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Need guys opinions on sex
I would love to hear from some guys about your opinions on what makes a good sex partner. What do you like/don't like that girls do? Thanks!
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What makes a good sex partner is not what he/she is willing or not willing to do in bed. It is not even how good he/her technique may be in what he/she does in bed.
What makes a good sex partner as well as a good life partner are one in the same. It is a person, and this can be either partner male or female in a heterosexual relationship, or either partner in a gay relationship; who is willing to communicate with their partner.
When two people can communicate on all levels including their sexual wants, needs and desires; you have a good partner. A good partner will not reject something out of hand just because they have never done it before.
When it comes to sex it is a learned activity. No two people like the same thing done the same way. If you have an open communication then you can learn from each other how to please each other. When we first start to have sex most of us know only one position the missionary position. Try not to reject any other positions out of hand just because they are new to you. The same with different fetishes. Most are harmless and quite fun.
The ability to communicate with others is the key to success in life. Be it communication at work, in the home or in the bedroom.
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I know you only wanted to hear from guys, so I only looked at your question out of curiousity. So I think you need to realize the sex is a two way street. It's not just what a girl does that makes her a good sex partner for you. What makes you a good sex partner for her?
If your question was to want to know how to be a good sex partner for a woman, then I'd like to give my advice.
Each woman is unique so she can have different tastes and needs which you will want to ask her about. Don't try to guess. Good communication is important. Another important point is in how long it takes a man to be aroused to orgasm versus a woman. There is a saying about "A woman is like an iron. She takes a long time to heat up. But once shes hot, its a long time before she is cool again. The man who makes a great lover will be sure to give her as much time as needed to get her aroused, then once there, he will do what she needs to keep her having orgasm after orgasm until she says enough. Then giving her a couple minutes break to catch her breath, it's finally your turn. If a man is having intercourse with a woman he has totally pleased, the intercourse is way more fullfilling. She feels everything he is doing much more intensely because remember, "it takes a long time for an iron to cool down." While in this aroused state it is easier for her g-spot to be stimulated and she can experience g-spot orgasms. Thats just a start. There's so much more a guy can learn in order to be a good sex partner for a woman. Get books and study how a womans body works sexually. Woman who have never squirted or gushed (female ejaculation) know nothing about it, let alone the guys. So read up and learn and women will never say no to having sex if they know how much pleasure they will receive.
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