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Q: here it goes my friends that are mad at me keep calling me and saying that they gonna make a fool out of me and i noe they will cuz they so friggin mean well do u noe what i should do.
i have had this problem before. Just ignore them. I had friends like that and i just got new ones. i just ignore them but things dont get better they still annoy me but i don't care. I just dont mess with them and i am fine now because i was the better person. hope my advice helped!
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Q: confused gurl,

next year me and my bestest friend are splitin up i am so scared that we will forget about each other i dont want that 2 happen.

HELP- =(
adventully you will uless you dont live to far away from each other. You will move on. I have moved alot and i had a lot of best friends. and i moved alot so i had to make new ones so. hope i helped
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Q: What does the term "in heat" mean when referring to animals? I just know it's somthing sexual..
A female animal goes in to it when it is mating season. You can get your animals fixed so that doesnt happe. When it does happen, male animals can restist but to mate with a female in heat. Hop i helped
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Q: im thinkin of gettin a pet but i dont no wot to get. i have 2 cats and 1 fish. has ne 1 got ne ideas they will really help thanx love tammy gal
get a dog. they are great pets for anyone! they are loyal and fun to play with. Get a jack russel they are so cute or maybe even a shitzu those are cuz too. Hope i helped
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Q: i just got a pet..its a goldfish..what should i name him?
well i have 3 fish. They are nemo dory and gloat. me and my friend got the names from the love Finding Nemo. Try looking at things you like to name it. If i got another goldfish i would name is hamm because i like soccer and i like Mia hamm. hope i helped
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Q: what do you do when your friends b/f starts following you between different class periods and your best friend gets mad because she thinks me and her b/f are goin out ,,,,what do i do
try telling your friend that you dont like him
and he is hers and ask her if can can ask her boyfriend why he is stalking you. If he says he likes you tell him that you dont like him like that and ask him polietly to stop following you and make sure to tell your friend everything you said and he said. and if he doesn't stop get a RESTRAINING ORDER AND PUT HIM IN JAIL!!! just kidding just try to work things out and see what is up with this kid. Hope i helped
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Q: I love to dance..a lot..i do ballet ..pointe shoe...and i do tap, but i have another passion..i love to act and do commercials. when i was younger i audtionend for an agent and got one, i then was on sesame street..for a couple of years and i did comercials. but when i was 6 or 7... i had to quit. now tht i am at a higher age i want to enroll in that type thing...but i do to much dancing, and my mom is making me choose ..what do i do?
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for now if you are young try going for the dancing goal and ask you get older try out for acting and try to get in to julard. hope i helped
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Q: well... i hang out with friends like everyday! an there are like 4 guyz who really like me but last nite, my mom forgot to pick me up an it wuz like 11:00 an i heard will, frankie, an steve in steves back yard yellin at the tv. so i went there untill my mom picked me up. an well my didnt ppick me up till like 2 in the mornin, but frankie kept saying he loved me, an that he wanted me to go out with him really bad an everything.. but the 3 other guyz say that too but im just to confused because we went in the hott tub an steve an will started to flirt wit me an frankie kept grabbin me an sayin he loved me an that he wanted me an everything im just really really really confused CAN SOMEONE HELP PLZZ!!! 14/f/ny
Umm yeah go with who you think you know the most and like the most. Don't just go with the hottest guy. go with the guy you like and care for and always make sure that he cares for you. By the way DONT THINK ABOUT HAVING SEX WITH ANY OF THESE BOYS BECAUSE YOU ARE TO YOUNG TO EVEN BE THIKING ABOUT THAT! Hope i helped
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Q: this year, our my grade got a new student. he sat at the table next to mine in lunch. The second i saw him, i felt like i knew him and i felt like i needed to be friends with him. He is on my bus also and i found many times he would turn around and look at me. Then we started talking on AIM and eventually he would turn around in lunch and sit at my lunch table. Recently this summer, he asked me to hang out with him and he even ditched the girl he liked to hang out with me all day and then he told her he had fun with me and my other friend. He talks to me more now and he told me to call him once to make plans to hang out. Why did i feel like i need to be his friend so much since i saw him, and what does this all mean? I dont feel like i like him or any thing but im confused with what direction our friendship is goin in because sometimes we talk alot and then sometimes we dont talk at all. Im confused...
i think that you do like him but oyu are not sure why so you just think you dont like him. I think he likes you the same way but he doesnt no y so he ignoring liking you that way.Just talk to him and see whats up. Maybe you wanted to be his friend because maybe you thought he maybe a good person to talk to and possibly you thought he was cute. hope my advice helped
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Q: hey im katie (( female )) i weight 160 .. im also 5'6 and 14 .. i know im only supposed to weigh like 140 sumpthyn but i cant seem to lose weight i hate the way i look my parents are always giving me a hard time i cry sometimes because i cant be a size 5 or even a 7 or 9 i try so hard to diet and work out but nuthyn seems to work for me i get so depressed sometimes cause of the way i look i hate going to the beach and stuff with my tummy and i have the hardest times finding cute cholthes that fit meh right i always get stuck with oversized shirts i need help i mean i dont really have any questions i just need help to make meh feel better ;; much love Katie Sumner
Katie, dont be so worried about oyur weight. Never let your parents bring you down like that. my sister has the same problem and sh eis very active and she is loosing weight. Try joining sports such as basketball softball something that can make you active. Join track or atleast run a couple miles everyday. All i can say is watch what you eat. Check to low carbs. and low calories. With every meal try eating a whole tamato. The best thing to do is go to a nutritionist.

