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Website: santos
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Location: mumbai
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Age: 29
Member Since: April 12, 2013
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I Love him so much,I can not live with out him.How can I live?I can not love anyone because I love him so much. (link)
wonderfull that is serious.but you can not mention he love you or not.you know love is life for any one and for other love is nothing they see only for sexsual relationship , .but it depand also other person he love you or not ,one side love never success and other things is time forget all past memories. you wrote, you not live with out him but think when you came on earth you do not know that person but you was living so why you can not live with out him so divert your mind .love is a spritual power,love comes from soul not from mind,you are thinking from your mind .do love as person who love your soul ,not as person who think for sex.so think and analysis that person loves you or not if yes do not live with out him or not just leave.if you find my answer suitable give me feedback by message.


I am a female and I am almost 15. Please do not tell me how stupid I am for letting this happen because I know I am. I really need help. A few days ago (last weekend) me and my boyfriend I guess you could say we had sex? It was in and we were doing things, but he pulled out before he came.. I am late for my period now it normally comes on the 7th and it's now the 9th. I am really nervous and I want to know if I'm just overreacting or if I should go get a pregnancy test? How long would I have to wait from when we did it to take one? Someone please help :'(
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am surprise that you do not sure ,you have had sex or not,you not feel something inside you.you know or not i do not know there are more possiblty for pregnency a week from after or before period .may be or not you are pregnent so wait a week if you not get ,buy a pregnency kit and do test .


I always get bullied for being one f the "fat" girls. And i just don't know how to make them stop. I have starved myself for 3 days and i only lost 6 pounds. I am just sick of this, Everyday i know there is going to be a person who is going to be calling me fat or fatty. I have stayed home for like a week in a half (in total) Just because i didn't want to go to school. But now i am being forced to go because i got a letter from my school saying that if i miss one more day then i will go to Juvenal court. So now every day i have no choice but to go though hell for 8 hours.
So can someone help me and tell me what i can do to loose some weight? (link)
wonderfull story of you .frist i want to tell you if you have starved yourself you lost your health and feel weakness in your body.take advise from dietician .do yoga and join gym .do not take fast food and non vegiterion food .take green vegitable and juice and salad,wake up early morning .am sure you loose your weight after some time and you look smart and healthy.you know baba ramdev is known for yoga guru,buy yoga DVD see it and do yoga according DVD.I AM SURE YOU LOOSE YOUR WEIGHT.


I tested hiv negative on march 20th 2013, after exposing myself to hiv last april 27th 2012, i have was being sick, vomiting mucus and having aches pains, high temp for about 1 week if i remembet correctly last late april beginning of may, this was at home, did not go to hospital, sludgy diahorrea and a lot of trapped wind. Since then i have had hiv test in may 2012 , june 2012, august 2012, october 2012, november 2012, jan 2013, and my last one 25th march 2013 athis was using blood from my arm, what tests are the ones ive had and when they were negative, showing no hiv antibodies, are they accurate and am i definately hiv/aids negative? i still have a neck rash little clear bumps and reddy marks. My tongue still has 4 ulcers in the centre at back of.tongue, my dry cough and dry eyes are still with me, the clinic said to me that i should have been assurrd afyer 3 months window, but as you can see ive had 6 tests over 10 month now its coming close to a year, am i hiv negative or should i be worried still because of some symptoms. I had anal and oral sex last year (link)
to reading your story ,am very sad , .but do not worry take medicine time to time .take advise from well doctor.in your hiv test you have no antibodies so why you are worry .you need counciling because you fell depression, to get out this make your mind healthy and think positive .and you speak that you have some symptoms ,is causes depression .i know many person who are hiv positive and living well ,have no problem .you are in depression so go for counciling .


