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Question Posted Thursday May 2 2013, 10:38 pm

so i was giving my bf oral and he pre cummed . so he wiped most of it off with his hand and we had unprotected for about a minite and he pulled out and he had actual c*m come out a minute ir two after my pants were up .

is there a possibility im pregnant ?

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rainhorse68 answered Saturday May 4 2013, 11:25 am:
Hi there. Keep calm and get a test kit, use it just like the instructions say, exactly. So you don't get a wrong answer. Now from what you've said he didn't fully ejaculate until he was well and truly outside and your pants were back up? OK...precum can contain sperm...but you're in a much better position than had he actually ejaculated inside you. The odds are that you won't be pregnant, but the test is the last word on the subject and the only one that counts. I wish you well, you'd be VERY unlucky if what you say is exactly what happened. But now's a good time to think about how close he came to actually ejaculating fully inside you, don't you think? Matter of seconds maybe? Look, 'pulling out before he cums' just IS NOT proper birth control mate, is it? Younger lads can climax so quickly, can't hold it. And will tend to 'cum' strongly, and there's usually a fair bit of it too. You really don't want him 'inside you' at all without protection, even for a minute. How hard is it to use a condom? And think of the advantages. You'll be able to relax and properly enjoy sex with your boyfriend. You won't have this worry hanging over you afterwards getting you stressed out and worried. Of course, oral sex and handjobs carry zero pregnancy risk. If you find yourselves getting seriously horny and you just haven't GOT a condom you should agree some non-penetrative pleasuring this time. Isn't that a much safer bet? Really, the fact that you didn't plan sex, it 'just happened' isn't going to protect you one bit from an unwanted pregnancy is it? If he cums inside you, you've done EVERYTHING you have to to make pregnancy a possibility. Do the test...and maybe post a reply to the site if you're OK? As I'm sure we've all got our fingers crossed for you mate! First impulse is that you probably didn't do quite enough, but I can't possibly assure you in any way that this is correct. And if it's fine, think about what you're doing next time, eh? Best wishes.

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santos answered Friday May 3 2013, 12:17 pm:
yes it is possible so buy a pregency kit and checked out.

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Dragonflymagic answered Friday May 3 2013, 12:11 pm:
Yes, there is a possibility. So buy a pregnancy test and then you won't have to wonder any more.

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