Im going to visit my fiance in 19 days. I really want to make love to him. But i also want it to be special. I went to www.victoriassecret.com and clicked on the sleepwear. I really dont know what type i should buy. What turns guys on. I dont want to ask him which one he likes better but i do want to surprise him. There are so many types. I need your opinion on if i should get the dress looking ones, or the ones that are see through or the ones that are opening in the middle. Im not sure. But i dont want one that looks too slutty but i do want one thats romantic.
So back to my questions. 1. What type should i buy? 2. Which one will be best. 3. Any ideas on anything special that i can get to make it amazing. 4. Any ideas on how to get into it.
Yess I'll have to agree with mari-elena! Guys get turned on by the little things. So just buy what you find is sexy. If you have trouble with colors, go for the sexy black!
These are nice:
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I think babydolls and anything lacy would be great. Those ones with side slits could be sexy as well, because it's showing some extra skin. I'm sure even a slip/nightie would work too if it hugs your curves. Just leave the rest for his imagination.
You could always excuse yourself to the bathroom and change.. and come out wearing a bathrobe. You could also wear it under a nice dark flowy dress.
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I'm a 13 year old girl and guys at my school only like girls who are big chested and have big butts,I was wondering if theres anything
(non steryl)I could do to make my butt and breasts grow faster(get bigger)
I have a pretty face and all but no ones interested in that.
So is there anything I can do before school starts in September?
don't worry, immature guys aren't worth dating anyway! You don't want someone to like you for your body. Being used is probably one of the worst things ever. Some guys will only date you for that and just brag to their friends that they touched you or something (even if you didn't let him ha) Besides, there's some really perverted guys out there and if they have the chance, they will grab at you whether it comes off as an "accident" or not. Not all guys like big chests and big butts either. I'm just sure those guys look up porn haha.
Your breasts won't grow faster. They basically stop growing around age 18 to early 20s. They only get bigger with age AND if you gain weight. Whatever Cup size your mom has, you should just be around that. Sometimes you are smaller or even bigger than her. During 10th grade, I jumped up to a C cup and going on the pill made me gain around 15 pounds, so when I was a junior I went up another size. Just give it some time. Bigger isn't always better because I'm limited to a style of clothing.. because you really need to cover up well and not look top heavy. You have to find the right bra so your back doesn't hurt. It's just so annoying. Many people are interested in a face tho.. You just need to wait for guys to mature.
There's work outs on youtube that can make your butt appear bigger.
If anything, I'll just get a new look. New hairstyle or color, different style of clothes, etc.
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mmm, alright!
so im a girl, im 14 years old, almost 15 thou (:
anywayssss; i like older boys, like 16, 17, 18, 19.. like that. haha.
i like older boys around that age cause their mature and dont act like lil' boys.
now, the problem is that usually guys that are older like that, that im intrested in usually take me for granted and only think of me for one thing... and im deffinetaly NOT that type of girl.
how do i get guys to take me seriously, and actully get them to want me as a girlfriend?
(: graciass peopel!!
I wouldn't limit yourself to an age group. Most guys around that age are usually no different sadly.. and they.. as you know .. only want you for one thing. Most guys around the age 16 [nowadays] have already had sex so relationships don't get by any easier now. My best friends have been mostly guys and I've been surrounded by them so I know what they think and I've heard/see what they have done. =\
Just be yourself and don't put yourself out there so much because you want to keep it simple and sweet. Confidence is great.
There's certain guys who believe they can get any girl they want, even young as you, and since they believe that.. they might only want you around just so you would put out. I've been friends with those guys and they have hurt a couple of girls over the years. You have to see what guys are pigs and steer clear from them
I'll stick to dating near your age or just waiting because older guys probably won't take you seriously. Most guys are going for the older chicks too lol You have to wait for guys to "change/grow up" over summer. I've seen some immature guys change to handsome mature ones. You need to give them time. Maybe a year, two or possibly three! Lol
Right now, they only view you as 14 year old. Many older guys probably wouldn't even look at you as a possible girlfriend. There's some that would judge you because of your age and view you as immature EVEN if they have never spoken to you before. Even if they did like you, their friends might joke around liking a little girl and it's just really messed up now. If you can find a mature guy that strays away from friends like that, then good for you!
It's really not easy to date someone older. You just have to find the right person who would respect you and like you despite your age/grade. So it's best to wait it out until you're 15 or 16. Maybe you can find a guy with the same age who is mature, just look in places you normally don't. :]
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how would i get a dress like this ^
Go to a mall and browse. I've been searching for dresses for my wedding and I've visited many, many sites and I haven't seen anything like that.. or even in that color. You will probably have to go out and look since they have more variety in the actual store. Thrift stores are also good because it's not all vintage anyway, you can find some great recent things since people donate the items, you just have to be there at the right time. I'm going to go out browsing for dresses and if I find anything similar, I'll let you know what store!
