im 17 and i love giving and getting advice no subject is to weird OR tabo for me so im open to one and all love to hear from you and im honest i say it like it is theres no pretense with me!!!!!!!!!!
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how can i impress a guy so he can like me? if its possible because i like this guy but i want to get closer to him before i ask him out? (link)
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honey flirt flirt flirt become his friend but be careful dont so friendly so that he views you as one of the guys let him know what you want and you plan on gettin what you waht and it happens to be him lol
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What is the title and who is the artist(a female) of the song that goes like this: "Just a day, just an ordinary day....Just a boy, just an ordinary boy...But he was looking up at the sky" Or something like that;). Please do tell me if you know.
Thanks in advance! (link)
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venesia carlton sorry i cant spell
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Are side bangs for anyone or does it depends on the shape of your head, how thick your hair is, etc because I want side bangs but I don't know if it'll look good on me every girl in my class has this beautfil skinney longish head but I got this fat round square-ish one with poofy thick hair (link)
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i think it does matter how your hair is shaped i once tried this bang cut a long time ago that it cut straight or whatever and everybody had it cut like that and oh my my my did i look abosoultly horrible and just cause everybody else them doesnt mean you have to fuck them dare to be different it does has its benifits but if you want a new hair style ask a styleist and go on the web or look in hair mags to see whitch one you like and whitch one will suit your face better goodluck my inbox is always open if you need help oh p.s i dont have a lean skinny face im actucally a little square and chubby in the face to and side bangs looks fine on me so im told.
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me and my boyfriend have been going out since 4th march.. thats nearly one n a half months..
and all weve done is huggeD?? is ther something wrong.. its hard because i always give me friends advice about love and taking it to the next step, but i can;t even take on my own advice and do it myself. i don't know if its me or him. his always the one whos hugging me so it must be me. he sent a message the other night saying '' i love you, do you think we should take our relationship to the next level '' and i replied '' yes '' and then nothing after that.. we sat next to each other in the movies and nothing still happened~!! pls i need help.
thanks
love julia xxx (link)
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man oh man do i know how that feels im the same why i give advice but i just cant bring my self to take my own what the fuck right but ok i think you want to take to the next level but your nervous to make the first move i mean really make the first move i know how that feels but if you want to you need to take what you want i know easier said than done but your cant sit on the sidelines forever u know what i mean kiss him and if you cant bring yourself to actually take his head and kiss him when your alone or at the movies calmly say or whisper and say hey "DO YOU WANT TO MAKE OUT " AND THAN WINK AND IF HE TAKES THE HINT THE HARD PART IS OVER and let him do the rest i know its hard but you wont get anywhere unless you make known in what you want goodluck let me know what happens go get him lol my inbox is always open if you need any more help
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Ok, im 14/f. My boyfriend doesnt think i love him anymore, he thinks im back to liking him. but i dont kno wut i think.
How do I kno if I do or not? And sumtimes i kno i do but other times i question it. And he wrote me a note sayin a whole bunch of stuff saying he still loves me and he dont kno wut to do and he thinks that i stopped loving him and im only liking him now.
and if i tell him wut i think or feel he'll get mad at me again and i cant have him get mad at me again or he'll prolly break-up with me...
wut do i do? how do i kno.. & please dont say that i should if i like/love him or not.