Q: this guy wanted me to break up with someone for him.. so i did because i really liked him but when i did he starts pretty much ingoring me.. and doesnt talk about liking me and is in love with this other gurl.. I cant move on that easily because i had been with that guy for 5 months!.. so does anybody have idea on how to move on? thanks so much!
maybe he asked you because you were the only girl he thought who was right for the job. Just because he called you to have you break up with his girlfriend for him doesn't always mean that he likes you and believe me i know. I have had that happen to me before. but i hope i helped.
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Q: my best friend and i have a "fling" going and his g/f is getting really mad that we hang out ... hes having issues dumping her ... should we do?
Ok you should know this. your friend and you are having a "fling" and your friend is a boy. He has a girlfriend. How would you feal if your boyfriend was haning with some girl and not you. how would you feal.You would be mad wouldn't you. If he doesn;t like her tell him not to hurt her and break up with her. hope my advice helped! ~*~rate me~*~ jonelle*

Q: Hi, Im 13/f. I went to a party last night, there was no parents. I had sex twice with two diffrent guys and they werent my boyfriend. Is this wrong? Am i a slut? What should i do?! please help, and tell the truth! thanks!!
I am 13 too. In my point of view that is wrong. You shouldn't even be thinking about sex at this age! did you use a condom? and what you did is slutty. Please dont take this the wrong way ~*~ rate me~*~ jonelle*

Q: my dog has started rolling around the floor growling and makeing strange noises. Is this normal?
well yeah the dog just wants you to rub its belly for play with it. It is very normal in most dogs ~*~rate me~*~* jonelle*

Q: Alright well Im 16 yrs old..Soon to be 17 and I've slept with 7 different people. Is that considered a slut? I dont think Im skanky or anything, I just enjoy sex! Is that wrong? Im very open about my sexuality and people think Its wrong to be, Alot of people joke around and say that Im a nympho and shit like that..I need advice and I want people to truthfully tell me what they think. Dont be afraid to tell me the truth..Be straight up!! *Thnks*
well to be honest it is a little out of the ordinary considering that you are only 16. Did you even know the guys well that you had sex with? If you don't i am sorry but that is a bit slutty but if that is what you like to do then do it i won't stop you but be careful you could get HIV or AIDS or some sexually translated disease. Just be carefull and be smart use a condom. ~please rate me~ jonelle*

Q: umm im a lil scared becuz wen i jerk off i think of guys does that mean im gay
It may mean that you like guys but maybe just because u are a guy and u have guy parts it just makes you think about guys since guys have what you have. The next time that you decide to give pleasure to yourself try looking at a picture of a girl or think of a girl that you like and take your mind off boys. ~please rate me~ jonelle*

Q: hey, i'm kristen! i'm 13 years old and we live in a good town where nothing bad like eva happens. when my mom isn't home she doesn't let me go ride my bike around the good part of my town, or let any of my friends come over when she's not home. my mom never used to work in the summer but this summer she does. so far this summer all i did was go online and play my softball. my brother gets to go to all of his friends houses on our side of the block, but i'm not. he's 11!!! how can i get my parents to be less strict?
kristen, ask your parents why they let your brother do things you can. Maybe since you are older and "experienced" they think while they are gone, you will do things you are not sopost to. My parent is a little strict. She tells me not to go out past 10:00 but hey live a little but dont do anything illegal. Just talk to your parents and see what they think that you have to say.

Q: I'm a premature ejaculator. Advise me.
Well maybe you are developing faster than you should be. I cant help you with this untill i know how old you are. Please tell ema nd i will get back with you. sry ~*~jonelle~*~

Q: hey tikibikini! in scholl i have alot of friends, and alot of best friends. but for some reason, boys make fun of me. i don't know why! my best friends have had boyfriends that they loved or that they love now. i never had that. i want to have that. but now, theres no body that i really like b/c of something that they said in the past. Can you tell me how i can get some boys to like me? *Always* Mickey
I have the same problem well I used to. Now i am in a relationship that is going to last. You know what, I have a friend who is in that situation. None of the guys like her. They make fun of her and me and my other friends try to find guys that like her or she likes but for some reason they don't like her. Some of the reason is because she is short but she can't help it. Also she has a sweatting problem and there is this guy scott who always spreads rumors about her but anyways. Try hangin with your friends when they are with thir boyfriends and see if thir boyfriends friends hang with them and see how you like them. Finding the right guy isant always easy. The internet is the best place to find boyfriends or people who have the same interest as you. To get boys to like you try being yourself and look for people out of your school if you don't like any of the boys inside of your school or just try to find someone that doesn't make fun of you. I hope i helped you and if you need more advice or any questions just mail me again or you can talk to me on aim. Forever and Always
jonelle

Q: i like 2 cum in girls ears is that normal
That is not normal. Is that sopost to pleasure your partner or you? That is wrong and honsetly believe that you should stop and do that where it is ment to be done at>

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