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okay do guys think your easy when you makeout with them on like the first time ya'll meet up to hang out...like what if they try to kiss you but you dont want to seem stuck up nor easy
I'm a girl so I don't know first hand what guys think, but honestly, and this is going to be different depending on who you talk to. But, to me, kissing doesn't really mean anything.
I've kissed plenty of guys that it meant absolutely nothing. Nothing to me. Nothing to them. It was a kiss and nothing more. On the other hand I've kissed plenty of guys in which case it meant a whole lot.
If you kissed a guy the first night you met him, odds are he didn't think much of it. He's not going to think you're easy just because you made out with him.
If he kissed you and you didn't want to seem stuck up or easy, you could just lightly kiss him back but not let it escalate into a full blown make out session.
I hope that helps.
15/f. I want to get my hair dyed red...It hasnt been approved by my dad yet, but i need knowledge to present to him. I know that red fades really fast...Okay, since I have darker hair, would it be ideal for me to bleach it first and then go red? How long should i wait after bleaching it to go red? If you have any other tips on dying hair, please tell me :) Thankss..
Gina
The only tip I can really offer you is to go to a good salon to get this done.
I've seen a lot of at-home and chain salon red dye-jobs go horribly wrong. It either comes out orange or purple.
Go to a reputable salon and bring several photos so that they know EXACTLY what color you want. And splurge to have them blow-dry it for you. You wont know exactly what color it is until it's dry, and you don't want to get home, dry it, and then realize that it's not the color you wanted. If you have them do it, you can at least tell them that it doesn't look like the color in the pictures, and some places will redo it for you.
I hope that helps.
i want to be like those really cool teenagers the really fun outgoing ones that everyone wants to be friends with but IDK how too get things started or what to make people wanna hang out with me can you give me some tips and dont say just be yourself cause I guess that doesnt work
You have to be really open to meeting new people. And be really social. Go to parties, and when you meet people there, get their number.
Then maybe throw your own party and invite all the people that you got their number, tell them to bring a few friends, then you get to meet even more people.
Just be really fun and bubbly and flirtatious and above all nice. People want to be around nice people, it makes them feel good, haha.
My friend babysat my dog for the weekend while I was gone. During this, he smoked weeedd and my dog was in the room. It's a pomeranian (which if you don't know is a verryyy small dog -- she weighs four pounds), and she got high from the smoke in the room. Then they blew it into her ear, which got her high.
Now do NOT say this is a myth, because I saw a video and the dog was acting so wierd. This wass like four days ago, but she still seems a little wierd and off, and is acting differently then before.
So whats the deal? Is she going to be ok?
I'm extremely worried.
Thank you for any help I can get.
I have a Miniature Pinscher who weighs 10 lbs, so he's pretty small too. When my friends used to come over and smoke, him and my other dog (a 50 lb Border Collie) used to come in the garage all the time with us. And my bigger dog used to seem normal afterwards, like she always acts, I think just the fact that she's bigger. But my little dog used to get really calm and tired after where-as he's usually really high energy and hyper. I don't know if it causes any long term damage but it worried me so I don't let them in the garage anymore and my dog always fine now. The last time he came in was a few months ago.
She'll probably be fine, then again she's even smaller than my dog. I would just watch her closely for a few more days and if she's still acting like that then I would take her to the vet. I definately don't suggest letting them get her high again though.
If you really aren't flexible at all, and you strech every day for 10-30 minutes, how long, approximately will it take for you to be able to do a split? I do straddle streches, lunges, pike streches and hurdler streches daily before and after exercise. If there are any streches that will help me get it faster it would help. I'm 14/f if it helps. Thanks!
Really the only stretch that helped me to get my splits was simply sitting in them. I sat in each split right and left for 4 minutes each a day and my middle for 5 minutes a day (my middle was much worse, haha).
And it took me about 2 weeks to get my right and left down all the way and about a month and a half to get my middle all the way down.
It's going to hurt at first but to pass the time I always just listened to my ipod full blast and if I was alone I would sing along. It just makes you forget about the pain.
And to elaborate on the previous answer, it's going to do a lot more good doing wall sits if you get ankle weights. The fabric ones with changable weights that velcro onto your ankles.
Then the added weight will help you go down further. I wouldn't do more than 10lbs on each ankle though, that may damage your muscles.
I hope I was helpful and good luck getting your splits.