Thanx in advance!! (link)
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your both young and maybe your going through purptery which can really get your emotions in a tangle and like you said sometmes you feel like you really love him but other times your not so sure well think how come you love him some days and others you dont your sending out mixed emotions and you should take the time to figure out why you obviously still care for him because you dont want him to break up with you but maybe you dont care as much as you used think about it do you think that ur'll be better of without him goodluck and rember your still young and you have time but dont get stuck in a relationship that you dont want so decide do you or dont you i know its hard but oh well i hope i helped goodluck my inbox is always open if you help
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pplease give me tips on how to grind at dances and clubs. PLEASE ILL RATE U EXTEREMLY HIGH =] (link)
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easier do ur thing rub up aganist him dance sexy make him want you and tease tease tease but not to the point that your practially humping him you know so sexy dancing. if you need help watch mtv
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I have a friend who recently travelled to India, and brought me back some little jars of coconut oil.. she says it is common to usecan in your hair as a conditioner. Should I use it after shampooing on wet hair, then rinse out? Or is there another method? (link)
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well if its used as a conditionar use it after your done doing shampooing but to be on the safe side i would try it out both ways because every body's hair receats different hope i helped plus its new and just because it worked on a friend dosent mean it'll come out great on you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
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So my best friends Mandy and Pheobea are mad at me because I have a friend named larissa that used to be my best friend but they hate her and I used to be mad at her after she told me she didnt want to be my best friend any more, and Mandy and Pheobea still didn't like her and I had a sleep over with Larissa and Mandy and Pheobea got mad at me because i did and they also got mad at me because they think I said bad things about them to Larissa but I didnt and they didnt believe me. Now they absolutedly hate me. What should I do?
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maybe there feeling jelousy thinking that there not important or that there gonna be second best and just because they dont like Larissa doesnt mean that you should drop her as a friend you cant choose tell your friends that they might be mad but at least you were fair and didnt choose one over the other and that deserves respect and about mandy and pheobea thinking that your talking about them obviously you guys have more issues than you think because there dont trust you and basically calling you two face in a nice way so talk to them and find out why they dont trust you and p.s if they think your talking about them there probley talkin about you to what comes around goes around goodluck and remeber your friend ship really couldnt be that great if theres no trust i hope i helped peace
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how exactly do you have phone sex??? what do you do?? (link)
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you have phone sex the same way you have text sex or what ever you just talk dirty "like what are you wearing" "r you naked i wish i was there"
"if i was there i would ......... you know be creative its bascially masterbating pretending that the other person is doing it for you it could be kinda sexy if you ask me but it could be borning so the challanege is to make him want the real thing lol do your thing
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Do fat people get boyfriends//girlfriends?
Cause the basic trend is dieting your butt off and you rarely see 'fatties' getting bf//gfs.
I'm pretty fat will i get a bf? I mean I hve faith I'll get married and stuff but will i get a bf who will appreciate me? (link)
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im chubby myself and yes your'll get boyfriends maybe not as much as skinny gurls but you will it just takes time and hey look at it this will at least your'll know that they love you for you and not how you look and there not shollow now thats hard to find so hang in there u can do it and if you dont get a boyfriend fuck them you can do better you dont have to starve yourself to get a date
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if you only make yourself throw up like 3-4 times a week, and you dont over eat before you make yourself throw up, are you still considered to have bullemia? (link)
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YES AND URGE YOU IF YOU DO MAKE YOURSELF THROW UP STOP many people suffer from bullemia its a disease that you cant get rid of easily its almost as addicting as drugs u ruin your body and if you throw up enough you throw up your insides it causes more damage than you know so i urge if you do get help! it'll ruin your life
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Okay I have an ex boyfriend that won't get the hint that I am in a loving relationship., well today he decided to call me and was mad because I might be pregnant. Well anyways he told me that he still wants to be friends and everything he just didn't want me to tell him about me and my boyfriend. Which it's hard to do, because I love him so much. But what really upsets me is that we were supposed to be friends, when he just told me tonight he doesn't care what I do, but that he still loves and misses me and wished he could have me back, what am I supposed to do? Keep being friends with him, or tell him where to get off at???? (link)
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personally i wouldnt be freinds with him anymore its obvious he still cares for you and its killing him and its gonna cause unnessarcy problem for you and him the less he talks to you the easier it is for him to let go you guys arent ready to be friends i hope i helped and i know its hard to let go but it'll be easier and fair to the both of you i hope i helped
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ok,my problem is that im too skinny, im 13 and 106 pounds not that healthy if you ask me.my spine is always showing and its really starting to make me feel scared that i might have anorexia.
