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I like this guy but it seems like he likes everyone BUT me
There's this guy and we've been pretty good friends I guess. I've liked him since the day I layed eyes on him. Buy he's dated so many girls. He's even dating a 15 year old and we are both 12. And my friend said she heard him say he liked me but I think she was just trying to make me feel better or she just wanted to lie to me cause she does that sometimes (that's a whole other story). I see him every Sunday and Wednesday I just don't know what to do. I feel like I'm not cool enough or something ( I know I'm beautiful so that defiantly can't be it lol). I just don't know what I should do I just want to punch him when I see him with another girl and touching her and stuff.
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As has already been said, if a guy is starting a habit of changing girlfriends like he changes socks and underwear, that is not a good sign. I ditto that.
At age 12, there is innocent dating, and then there is daiting to get sex because the hormones are raging. If a 12 year old boy goes after a 15 yr old girl...that would confirm it for me even more...he is after the sex. Don't tell me its because he finds her more intellectually stimulating. If he were that intelligent he needed someone who is also more intelligent than 12 yr old girls, then he would be intelligent enough to not bounce from girl to girl and have a better idea of what he is looking for.
If you are beautiful, you will have many boys after you because at their age, again beauty will get their hormones going and they will want sex. If you are not ready to have sex, then say no to the guys which means they will probably not want to date you.
About your feeling like punching another girl...that is jealousy. This will come from placing an ownership on someone even if its a person you have never dated. If you can't have him, you want no one else to have him either.
The fastest way to destroy a relationship chance with a guy is to go into crazy jealous rages, questioning him about any female that even just looks at him or talks to him. That scares guys. Heck, I'm female and if any girlfriends were that crazy with jealousy (not of me but other females) was hanging with me, I'd stop associating with them. You need to get a handle on that now. If it becomes a problem...go for counseling
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The way you described him, I don't even know why you'd like him.
I don't know him so I'm just picturing him off of what you've said.
Firstly, you can't make a guy like you. You have to do your best to move on.
I wouldn't want a guy like him to be interested in me. He's so young but he's already dated so many girls? That's not a good quality.
If he did end up liking you, you'd be the girl after all these other girls. That's why girls feel the need to compare themselves because boys who have more experience think they know everything. At least boys who are 12 years old.
My advice to you is to move on. He seriously might be a genuinely nice guy, but a guy who dates so many girls shouldn't be on your mind and you can't make him like you.
Also, don't put yourself down. No guy should make you feel worse about yourself.
Focus on other things while you try to move on. There are so many other boys in this world so you'll end up liking someone else. Hang out with your friends and you'll move on eventually.
Then you'll end up finding a guy who will take one look at you like you did with this guy, and think you're amazing.
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well but in your age attraction for boys is commom,but you know that boy dating with other girl so i thing not better for you so forget and concentrate your study .
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