You could always check out Ebay!
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14/f
ive never been fingered before, but i was just wondering if most guys are expecting your vagina to be completely shaved or what..? thanks for youre help!
Most guys like it clean. Whether that's completely shaved or just trimmed. But you should know if you have a 'bush', the guy usually passes on that information to his friends. I've heard about girl's pubic hair so many times. I'll shave it completely and see how you like it.
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alright so i cant orgasm with my boyfriend, and i have masterbated before but i havent orgasmed from it.
the problem is that when my bf is pleasuring me or whatever...it feels amazing but i always wanna pull away. like i cant help myself it feels so good but i always stop him....
i dont know what my problem is
Try not to pull away next time :P It feels good because you are probably on the verge of an orgasm. How do you masturbate though? You should buy an electric toothbrush and well, yeah. It works. It wold be easier to recognize an orgasm and all that jazz, because for my first time.. it felt so good and weird at the same time, that I stopped. Not many girls can orgasm from penetration alone. You need stimulation! So it usually works best if he keeps the right movement, depth and speed or if you take over being on top. You don't have to go deep, actually swallow thrusts are good considering his 'head' will stimulate your clit. if you can keep the stimulation going at a slow speed then you should be able to orgasm.
-i know this wasn't TMI- D:
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i thought i had a ton of stomach hairs, and well i kind of do, but i recently noticed that they dont look noticeable really unless im out in the sunlight, so my stomach doesnt bother me unless i am outside. so...since its not that bad i think i should just shave every once in awhile based on other peoples advice. ive heard so many different things......does shaving your stomach make hairs grow back any thicker than before or not? please only answer if you know for sure!! thanks!
I shave pretty much everywhere and it does not grow back thicker or dark. o_O Pretty much I'm Portuguese so we have dark thick hair usually. My hair has never grew back thicker or darker.. I actually shaved my arms a lot and it actually grew back less noticeable so I don't have to shave it anymore.
I'll shave your stomach BUT wax your 'happy trail' if you have one [even if it's light] It took about a month for the hair to grow back. I'm sure if you wax the whole stomach, it would take longer to grow back.
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How much is it generally do get hair dyed?
It really depends on the place. I actually went to a beauty school to get my hair dyed and a hair treatment. It came out nice just for $60.
It could be $30, $60 or even $100+
It can be $7-13 for a box dye.
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14/f
my boyfriend and i have been going out for almost six months. and i still love him. but he never calls. he never texts. he never emails. and he never offers to hang out. its always me who calls first. and its hard for me. like the other day, i was talking to him, and he's like, "sorry i havent called you in a while, ive been really busy." and i was like, "oh ok, well what have you been up to?" and he goes, "oh nothing." so i was kind of upset that he didnt even come up with an excuse. he always says, "i really love you!" or, "i love you so much" but he doesnt PROVE it. i love him, but i cant keep doing this. i am his first girlfriend, and, even though i cant wait to get over him, i dont want to crush him. so how do i break up with him? i was thinking about doing it over the phone, but is that wrong? i dont think that would be a good way to do it. if i do it in person, what do i say? where should i go to break up with him? i really need help.PLEASE help me!!
You are his first girlfriend, he's probably nervous and stressed out. He probably has no idea what to do. Have you even talked to him about this? You need to let him know how you feel and that he needs to call you or at least do something first. You need to know what's going on with his life. Just take the time to find out what as going on and if it's just a lame excuse, just dump him. In person, text, email or on the phone. But really, if he said 'nothing' then it must be something. Maybe he's going through something at home? It sounds like you need more communication. Do you always start conversations? [emails, texts, etc?] It really depends on how much you do it and if he's a shy person.
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what do you think a "pretty" girl
looks like?
A pretty girl looks confident and happy. That's the main idea for me. She's funny, nice and likes to have fun. I've seen so many pretty girls with different appearances tho.
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What is the general pricing of getting just the tips of your hair dyed red professionally? I have light brown hair and ive tried temporary wash out stuff on the tips of my hair and it looked really good. So I would get it cut and have the tips dyed, but only the tips because you can always cut it if it looks bad. Is this rational thinking? I really need some answerers from some people who have had this done before. And is this a good idea, or are people going to look at me like im a loser for dying the tips? is it fashionable?