how do i gain weight without getting two fat? (link)
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eat foods with high protein eat starches and you know pig out once in a while but rember to remain with a health diet hope i helped goodluck and you cant be anorexia if you dont eat
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i recently replaced coffee with green tea. will this benefit me in any way? (link)
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yes yes yes green tea is one of the healthest thing you can drink is a natural herb and its great to loose weight and give you the vietims and proteins that your body needs great choice fuckin A
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What is dry sex?? i dont understand what it is? it is really bad? or something innocent the name makes it sound like its close to sex (link)
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well in my eyes dry sex is humping you know your having sex or should i say your doing all the sex movements but with your clothes on you know
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So this guy we are basicly dating and he is really cute and really sweet. He like gives me lil kisses on my hand and on my cheek and tells me how beautiful i am but i`m sort of scared. There are other guys that like me including two of my exs that are going to be mad and never talk to me again. One of my exs I was inlove w/ but he hurt me really bad emotionaly. I mean i do like this guy that i`m going out w/ i just dont know what to do.. help please! (link)
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well your obviouly having douts abouts this guy your seeing now he sounds nice and sweet but sometimes we dont always go for the sweet ones but your worried about what your ex's think why and your ex's are your ex's for a reason so choose do you think you and this guy your dating now could go somewhere or do you think your'll never feel for him the way he feels for you and if thats the case be fair to him and go dont hurt him anymore than nesaccarry but if you want to give him a chance and maybe have a love or stronger relationship than both your ex's than stay but the choice is up to you do you want to learn from your mistakes or make new ones and hope it was worth it because some mistakes dont always turn out to be bad i know life is so fucking complicated but i hope i helped and everything worked out for the best peace
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I care about my boyfriend ALOT im love him soooo much. We have been together for 6 months. The problem is that he does stupid shit to piss me off ALL the time. We fight what it seems like everyday. When i get pissed at him i think that i could find someone who treats me so much better but then i think i love him so much. What should i do? Because i dont want to loose him but he doesnt listen. And its like hes using it to his advantage that i wont break up with him. (link)
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ok since you said that he always pisses you off find out the main thing that pisses you off and if hes using you for his advantage break up with him dont let him use you but i know its easier said than done but just show him that it doesnt mean that your'll never break up with him and just cause you said its over it doesnt mean that its over but remeber two many gurls unfourtantly fall victium to abusive and or guys to how use them so make your desicion wisely i hope i helped
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Can you get a pimple, down there? I've been recently tested for STD's and everything came back clean. I popped it and everything. I was wondering if it could be a pimple, because that's what it looks like. (link)
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yeah i think so i think i had one or two it goes away beleive and i dont think that its even really that noticable but i felt it i dont know where you got yours but i got mine on the lip hope i helped
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this is probably the stupidest question ever. lol but if your on birth control would it be ok for the guy to cum inside of you? and have sex without a condom? (link)
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its not a stupid question but yeah women or gurls who are on birth control is so they can have sex without a condom thats one of the reasons birth control is used but just like a condom its not 100% effective theres always a chance of getting pregnet nothings 100% effective i hope i helped
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I didn't see my best friend for like two years when she left to Canada, but she recently visited for two weeks and it was great and everything, but I'm wondering if anyone has any good ideas of something I could make for her or give her to take with her as a memory? I took tons of pictures, and we even have songs now, but I don't know if I should just make her a box with a letter, a CD, and maybe a few gifts in it and some pictures? Does anyone have any ideas or has done anything like this before?
I'm sixteen/f, btw. (link)
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actually thats a great idea make a memory box i know it doesnt sound like much but believe me its better than buying her something put a photo album in the box of you and her and all the fun times you guys shared write little letters like "hey you remember this" or "do you remeber when u "
U know leave things from the past and present so she'll always have something to remeber you buy i hope i helped
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