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She's lying about being pregnant
Okay so I have this friend who goes up to my school . one day she comes up to me and she tells me she has to tell somthing . she tells me that she's pregnant with twins ! She told me not to tell.
My friend doesn't look pregnant at all !
Then one day she comes up to me again and tells me that she lost one of the twins in the womb ?
And she said she would invite us to the baby shower which she never did .
Then we had a week off of school coming up , during that week she had her baby early . Her baby is premature and the baby is 7 pounds ? And she had no pictures with the baby ? Only pictures of the baby ? She comes back to school after that one week break looking just the same . And she post pictures of her "baby" like she doesn't care who knows .
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I agree she's lying-but you recognised this yourself in the title-so what was the advice you wanted exactly?
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I am with you. This story sounds fishy. There are some women who can carry their baby sideways and not look pregnant, just like they gained a few pounds. It is possible to being carrying twins and have one die. I have heard stories of teens going to full term and no one knowing they were pregnant, some of these gals had extra weight to begin with that hid the pregnancy.
I wonder how well you know this person. Has she told outrageous, unbelievable stories before?
If it continues, it could be a cry for attention. Perhaps she isn't feeling enough love at home or doesn't feel special. Could be she believes lying about a pregnancy will make her special in her classmates eyes. Or she could be becoming a compulsive liar. This starts in childhood when they live a rocky life to begin with.
Having a baby at a young age while still in school is not something to brag about. Most who truly go through this and have support from their parents, don't want classmates to know. Often times they will pull out of school and go ato a school for pregnant teens if that is feasible.
If she is just a classmate you know, I wouldn't worry too much about her. If she is a very close friend, you might want to keep an eye on that and watch for any other strange behavior. If you spot something that looks like she might be thinking of hurting herself or be suicidal, then you must act and tell a school counselor.
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