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hi, i have this problem:
There is this boy who is my cousins best friend and he likes me he is not my type ,but he treats me so nice he buys me things,he takes me to the movies ,he pays my way in and every thing but to me he is not that cute. Every one says he is so cute in my family but i wonder what my friends might think. Should i go with him and be with a wonderful boy or miss my opratunity. pease tell me what i should do ?

sicearly
cluelesss teen

hey.. you have to know if you like him or not.. he cant buy your heart.. if this guy isnt your type and you dont like him dont use him for his money and be with him when you dont have an interest in him.. you guys could be friends.. and it doesnt matter what your friends or family think, its your life and you can do what you want.. and if hes a great guy who you just dont think is cute.. maybe you should give him a chance.. but if you dont feel comfortable thats ok.. hope it helps

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so ive liked this guy at school forever. weve both always had bf/gf this year though. well were both single now and weve been getting close. we hangout all the time at school and every1 thinks we go out. he said he doesnt want a relationship right now though. at school he puts his arm around me and hugs me forever and on the wekeends hell hold my hand and kiss me and stuff. but he wont kiss me at school. not even a little peck. he kissed his ex all the time though! and he tells me he loves me and calls me babe and calls me every single nite. hes reallly sweet. well i didnt see him last weekend so he said hell "save a kiss for me on monday" monday came, he didnt kiss me. today i was kind of bummed so i wasnt talking alot and he could tell i was mad and kept asking me. my friend eventaully told him what i was upset at. so before we left he hugged me for like 5 minutes and said srry but were at school..i was like yea w/e and walked away. well he called me today after school and he was like your mad because i wont kiss you at school and i was just like no im not whatever. he was like just wait for the weekend babe. im getting soo frustrated. its not even a big deal but ive been through soo much shit with guys and hes the one guy who is so sweet. why wont he just ask me out!? ughhh what can i say/do about this?..

i think you should be happy this guy likes you.. your getting mad over nothing.. so he wont kiss you in school so what? do you need to have people watch you kiss? this guy is being so sweet to you.. let him figure out what he wants and maybe hell eventually ask you out.. if not, thats his decision

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is it weird if someone ((a guy)) rights a song for you ((he likes me ALOT)) and sings it to you on the phone? it seems weird to me

sweet.. in a weird way

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a girl at my school has been going through a very tough time lately. her dad left 3 weeks ago and she just found out that she might be pragnant. this would be much easier if she WASN'T 13!!! but she is and we are best friends. im the only one that knows about the pregnant thing. what do i tell her i rate high for a real answer
thanx

her mom has to know shes pregnant, or atleast someone does. just support her and stay by her.. tell her everything is going to be ok.. just comfort her and bring her to the hospital so she can find out what shes going to do with the baby.. she needs a friend most right now and your a good person for being there

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I have been going out with this girl for about a month an da half and now people are telling her that i'm saying things that i never said in my life. Now she thinking about breaking up with me and I love this girl so much I can't live without her. What sould i do to keep her in me life

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lilt

tell her what they say isnt true and that you love her more than anything. prove to her that you love her by spending time with her and giving her little gifts and being sweet. if she doesnt believe you then thats her loss. shes not a good girlfriend if she doesnt trust you

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My two friends are in an argument over a dress. I know it's stupid, but it just needs to end.
My friend went to the mall on Friday night and got a dress. Then on Sunday, my other friend went and got the same exact dress, only she didn't know the first one had already gotten it. We feel that whoever got the dress first should have it. That's the way our grup of friends has always agreed on these things. The friend who got the dress second went back to the mall and returned it- but got the same dress in a different color. Now they're arguing over it, and who should rightfully have it. I believe the two of them should either suck it up and deal with it, or both just get a new dress and not even worry about this anymore. Any input?

well if one of them has a problem with the other one having a dress like them they can get a new dress themselves. they didnt know theyd get the same one so its neither of their faults. if they both have a problem with it they can both get a new dress.. if one of them does then she can get a new dress and the other one can keep hers.. thats lame to be fighting over that

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my crush doesnt like me anymore and i loved him now that i found out im hurtin so bad. i feel like my world has ended. i wanna cheer up help! f/13

look your 13.. theres so much more out there! who hasnt gone through someone they like not liking them? it happens to all of us and we all move on.. go out with your friends flirt with other guys.. have fun!