Hi,I am Jhim.I am 26 years old.I want to die,because my boyfriend hurt me day by day.He do not leave me,but he just talking me very rudely.I love him very much from 2008 that means 5 years.That time he was with out money,with out job.He prayed me to be engaged with him.I did not want any time to be engaged because my parents wanted arrange marriage.He cried that time day by day,I was a soft minded girl so I made a friendship with him.That time also his grlfriend left him.But I did not like him because he was that type of character that I did not like,I did not like his family culture also.But one day I came to know that his office life would be end because he did not work properly in office.So I accepted him.We were happy couple.I thought that as he had not money so what I will do a job.In this long time we met any where but did not spend day by day.Now a days I came to his office to do a job.But he makes rough behaviour with me every day.He make me cry every day.He told me that he will make a house but as I am not a family member of him so I can not make any decision about this.He also told me that after buying that home I have to pay money for emi or for his house as he has not more money.I am telling him day by day to marry me but his family and he just delaying this matter and telling me they will do it immediately.But months go,days go they do not came to any decision.I have 2 sisters and I am elder,there is a problem to make marry for my old parents.They are in tension that when my boyfriend will marry me?They are dreaming.I can not suffer this situation as he make very rough talk with me.He told me that I can not talk any thing in his personal matter.I want to die but my parents will cry for me as they love me.But I am not happy.What can I do?please tell me. (link)
DEAR jhim, keep patience and do not go for suicide I also tried for suicide but not die but i lose my health.i also 30 years old but did not get marriage dozen matter that you are 26 or 28years old. frist things is that you also feel that your boy friend behaviour is not well for you ,you also not like him and their family and culture than that's condition how you can live with him after marry ,analysis in your mind .second things is that he can not take ant decision on his own .so i suggest you leave him and go according with your parents for arrange marriage .and other he also does not any work proper way i think he has no future you also lost your future to get marry with him .so last to here your soul voice ,not mind voice ,mind voice always satisfy ourself.remember soul voice always true and your soul voice is that you not like her you want marrry with him only to remove your parents tension because you are elder in your family so ignore him and seek and suitable match herself.so live for your parents because they love you .for happiness nobody is not happy in this word every one have problem so do not worry about it ,make a goal in your life and keep positive attitude in your mind .i suggest you when you feel problem than touch your heart and speak "ALL IS WELL ,ALL IS WELL"


When I was younger my father would chase me into my room and beat me over the littlest things (ie saying I don't like broccoli), but after he got arrested he stopped, mostly. But now my older brother is taking after him. He is a six-foot-four three hundred pound football player, and has tried to break my neck before, and today punched me in the ribs and now I can't breathe right or move my left arm. When I told my parents they told me to grow up and stop being so dramatic. What can I do? (16-year-old girl) (link)
why are you tolerate it,call the police imedeatly it is a type of crime .ok so police is the last option for you


Are there any singing shows for kids 11 and younger!!!Me and my frinds sing good but no where to show it.Please give us sugestions.Thank you guys!! (link)
frist tell me where are you from? if you want to participate in singing competion ,can join "indian ideal junior" is a singing competion and now going on in mumbai (india)


Hi all,

I'd like to find some new food blogs to follow! I feel like I'm tired of looking at the same ones, but yet just googling for some hasn't given me the results I desire.

I'd like something that's focused on savory foods and simple/basic meals..the kind of foods you can make on a weekday and won't need a million ingredients for. I.e nothing very elaborate and complex.

So what are your favourite blogs or websites that you recommend? :) (link)
well you can login website -foodfood.com or sanjivkapoorfoodfood .com.you can find many foods there


My daughter has been writing poems for several years, and I think she is good. I dont have much money, but I would like for her poems to be published. How do I do that? (link)
ok well ,make contect any publication house and tell your story them if he like your poem as his standards you need no money for publish they can contract with you .


so i was giving my bf oral and he pre cummed . so he wiped most of it off with his hand and we had unprotected for about a minite and he pulled out and he had actual c*m come out a minute ir two after my pants were up .

is there a possibility im pregnant ? (link)
yes it is possible so buy a pregency kit and checked out.


Why does my bf bounce me up and down when i sit in his lap (link)
i am not a mind reader but i sure he want something with you ,so give him he satisfy if you do not like say him to stop it and if like keep continue and take enjoy


Okay so I have this friend who goes up to my school . one day she comes up to me and she tells me she has to tell somthing . she tells me that she's pregnant with twins ! She told me not to tell.
My friend doesn't look pregnant at all !
Then one day she comes up to me again and tells me that she lost one of the twins in the womb ?
And she said she would invite us to the baby shower which she never did .
Then we had a week off of school coming up , during that week she had her baby early . Her baby is premature and the baby is 7 pounds ? And she had no pictures with the baby ? Only pictures of the baby ? She comes back to school after that one week break looking just the same . And she post pictures of her "baby" like she doesn't care who knows . (link)
ok i agree but what was the advise you want exactly so ask question again


Hello everyone! I'm 15/f

There's this boy in my class who LOVES to make fun of me (Let's name him K), or just be straight up rude to me. I used to think he really hated me, but now I'm really not sure....

