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Ok, im 14/f. My boyfriend doesnt think i love him anymore, he thinks im back to liking him. but i dont kno wut i think.
How do I kno if I do or not? And sumtimes i kno i do but other times i question it. And he wrote me a note sayin a whole bunch of stuff saying he still loves me and he dont kno wut to do and he thinks that i stopped loving him and im only liking him now.
and if i tell him wut i think or feel he'll get mad at me again and i cant have him get mad at me again or he'll prolly break-up with me...
wut do i do? how do i kno.. & please dont say that i should if i like/love him or not.
Thanx in advance!!
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hey, alright well i know you said not to say this, but its so true. love is not a maybe thing, you know when you love someone. i can already tell that you dont love him because you said that you only feel like you do sometimes. i believe that its just a strong like and that your holding on to him and the relationship out of habit. you need to talk to him about it. the two biggest parts of relationships are trust and comfort. if your not comfortable around your partner and cant talk to them comfortably about your feelings, thats also another problem. he shouldnt get mad at you for expressing your feelings or if your feelings have changed for him. if he does, hes immature and obviously not ready for a relationship. i wish you luck.
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your both young and maybe your going through purptery which can really get your emotions in a tangle and like you said sometmes you feel like you really love him but other times your not so sure well think how come you love him some days and others you dont your sending out mixed emotions and you should take the time to figure out why you obviously still care for him because you dont want him to break up with you but maybe you dont care as much as you used think about it do you think that ur'll be better of without him goodluck and rember your still young and you have time but dont get stuck in a relationship that you dont want so decide do you or dont you i know its hard but oh well i hope i helped goodluck my inbox is always open if you help
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I know you said not to say this but that is the real answer to your dilemma. If you love someone you just know you do - you wouldn't need to ask yourself if you do or ask others if they think you do. If you have doubts about it, as you do, then that might be a sign that there is a problem. It may even be that you do love him but his own doubts have also made you start to doubt it.
Either way you shouldn't be afraid to talk to him about it. He has no reason to get mad at you just because how you feel about him has changed or because you are unsure about how you feel so don't let him get mad at you or feel you have done something wrong. This is all part of the relationship thing and it sometimes happens, you can't always avoid it.
If you really are very unsure about how you feel take some time to yourself and have a think about it. I don't mean go on a break because I find the general idea of going on a break (at least the definition of what a lot of people think a break is anyway) to be really stupid but just take a couple of days to yourself to have a think about things. If he will break up with you at the end of all of this just remember even though it will hurt, you are young and you will find someone else. Every relationship has its risk that it won't work out.
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