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14/m
There is one girl I like a lot. Everyone talks about me liking her around her and amongst themselves. However, she shows no interest in me and talks a lot with another guy that I don't like. Is there any possible way that I can get her to like me?

well if she doesnt like you, thats her decision. but you can try to get her to like you.. be yourself and be confident but not cocky. make her laugh and just try talking to her alot.. good luck

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ok, i'm am in love with this one girl. and we've went out before but she said that she wasn't ready. (that was about a year ago)ok lately i've been hearin that she hates my guts and that she likes one of my friends.and me and her haven't talked since last year. so wat do i do? (rate very well)

thanks

first of all find out if its true that she hates you.. start to talk to her and be a little flirty. compliment her and show her you are interested.. if she doesnt like you then life goes on.. youll meet more girls.. you dont need her.. need any more help just ask.. good luck

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... i love my boyfriend and never want to leave him .... its just sometimes ... i dont and i want to kill myself because he never seems happy with me ... he get irritated and even slaps me sometimes. But i dont want to break up! Please help ... I dont know what else to do

~ Hurtin' on the outside

if he ever slaps you again dump his ass.. dont take any shit like that from a guy you dont deserve it.. you just have to talk to him and tell him you love him and that you dont know if he feels the same.. i know you dont want to break up but you have to be strong.. never ever let a guy hit you

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Ok I am not happy with my life right now....and I have no idea why...I have friends and a bf who cares soo much about me...I'm a good student and I'm Secretary of my class at school...I have a lot going for me but I feel so empty inside...Please dont think that this is just for attention because thats why I cant tell my friends how I feel...I just feel like I need help...most of those things I said above were true but I messed up most of my friendships and lied to my bf about things. I'm a cutter and a snapper and I need help sorting out my life.

maybe you should try meditating or talking to a psychologist, it would help. maybe somethings wrong in your family, or you feel guilty about your friends and bf. whatever is bothering you is in your past, and you have to accept your past, its not something you can change. cutting wont help you sort out your life, all teenagers are confused.look at the better things in life and just enjoy being a teenager. hope it helps

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do you think its possible to acctually fall in true love in the 7th grade? i know everyone always says you dont find love until youre older, but i think ive found the perfect person. seriously... if someone asked me to change somethinmg about him, i would say no, he needs no changing. ive gone out with him three times and all three times we broke up for stupid reasons. hes always there for me, and always makes me feel like the smartest, prettiest, most unique person in the planet. he is willing to listen to my views on things, and trys really ard to make me happy. he is artistic, yet hes also a football player. hes really hot but i SWEAR thats not why i love him. well, i think you get my point so ill be quiet now. Tell me what you think! thanks - i rate high unless your response really sucks.

it is possible, i know because one of my friends parents went out in 7th grade and have been together ever since, they have 4 kids and they are happily married. it doesnt happen very often, but you never know. i wouldnt want to do that personally, becuase you'll never know what else is out there and you wont be able to have more experiences because youll be spending most of your time with your bf. but hey whatever floats your boat.

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i need some backup for this:
this "Gangsta rap" dude at school slapped one and punched another girl in the middle of the hallway two days ago. needless to say he got suspended. I work with one of the girls and the guy. he is a lazy grocery bagger, she's also a bagger.
Question: need opinions from both sexes on the issue of "guys can't hit girls". personally, i want to thrash him within an inch of his life, as do most of the other guys i have talked to. is that a bad thing?
other info: he's done it before, and has had his ass kicked multiple times for it.
did i mention that he also dresses like a drug dealing lowlife? oh yeah i did, stupid kids trying to live like gangsters in suburbia.
-hilter

guys cant hit girls.. hes a woman beater if he does.. guys are usually stronger than girls and i dont mean to say that girls are weak, but all the defense we have is hitting them in the balls.. on the other hand i think girls can hit guys.. guys are just stronger and they are supposed to care about girls and defend them.. another guy should beat up a guy who hit a girl, its definately not a bad thing. he needs to learn a lesson

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Hey my girlfriend broke up with me like 3 weeks ago but i still love her so much she came over my friends house last night with my friends X and we had like 30 ppl there and she knew all of them but she only talked to me i still love her with all my heart but i dont know what to do should i ask her back out??