Let me explain:
He finds times when I'm singing to myself, and he tells me to shut up (to no avail of course) and I tell him how unsuccessful that will be, but he keeps doing so until I feel like stopping.
He makes fun of anything clumsy or stupid that I do.
Any conversation I'm in (I have a low undertone in my voice, so I'm loud when I talk to my friends) he buts in and tells me why he thinks I'm wrong.
I'm a very annoying person (unintentionally), so whenever I do anything that he thinks is annoying, he has to make a comment on it.
He says things like, "Oh no, why is she here?" when I walk into a room, or conversation, or anything like that, that he's in.
He looks at me a lot (thank you, peripheral vision) & I don't know what that's about, to be honest.

But here's the one thing that got me confused:
K knows about my crush. (J) So one day when K & another boy (G) in my class were talking about how a guy that was sitting with them at lunch that day (Curl) had exactly the same hair as my crush's from behind (big bushy, curly hair) and as I sat down, they asked me about it. I told them that his hair didn't really move as much as Curl's did. A split second later I regretted it because both of them were looking at me and G said, "Wow, of course she knows all of that, she likes him!" And then I felt my eyes widen. G says, "she still does!" And then K was about to say, "Yeah, ever since the beginning of the year," but he only said "Yeah, ever since the begin--" and one look at my blushing embarrassed face, stopped him. And he started to blush himself, and kept apologizing to me. The same boy who argues with me everyday, makes fun of me (not like a bully though, don't worry) and is annoyed by me, is being nice to me! He just keeps apologizing & when I look at him, I can see how bad he feels. The whole rest of the period, he didn't ask me for help like he usually does.

My friends keep telling me that since he bothers me a lot, it means he likes me. Is that true? I don't think so...

What do you think? Thanks to all who answer, you are all amazing! I thank you all in advance! (link)
yes it is possible ,frist love started as which you feeling now so do not take tension and go ahead for next step


There's this guy and we've been pretty good friends I guess. I've liked him since the day I layed eyes on him. Buy he's dated so many girls. He's even dating a 15 year old and we are both 12. And my friend said she heard him say he liked me but I think she was just trying to make me feel better or she just wanted to lie to me cause she does that sometimes (that's a whole other story). I see him every Sunday and Wednesday I just don't know what to do. I feel like I'm not cool enough or something ( I know I'm beautiful so that defiantly can't be it lol). I just don't know what I should do I just want to punch him when I see him with another girl and touching her and stuff. (link)
well but in your age attraction for boys is commom,but you know that boy dating with other girl so i thing not better for you so forget and concentrate your study .


Hi! My name is Jake. I'm in 8th grade, going into highschool next year. So, these a girl at my school that's extremely beautiful and nice and caring and she's got a great sense of humor. She's got a great smile, beautiful deep brown eyes and a beautiful figure as well. I began to like her about A year ago, and she didn't really know I existed until about 2 months ago. So I fell in love with her and I want to treat her right and be with her. But she likes one of my friends and I just can't stop thinking about her. Is there any ways I can get her to fall in love with me? She's really important to mead I want to date her, but I don't want to get rejected and ruin my friendship with her. Thanks or help :) (link)
hi jake it is a common problem i suggest you concentrate your study and other thing is that if you like her than speak her you attract her with your inteligency you know girls like 4 things only
1-money
2-if you are inteligent
3-if you have gret personalit
4-if you are genius
so i suggest you attract her from your inteligency in your study

santosh


Nothing makes me feel happy anymore. I have no drive to do anything. I have been to various doctors and taken various medications but nothing helps. Im not sad or anything just really un interested in doing anything.

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well ,i think that is no problem ,you need a friend who can talk o you just enjoy your life with your family and friend i am sure you feel happy ,and when you feel unhappy talk with your friends and read religious and holly book i think you feel happy.

santosh


Im 13 and I want someone.Please i want to tell everything to him/her.I want to......
Please someone give me ur yahoo id. (link)
ok .i can understand our feelings ,here my email id

sachan_anand@yahoo.com.


Is it legal in england for a 13 year old girl to give a 14 year old boy a bj? (link)
no ,it is not legal,the age of consent in england is 16 so it is illegal


What do I do to get him to get him interested again? I don't call him.we only communicate now through Facebook.which is how we met.I really like him.I always respond to him if he pokes.should I back off .make him wonder (link)
really intresting,i will suggest you some day watch his communication and analyz that he is intrested in you or not if yes than say him simply


If someone had intercorse for the 1st time and didnt use any protection is their a posibility that they could become pregna nt? Im just curious. im 13 (link)
you get pregnant at any time it is depend on condition,if you have not period at the time of sex and other condition allowed
but you shoul not go for sex if you have little knowledge .
but am sure frist time any one can not get perfect sex .so do not worry




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