz he told me he wuz a virgin. HELP

well if hes a liar hes not good enough for u, nd u deserve better but maybe the girl is lyin nd shes just sayin that cuz shes like his ex or sumthin nd she wants to get back at him or sumthin.. you should find out everythin u can about it nd then try to figure out wut to do, if he was lyin bout bein a virgin dump his ass cuz u deserve better nd trust is a big thing in a realationship, but if shes lyin or sumthin like that then stay wit him,
-Hope I Helped-

.:Keryn:.

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any body have any sites that hase journal free and qestions goes with? I want start journal for school starts

livejournal.com
blurty.com
perfectjournal.com
theres a couple!!
hope i helped!
.:Keryn:.

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any tips of what to do not to do or what to watch out for with having a boyfriend?
THANKS!!

dont cheat on him cuz he will find out! nd other than that be ureself nd dont do ne thin ure not ready for! hope i helped!
.:Keryn:.

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im lezibian but im really scared to tell my parents and friends any advice on how to break the news??

u could just keep it to ureself if u thought thatd be the right thing to do or u could just straight out tell them nd if they wont except u for that then theyre not worth it ure parents nd family will always love either way though so dont worry bout them plus they should kno wuts goin one in their kids' lives hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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i am a girl and for halloween i dressed up like aguy and sometimes i do it for fun with my friends. and all my friends call me homefry and stuff. i don't like girly clothes stores and sometimes i do things like gangster-ish. am i bi or something?

no u prolly just have a diffent style, unless ure likin girls then maybe ure bi but if ure only into guys clothes then its just a style thing! hope i helped!
.:Keryn:.

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do girls care or think its gross or w/e if a guy mastrobates?

i wouldnt say so.. all guys do it.. i think
.:Keryn:.

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How can you tell if a girl is pretty?

wow..

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u know how pretty gurls are all like "no im not pretty,stop playin" well im not like that people r like ur pretty and only once and a while ill be modest and be like no im not but ...not 2 sound like im braggin' oa somethin but i think i am pretty but no guy i know a lot likes me....y is that?the guys who like me r the ones i just meet

maybe they just like u as a friend nd think ure cool that way nd not as a gf hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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Omfg I was just outside, and its raining really hard. I was just sitting out in the rain. Is there somthing wrong with that?????? Please tell me if there is a problem with liking rain..bcuz when somone saw me they fucking went crazyyyy. They were yelling get the fuck inside, and acting like i was going to kill myself!!!!!! I am sooo mad!! It was my fucking brother too. TEll Me the truth. IS it wrong to like the rain and go outside when its raining??? I mean this is the first time iv done it but everyone in my family acts like its sooo damn horrible!! plz help. They make mee feel so fucking stupid. like im crazy or somthing for doing that. My bro thoguth i was trying to get struck by lightning!!! AHHHHH is wut i did sooo wrong????

what?? if sumbody did that to me id smack off the head!! lol!!! i go out in the rain all the time!! this one time i was dancin in the rain in my pajamies nd my frend pushed me in the pool nd they went see through... (not cool!) lol!! thats the only time that it would be bad! lol!! have fun!! dancin in the rain is f*ckin awesome!! lol!! hope i helped!!

.:Keryn:.

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Im a twin. Were both 5'4 except im 94 pounds and shes 104 pounds. Im getting harassed constantly. they say "o shes the anerexic twin", "well thats how u tell them apart, ones anerexic", nd just regular stuff like hey anerexic girl n stuff like that. they even call me mary kate! should o try to gain a little weight or should i just deal wit it? thanx

tell them to fuck off lol!
.:Keryn:.

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how do i pee out of this some tiny hole?

wow ure such a fuckin idiot, paul!!! u take it nd u shove it up ure ass!!! haha!!

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My boyfriend is always giving me hickeys and I really want to give him one. I've never gave one before, so how do I actually do it? Alls I know is you have to suck on the neck, but exactly how do you give someone a hickey?

thats really like all it is, its just like suckin on the guys neck! its fun lol hope i helped!!
.:Keryn:.

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okay well im turning 13 in november... and i havnt gotten my period yet... is that abnormal??? all my friends got theirs already?? if ya help me out then thanx!

Kati

thats perfectly normal my frend is 14 gonna be 15 idk wen nd still hasnt gotten hers so don worry ure not the only one! hope i helped!

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