I rate high if its good

i think you should wait a little and see if she likes you still.. if she seems to be flirting with you alot and interested in you more than anyone.. ask her out again.. if not, there are plenty of other girls out there, youll move on.. good luck

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for history class i have to do a poster about racism, but i need solutions. can you think of any solutions to end racism?

there is always going to be racism.. you can stand up and say we are all equal but there are evil people out there who will never change their minds (KKK) you cant end it.. theres always going to be atleast 1 person in the world who is racist

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hi there people really bother me in school, i dont have much friends and they all tease me. boys call me a mutt and a dog and disguting pig, im not fat though and im not reallly ugly. girls bark and moo at me and push me and im sick of it, i have 2 bestfriends but they dont stick up for me. if these people knew what i been through like, my dad died when i was 6 and my bothers friggen a crack head, ligit and my sisters a big whore who doesnt talk to the whole fam.. i dont have anyone and im sick of it, what should i do?

people are really big assholes so fuck them!! you dont need them.. try to look at the better things in life.. work hard in school and some day your going to have a great life.. you have to accept your past, you cant change that.. all you can change is the present.. dont let anyone put you down, stick up for yourself.. hope it helps

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well here it goes. might be long.. well me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a year.. and i hve noticed now that i am losing alot of my friends over him :-/ bc it seems like he is all i ever have time for and the only person i am ever with. i miss all my friends alot and i dont kno what to do.. i love him alot and we hve been goin out alot.. but sometimes friends r more important but, i never get to spend any time with them... or as much as i would like.. seems like im not invited many places as i used to be and my friends jus dont hve much interest in me bc im jus the girl with a boyfriend thats no longer fun. i dont kno what to do bc i kno it would be hard to break it off.. but jus sometimes with him is jus not the best and it seems like everything i do makes him mad but i cant get mad at him. dont get me wrong we do hve some great times together but i think we might jus need to go our seperate ways but every other time i hve tried breakin up i ended up wantin him back soo bad! and i jus dont kno what to do.. please give me some help and maybe leave a sn so i can contact you

signed::
xox lover OR friends?

ok my best friend is exactly like you.. and me and my friends get upset alot because she is ALWAYS with him.. you have to make time for your friends.. boyfriends come and go but best friends last forever.. tell your boyfriend you want to spend some time with your friends.. have a girls night and have your boyfriend over in the day or something.. you dont have to break up with him just to make time for your friends.. hopefully he will understand you.. hope it helps

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ok can some one please help me here
my gf keeps getting her ass smacked by dudes and its realy getting me pissed off anyway should i beat the liveing shit out of the guys who are doing it? or just tell them to stop?

just tell them to stop and if they dont then you can beat the shit out of them :-)

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OMG, I am so frustrated right now, because I just went shopping and must have tried on over 20 pairs of jeans, and every single one of them was big in the butt. I went shopping last week, too, and still nothing. I have the smallest butt in history. I feel like I'm gonna have to walk around naked the rest of my life! What am I gonna do? Does anyone know of any stores or brands that sell their pants with smaller butt sizes? Please don't suggest Hollister, but I'm totally poor! We tried that today and they were like, $80! I've tried Vanilla Star, L.E.I., Mudd, Arizona, Paris Blues, Union Bay, and other regular brands, and I've also tried Aeropostale. Does anyone else have this problem? Where do you shop at? Thank you so much.
x3 Erin

yup samee problem here! i know you dont want me to suggest hollister.. but they do have good jeans.. i mean when i first got them they were big in the butt but after washing them a few times they fit perfectly.. and the hollister jeans i bought were 40 dollars.. some of their jeans are 80 but look for the more regular ones.. they are cheeper.. you can also try looking for jeans at this store called wet seal.. im not sure if there is one by you but if there is their jeans fit well.. hope i helped

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Hey i my girlfriend broke up with me becasue i have something like bio polar anger problems and we got in a fight and i fought back 4 once and she dumped me me and my friend thought she kinda liked me a little but i just found out she doesnt me but i really really still love her and i didnt mean to scream and theres no hope to get her back but i love her still and cant get her out of my mind

dont worry.. its ok.. did you tell her about your anger problems? did you tell her how sorry you were? if she doesnt understand you shes not worth it.. there are plenty of girls out there, every relationship has its end...
"dont cry because its over.. smile because it happened"

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