A few months ago, i wrote on here about my mixed family.( I married my high school sweetheart after we both had previous relationships and children from them. Her kids were absolutly wild, never punished for anything in their life, just completely wreckless) Now my worst fears have come to reality and i am now facing a teen pregnancy with the youngest of my step daughters. Of course she is hysterical about the situation and wants to get an abortion. I am entirely against that and would never let my sons think that this is a way out of this kind of situation. her mom (my wife) is saying that she can do whatever she needs to do. Do i allow her to have the abortion or make her own up too her mistake?
I hate to say it, but no matter what you "allow" her to do, it's her decision and you can't make it for her.
If you don't want her to have an abortion, I suggest you just talk to her about it and make sure she completely understands her options. Let her know that even though she may not want to deal with the situation, it's still a living child that she's killing and that even adoption is better than death. Offer to take her to an adoption agency or something. There are TONS of couples out there looking to adopt that can't have children of their own.
But if you just try and like put your foot down and say no abortion, that may cause a rebel effect and may cause her to have one just to spite you, even though it's not what she really wants.
My advice is talk to her. And when you're talking to her, don't use a negative attitude on abortion. She's going to feel bad enough about it as it is. Try using a positive outlook on adoption. Talk about how great it would be to give an infertile couple a baby and a family of their own.
I hope this helps and good luck dealing with this.
Please if you do can you change hair color on their?? if you can dark dark brown
Eye color? if you can blue
SKin color?? kinda tan
If you can please do it to this pic and email it to me at sebcheerleader@wheelweb.com
http://s290.photobucket.com/albums/ll268/omglove12344/?action=view¤t=hairup.jpg
I just emailed it to you. I tried my best the eyes and hair look real but I couldn't alter your skin color too much without making it look orange.
It's a little darker than the original pic but not much, sorry about that.
OKay so i know this is a stupid question but i just wanna ask to make sure
So i was giving a h/j today and the guy jacked himself off while i got undressed (it was dry.. he had not came yet)
well he started to finger me afterward but he did not go in the hole... just like around it and stuff
so is there any way i could be pregnant..like with precum or anything.... like what are the chances?
btw i have never had sex or anything if that helps=\
Okay, seeing as he didn't cum on his hand first, I'm gonna say that you're probably going to be fine. If you're really worried about it I would go get the plan B pill from a clinic or something.
However, and I wasn't going to answer this question until I saw this, but that first answer is completely ill-informed. Sperm, under the right conditions, can live up to 72 hours outside the body.
That being said, if he were ever to cum on his hand first, please use extra caution when letting him finger you after jacking off. You don't want to end up another statistic of teens that didn't know you could get pregnant that way.
My sixteenth birthday is coming up in like a month. I am going to have a pool party at my house. I want something extra. I wanted one of those Sumo Wrestling moon bounce things, but one of my friends already had that so I need a new idea. It can be renting something, but it can also just be a really fun activity to do. Like one year I had a Tie Dye station and everyone made a tie dye shirt. Give any idea you have.
Also, if anyone can and should suggest just good ideas for everything in the party. Food, music, games, decorations, play things, ect.
Taking from the previous answer...I think the shaving cream fight is a great idea, and you should definately look into it. Also, a slip and slide sounds cool too.
Another thing that's really fun and we had it at our senior all night party.
It's like a giant twister mat but it inflates like a moon bounce. And you get a giant wheel with it. It's more fun than regular twister because it's almost impossible to stay on your spot when everyones bouncing around. It's also pretty funny when one person falls, because they make the whole thing bounce and everyone else has a hard time staying up.
The previous answer pretty much took all my ideas so sorry I couldn't give you some more suggestions, haha.
I hope you have fun at your sweet sixteen.
hey i'm a gymnast..have been most of my life (i'm 18). i went to watch the olympic trials and i'm wondering if anyone knows what conditioning/dieting the girls on the team do. if you could be specific that'd be great! thanks
Sorry I can't be more helpful...But all I know is that they take in a lot of protein.
I would google it or something if you want more information.
Okay. I'm 16/f. My average weight is 142. But it might change sometimes due to the amount of food I take in. I'm also 5'6.
I went on this website..and read that it's a really really normal weight. Ideal for my body ratio..
But here's the thing..I want to lose MORE. I don't eat after 6 usually. And exercise more than I eat on any given day (sometimes I take breaks though cause my joints hurt). But for some reason..the lowest my weight is...would be a 141.
Why? I don't get it. It never goes down! I think it's my standard weight...my healthy weight. But my dad won't believe me and yells at me when he sees me at 143 or 144. Because I gained a pound or two.
