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How can I do suicide?
Hi,I am Jhim.I am 26 years old.I want to die,because my boyfriend hurt me day by day.He do not leave me,but he just talking me very rudely.I love him very much from 2008 that means 5 years.That time he was with out money,with out job.He prayed me to be engaged with him.I did not want any time to be engaged because my parents wanted arrange marriage.He cried that time day by day,I was a soft minded girl so I made a friendship with him.That time also his grlfriend left him.But I did not like him because he was that type of character that I did not like,I did not like his family culture also.But one day I came to know that his office life would be end because he did not work properly in office.So I accepted him.We were happy couple.I thought that as he had not money so what I will do a job.In this long time we met any where but did not spend day by day.Now a days I came to his office to do a job.But he makes rough behaviour with me every day.He make me cry every day.He told me that he will make a house but as I am not a family member of him so I can not make any decision about this.He also told me that after buying that home I have to pay money for emi or for his house as he has not more money.I am telling him day by day to marry me but his family and he just delaying this matter and telling me they will do it immediately.But months go,days go they do not came to any decision.I have 2 sisters and I am elder,there is a problem to make marry for my old parents.They are in tension that when my boyfriend will marry me?They are dreaming.I can not suffer this situation as he make very rough talk with me.He told me that I can not talk any thing in his personal matter.I want to die but my parents will cry for me as they love me.But I am not happy.What can I do?please tell me.
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These days Indian Bengali films have the dialogues shown in English at the bottom of the scenes.. I suggest for you a film called " Hemlock Society" . that can end your intentions regarding suicide.. And I dont think you casn live your life with a guy who will hurt you every and you cry your whole life
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DEAR jhim, keep patience and do not go for suicide I also tried for suicide but not die but i lose my health.i also 30 years old but did not get marriage dozen matter that you are 26 or 28years old. frist things is that you also feel that your boy friend behaviour is not well for you ,you also not like him and their family and culture than that's condition how you can live with him after marry ,analysis in your mind .second things is that he can not take ant decision on his own .so i suggest you leave him and go according with your parents for arrange marriage .and other he also does not any work proper way i think he has no future you also lost your future to get marry with him .so last to here your soul voice ,not mind voice ,mind voice always satisfy ourself.remember soul voice always true and your soul voice is that you not like her you want marrry with him only to remove your parents tension because you are elder in your family so ignore him and seek and suitable match herself.so live for your parents because they love you .for happiness nobody is not happy in this word every one have problem so do not worry about it ,make a goal in your life and keep positive attitude in your mind .i suggest you when you feel problem than touch your heart and speak "ALL IS WELL ,ALL IS WELL"
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