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mmm, alright!
so im a girl, im 14 years old, almost 15 thou (:
anywayssss; i like older boys, like 16, 17, 18, 19.. like that. haha.
i like older boys around that age cause their mature and dont act like lil' boys.
now, the problem is that usually guys that are older like that, that im intrested in usually take me for granted and only think of me for one thing... and im deffinetaly NOT that type of girl.
how do i get guys to take me seriously, and actully get them to want me as a girlfriend?
(: graciass peopel!!
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I wouldn't limit yourself to an age group. Most guys around that age are usually no different sadly.. and they.. as you know .. only want you for one thing. Most guys around the age 16 [nowadays] have already had sex so relationships don't get by any easier now. My best friends have been mostly guys and I've been surrounded by them so I know what they think and I've heard/see what they have done. =
Just be yourself and don't put yourself out there so much because you want to keep it simple and sweet. Confidence is great.
There's certain guys who believe they can get any girl they want, even young as you, and since they believe that.. they might only want you around just so you would put out. I've been friends with those guys and they have hurt a couple of girls over the years. You have to see what guys are pigs and steer clear from them
I'll stick to dating near your age or just waiting because older guys probably won't take you seriously. Most guys are going for the older chicks too lol You have to wait for guys to "change/grow up" over summer. I've seen some immature guys change to handsome mature ones. You need to give them time. Maybe a year, two or possibly three! Lol
Right now, they only view you as 14 year old. Many older guys probably wouldn't even look at you as a possible girlfriend. There's some that would judge you because of your age and view you as immature EVEN if they have never spoken to you before. Even if they did like you, their friends might joke around liking a little girl and it's just really messed up now. If you can find a mature guy that strays away from friends like that, then good for you!
It's really not easy to date someone older. You just have to find the right person who would respect you and like you despite your age/grade. So it's best to wait it out until you're 15 or 16. Maybe you can find a guy with the same age who is mature, just look in places you normally don't. :]
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Don't try so hard, plain and simple. If you're limiting yourself to guys in a certain group just because of their age, you could pass up a mature guy your own age just because of his birth certificate.
Get to know guys as friends, not just as potential boyfriends. You'll realize pretty quickly what they're after. Not all of them are looking for "one thing".
My last boyfriend, one of the first things he ever said to me before we even met in person was that sex was a big deal to him and he wasn't just after getting laid. For a long time we had a good relationship because it wasn't all about physical things, there was an emotional connection too.
If you don't run around saying/giving off the impression "Boo waaah I need a boyfriend and he has to be X amount of years old and yadda yadda yadda" the right boy could quite literally fall in your lap. Or you could fall (off a bed) for him.
Good luck!
-LM
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Just dont put yourself out there,not saying you do!!Just make it clear that you arent that kind of girl.Be yourself and if you put the image that you arent like that,theyll see it.
xo southern
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