When I look in the mirror, I see my thighs more toned than they were..and I see my arms less flabby. And just more muscle everywhere..
But I can't seem to lose the numbers off the weight scale. And this makes my anxiety about losing weight go up cause I feel like I'm exercising daily for absolutely no reason. But I SEE the results..I just don't SEE the numbers falling!
Can anyone explain this to me? Or relate? Thank you =|
I have the SAME problem.
How much cardio are you doing per day vs. strength training?
I think the reason I'm like that (and I'm like the same size as you too) is because I do too much strength training in relation to my cardio.
I know what I want is to burn fat...I really don't care about building muscle...it's just that I find strength training so much easier than cardio, so I tend to do more of it.
But I know that the first 20 minutes of any cardio workout is building up your heart, it's not doing much of anything else. So after that first 20 minutes is when you actually start to burn fat calories. I TRY to get in at LEAST 45 minutes of cardio a day (so 25 minutes of fat burn) but ideal is 60 minutes and then I do strength training every other day where I just work whatever key areas I want to build up.
I used to weigh 154 and I started doing this and I lost the weight to where I'm your size now but that was like 7 months ago and for the last 7 months I've been doing the same thing and staying the same size. So idk. If you find something that actually works...let me know haha.
so we have this dance, and my dress is a spaghetti strap, but its a dress code thing so i have to wear something over it, and i wanted to wear a shrug, but i want to make it myself since the dance is in like 2 days and i have no time to go shopping. So, could i please have a pattern to make one myself??
something like this:
http://www.aeroplaneblonde.net/lj/shrug1.jpg
I need this by tuesday, please step by step instructions with a pattern that i have to copy to cut things out and such.
THANK YOU!!
Honestly, and I know this isn't the answer you wanted to hear. But if you need it THAT quick...
You're better off just going shopping for a shrug.
Either way you're gonna have to go shopping because you're gonna need fabric for the shrug anyway.
If you buy a ready made shrug, it's going to take a lot of stress off of you, and you wont have to rush to sew it.
hey pinkpolkadots...
i am 13 years old and ive only had my period once and its a week before im supposed to get it again. i have had brown discharge for 2 days and when i wipe its brown and a little pinkish... does this mean im going to get my period soon???? hope you can help
Yeah, I get that sometimes too a little before and a little after my period.
If you're getting that discharge, it probably means it's coming again soon. I would wear a pad or tampon just incase.
Don't worry that it's still a week before you're supposed to get it. You just started getting periods so it's probably not going to be "regular" yet. When I first got my period, it took about six months of getting it for it to even out and come the same time each month.
Like I said, just to be safe I would use a precautionary pad or tampon, whichever you prefer.
i have kinda fair skin..not to bad...
if i went to a tanning bed would i burn or tan?
or how could i control my tan..i've always wanted to be really tan but i don't wanna burn.
I have naturally fair skin too.
No matter what...the first couple times...you're probably going to burn. Just because your skin isn't used to it.
But to control how tan you get...it's better to tan for many shorter sessions than for a few longer sessions.
Another thing that helped me when I was tanning, I used a tanning lotion meant for tanning beds that had a self tanner built into it. And I did burn a little bit, but because the self tanner was in the lotion...that made me look tan and by the time the self tanner had worn off my real tan was there and I wasn't burned anymore.
If you try tanning beds and you end up burning...Experiment with different tanning lotions because that could make a huge difference.
im making a video for my sister graduating high school
any recommendations of songs playing during the vid?
Our class song is Small Town Girl by Journey...
It reminds me of high school so much and it makes me sad cuz it's over.
Forever by Chris Brown is also good.
Most of the other ones I could think of have already been listed.
My grandma has just been diagnosed with Alzheimer's 6 months ago, but we think she's had it for much longer. My parents were hiding it from me all this time. I'm really upset with them for that. But anyways...
I'm just scared for her. I just was wondering if anybody could tell me things about Alzheimer's...I know like what it is but I just wanted to know a little more. I'd ask my parents, but they sorta don't want to talk about it. I mean, they didn't even tell me. I figured it out when they mentioned it in casual conversation. So basically asking them is completely out of the question.
Thank you.....
It's a sick disease. My grandma had it. What makes it so horrible is that, it doesn't actually make you sick like it will kill you...
You live as long as you were supposed to live...but it just makes the persons rest of their life and the lives of the people that love them miserable.
