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this guy wanted me to break up with someone for him.. so i did because i really liked him but when i did he starts pretty much ingoring me.. and doesnt talk about liking me and is in love with this other gurl.. I cant move on that easily because i had been with that guy for 5 months!.. so does anybody have idea on how to move on? thanks so much!
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This guy don't sound like he deserves you... i think that he was just using you...but thats just what i tihnk. You should move on because you can find better! I know it hurts and its really hard but after you move on the pain is ALL WORTH IT! *good luck* ~KiSsEs~
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Well, i would stay by myself for a while . Take a lok around and see if there are any other opinions there for you. Br friends with everyone n sooner or later you'll gain feelings for that person and you'll have moved on.
MIZZ_C
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maybe he asked you because you were the only girl he thought who was right for the job. Just because he called you to have you break up with his girlfriend for him doesn't always mean that he likes you and believe me i know. I have had that happen to me before. but i hope i helped.
~*~rate me~*~
*jonelle
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maybe its just a phase he is going threw..but yeah i would talk to him about it befor u break up..and if he likes this other girl then i would break up with him..because one day he might break up with you and hurt you more..so i would go ahead and hurt him..!
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He probably wants to know that your still stuck on him, and that he would be able to go to you if this other girl doesn't work out. He doesn't seem worth your time.
First, stop doing things like breaking up with other guys for him. I know it's not easy, but just ignore him and occupie your life with friends and guys who will actually treat you right and want you to be happy.
Soon you'll realize that five months is really not a long time at all to be together.
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hey babe i think that maybe he was just wanting to see if he could get you i may probly be wrong but thats what i think juss find some one else you like and just try to stop thinking about him // much love // katie
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try going out n' meeting new people! that alwayz helps cuz once u meet someone new u have someone else to concentrate on instead of someone in the past! or you cud juz try gettin to know a diff guy friend better and maybe there cud be somin between yall! or hey you cud juz enjoy being single and living it up! lol thats alwayz fun :)
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It's the hardest thing in the world to do, but talk to him. Ask him why he pretty much ditched you after you did this for him. Let him know how you feel (regarding him and regarding the situation entirely) and ask him if he still wants to be with you. If his answer is yes, then go for it. If no, then you'll have to think about moving on.
As far as 'moving on' goes, it's hard, I know. I've been there. The best way, I've found, is to go out and meet people. If you feel you must be with somebody, then find somebody else you like and try to get close to them (but don't get too close, it may frighten them a bit). If you just want a friendly relationship, that's easy. Go out more often, hang out with your friends and have them invite more people, go to parties, etc.
I hope this helps.
-Maisie
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