I think just dyeing the tips is overdone. I've seen it so much already. But this is just coming from my area. So if you like it, then go for it. It's not a bad idea to dye the tips because I've done it before for an easy way out if it came out bad. I would go for peekaboos. Dye the underneath part of your hair. I think it looks really nice if the color just peeks through. It really depends on the dye and if they need to bleach the hair. I don't remember how much it had cost for my sister to get hers done. It was so much for little highlights. I'm sure it's around $60 for dyeing. It's best to search a beauty school or salon online and read reviews. Usually they post prices on it.
And if you don't like it, red fades the fastest.
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my friend wears tampons and i want to start to use them. So one day instead of using a tampon, i used my finger..so i guess i fingered myself..lol idk! But my finger wouldn't go in...so now i'm scared to use a tampon. Please tell me how it would feel!!!!!
Try using your finger more often so you're not tight and tense when trying to get it in. lol I tried using tampons and I've had sex many times, still cannot get the damn thing in. Pain is different for everyone, because it hurt me.
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Well ili start off by saying aim male 15 and there's this girl that i like but i dont know if she likes me. when i talk to her at school nd i want to end the conversation its like she dosent want to end it so she keeps talking. Also somtimes she says hi or like gives me high-fives. But when i get home on msn or facebook she never talkes to me and somtimes when i talk to her she goes offline.Could it be because too many girls flirt with me?
Wait, do girls flirt with you online [like over public comments/pictures?] or in person? Because if you're surrounded by girls, it's not a really good sign. She may like you as a friend but no girl really wants to date a guy that flirts a lot. The girls may flirt with you, but from someone else's point of view.. it may look as though you are flirting back. Maybe she's busy or something. So if you really like her, ask her for her number or ask her what's up when she doesn't respond. But right now, she seems to like you as a friend because you are good at listening [as she keeps talking lol]
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I'm getting braces and i want to be prepared b/c my friend told me that they hurt the second day that i get them on. And i want to know what i should do if they start to hurt!
Well are you getting a shot? I'll take it if your teeth are sensitive.. but seriously.. they just glue brackets on and push wires through it & hook it in the back [slips right in, you know].. It may feel uncomfortable because there's a wire surrounding your teeth and there's some pressure. They give you wax just in case the wire in the back pokes. After a few months, you'll get used to it and you could just ask them to cut the wires shorter in the back. Go out and buy a smoothie afterwards. Mine hurt because I had over 4 teeth removed.. but if you didn't then they shouldn't really hurt to be honest. You could always have ice cream or medicine.
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I was just wondering.. because i feel like i weigh a lot more than i look.
oh and i cut out my face just so i dont get stalked :] haha.
thanks!
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Well I'm 5'1 and I'm about 105 pounds. So since you're taller, I'll say around 120-30?
PS. i want your stomach
:p
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I have a crush on 2 girls. I can't decide witch I should go with. How do I decide???
Ask each one on a date..whether it's just you and her.. or a group thing.. like bowling, pizza, movie, etc. Just start off as friends so you get to know them.. and see if they show any interest in you then make your move. And possibly knowing their relationship history could help.. you don't want to be with someone who only lasts in a relationship for like 2 weeks lol
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How do you dye your hair with Kool-aid?
Your hair has to be light enough for the color to be shown. Basically you just put it in and leave it on for a while. It really won't make a difference on dark hair.
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okayy here the thingg..
I was with my boyfriend last night
and he sat me on top of his lap..
Then he started tickling me so I
started wiggling around on his
lap. Then he started tickling me harder
and I noticed he had a weird expression
on his face and his leg was tapping fast..
plus he would constantly pull me higher onto
his lap and start breathing hard..then
start tickling me again..
What is he trying to do?
Is he horny or something?
Horny probably because you were probably bouncing a bit on his lap. I can't really sit on my boyfriend's lap because apparently I tease. pssh. Did you feel an erection? :p
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i love pilates. i take classes on youtube this 10 minuete ab one. does anyone know another ab pilate video thats free and more then 10 mere minuetes?
thanks
Do you have onDemand? I watch some videos [fitness section]. There's a lot of yoga/pilates..and certain workouts for specific areas of the body like upper body, abs, legs, etc. Some are 10 minutes up to 25 mins!
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What are some signs of starting your period???
Because like im going to the restroom 24/7!!! It gets on my nervess.
And sometimes it is hard to peeeee..
Helpp?
For me.. it's when my boobs get sore by a slight touch.. when my back starts to ache a little and i get slightly bloated.
Then it's the cramps. Well I think the most obvious sign should be discharge and sore boobs!
If it's hard to pee, then it may be bladder infection. I often get those before or during so yeah.
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