My grandma was diagnosed with it when she was 79. She lived 17 years with it before she passed away at 96. The first couple years after she was diagnosed were okay because she'd only have "episodes" where she'd have the memory loss. But after that it was like a miracle if she remembered anything. She lived in a nursing home for the last 12 years of her life. And it was awful because my grandpa died while she was still living with the disease. And we had told her he had passed but she wouldn't remember and she would always talk about him like he was still there. It was very hard for my whole family to watch.
Your parents probably just didnt want to tell you because they were either too troubled by it or they just didnt think youd be able to handle it.
I think the best thing you can do in this situation is to be mature about it and spend as much time with your grandma as possible while you can. Cherish the time you have left with her.
Okay well..my friendship that I was talking about. It has turned into way more than a friendship. I am stressed out, and not getting any sleep. I really think I like him. Like I said before, just in case you hadn't seen my other question. My family is racist, and he is African American. Now its getting to the point that I don't care. I just want to be with him..even if I would be "betraying" my family.
I don't think I should have to go by their beliefs. I should get to live my own life right?
What should I do? :(
I had this same problem a while back. My dad's not racist, he was just against inter-racial couples. Anyway I went for it and once he got to know the guy, he didn't have a problem with it anymore. I'm no longer with him, but it turned out to be a good relationship while it lasted.
I say go with your heart. Your family is going to stick with you no matter what you choose, but if you choose not to give him a chance because of your family...you could be missing out on a lot.
If it works out between you two and your family gets to know him...they'll understand. And even if they don't...they're your family. They'll love you no matter what.
Okay, so I just recently started getting my period. And, to put it simply, I hate it. For my first period, which lasted like three weeks, I used nothing but pads. I don't mind the pads, but I do go swimming regularly and I do horseback riding. The problem with pads and horseback riding is when you ride, the pads stick to your butt, which is really unpleasant. Anyways, I'm going to summer camp next week for two weeks, and I'm going to probably be starting my period by about Friday or so. At the camp, we go swimming AND horseback riding everyday. I can use tampons just fine, since I've already tried them out and they fit comfortably and all. The problem is, it feels like the string is burning/cutting the skin around my vag. It's kinda painful and I don't really want to deal with it all day if it's gonna be doing that, but since the camp is in the middle of July in the south, it gets REALLY hot, so I DO NOT want to miss out on swimming. Any advice?
Are you using tampons with a deodorizer? That might be whats causing it....I suggest first trying a non-scented type (if you weren't already) But try another brand too, that may also help.
okay so I like this guy I'm 15/f and ill be 16 in october he just turned 20 june and I realllyy like him I'm pretty sure he likes me but I'm not positive but we have been talking a lot lately and I have sent him pictures of me but I'm fully clothed. we have talked about doing stuff and we are going to hangout. I am a virgin and I want to loose it to him I'm pretty sure he will take it. anyway is that considered statitory rape if I'm 16? I really like him and he likes me he said he wouldn't date me until I'm 18 because he cares about me and we don't want to get introuble I want to be withhim bad but do you also think he's using me? thank you for reading and thank you for responding
It depends on where you live. I'm from Michigan and here the age of consent is 16, so when you turned 16 it wouldn't be rape anymore. Google the age of consent wherever you live and I strongly suggest waiting until youre that old. Because if your parents found out and pressed charges he can get in a LOT of trouble.
ok. so my boobs are a B and a DD. they have been this way since i was in High school. Now i know this isnt normal. if i lose weight would that help make my one boob or down. or is there anything i can do. or is breast ogmination the only sorce to make them close to the same size?
I know a lot of girls that have uneven breasts too, but I've never heard of them being that uneven. There could be something there health related that's making them that way.
Usually breast size is hereditary...so are the women in your family closer to B's or DD's? That could give you a starting point to find out which breast is abnormal...like if B's run in your family, there could be a growth or something in your other breast causing it to swell to a DD?
I don't know if that's even possible...but I would go to your doctor to find out...
And about how to make them even...I think that breast augmentation is the only way to make them the same size...however, I would suggest making sure nothing is medically wrong there before you go through with breast augmentation...just in case that could cause an adverse reaction to the surgery...
And I'm sure you already know, but I thought I'd say it just incase you didn't...I know they have certain shops where you can buy a DD bra...and they will make you a custom insert...that fits your other breast and it will fill up the extra space but make the outside look symetrical to your DD breast. That could be an option to the surgery if you were just looking for a more uniform appearance..
I hope this helped a bit...