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In Love But Not Sure What To Do
Hi! My name is Jake. I'm in 8th grade, going into highschool next year. So, these a girl at my school that's extremely beautiful and nice and caring and she's got a great sense of humor. She's got a great smile, beautiful deep brown eyes and a beautiful figure as well. I began to like her about A year ago, and she didn't really know I existed until about 2 months ago. So I fell in love with her and I want to treat her right and be with her. But she likes one of my friends and I just can't stop thinking about her. Is there any ways I can get her to fall in love with me? She's really important to mead I want to date her, but I don't want to get rejected and ruin my friendship with her. Thanks or help :)
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Well there is no way to make someone fall in love with you.
Firstly, I'll give you some things most girls notice in a guy other than looks.
It's all personality. A good girl won't go looking for a guy who is all about looking good. They want a good guy who knows how to treat a girl right.
I remember when I was your age, there was one boy who every girl was crazy about. He wasn't absolutely gorgeous but he was such a good guy. He was sweet and would do small gestures that would stand out to girls. He would hold doors open, he would just be a genuinely nice guy. Every girl would talk about how nice and sweet he really was.
Anyways, be the good guy and hope she notices you is the best advice I can give. Be her friend and be there for her. Eventually she'll see how great you are.
If she doesn't then one day you will find a girl who will. You will attract the good girls you deserve a guy like you.
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hi jake it is a common problem i suggest you concentrate your study and other thing is that if you like her than speak her you attract her with your inteligency you know girls like 4 things only
1-money
2-if you are inteligent
3-if you have gret personalit
4-if you are genius
so i suggest you attract her from your inteligency in your study
santosh
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Hi Jake, just wondering what you were doing for the year that you liked her to let her know you liked her as more than just a classmate. You must have done something different the last 2 months if she finally discovered you existed. During these two months you fell in love with her by doing what...were you just hanging out with her along with other classmates. Just your presence in a group isnt enough to clue her in that you like her. You say she likes one of your friends. Have any idea what it is about him that attracts her attention. Usually the more shy, introverted, quiet people get overlooked and the more flamboyant, out going, extroverted people get the attention. That doesnt guarantee that the outgoing person necessarily likes all of the people of the opposite sex attracted to them. If you are a little shy, don't change who you are. Just be yourself but do talk to her and let her know how interested you are in her.
Attraction isnt always mutual. Although there is such a thing as falling in love at first site, most women like things in stages, first a friendship that grows stronger to the point you become sexual together and somewhere along that point, if you stll love everything about her, not just because she is pretty and you love sex, you let her know you love her. If you tell her that you love her, you will scare her away. As much as women want to be loved, If a guy says he loves you and knows next to nothing about her other than what he can see at school, then she will be very suspicious. Women come with a built in intuition and will pick up on things like this. The things you mention that you know about her, are things that every single girl and boy in school will also know about her just by observing her as you have. Are you sure you feel love and not lust. Hormones go crazy at your age. Not condemning you, just want you to be honest with yourself. If you still think its love, then you really need to start finding out more about her and the only way is to get closer to her as a friend. About rejection, It might help you if you put yourself in the other persons shoes. So,Think of a girl whose looks and personality you are not attracted to. She's a nice person, nothing wrong with her, you just aren't attracted. She comes up to you and asks you out to a dance where the girls get to ask. Can you force yourself to be attracted to her? Probably not. You'd have to say no in which case she will suffer from rejection. If you feel sorry for her and don't want to hurt her feelings so you say yes...that means you are giving her "false hope". That means she'll think you really like her. Do you still think that I or anyone else on here can tell you how to get her to fall in love with you?
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