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Getting fingered


Question Posted Tuesday June 24 2008, 9:45 pm

OKay so i know this is a stupid question but i just wanna ask to make sure

So i was giving a h/j today and the guy jacked himself off while i got undressed (it was dry.. he had not came yet)

well he started to finger me afterward but he did not go in the hole... just like around it and stuff

so is there any way i could be pregnant..like with precum or anything.... like what are the chances?

btw i have never had sex or anything if that helps=\


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ConfusedBoutLove answered Thursday June 26 2008, 1:42 am:
There is a slim chance of getting pregnant but like the others said before me, take a test in a few days and see. If you're worried maybe you should schedule an appointment with the doctor just to be safe. If this guy had a disease (I'm not saying he does, but just in case) and he had cum on his fingers while fingering you then you could have a possibility of getting that disease passed on to you. Sperm does not just evaporate into thin air when it is out of the guys penis. If it is close to the girl's vagina it can make its way into it and could possibly get you pregnant. You can get pregnant from precum because even though guys say its not a big deal and its not like its a lot, it can still have sperm in it which can also make you pregnant. So just to be on the safe side take a pregnancy test.

Hope I helped.

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ks19610k answered Wednesday June 25 2008, 7:44 am:
First thing First: YES,you can get pregnant like you described, BUT very unlikely.Probably around a 5% chance. You have a much higher chance of contracting venereal herpies or warts , crabs and a few more of those undesire-ables... NOT to mention a colorful reputation that will never go away no matter how hard you scrub!!

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Hustle_Rose answered Tuesday June 24 2008, 10:47 pm:
I've actually been reading recently that some studies are showing that pre-cum actually has no semen in it, meaning you can't be impregnated by pre-cum.
But until these studies hit popular media and are backed up by the medical community publicly, I would still regard pre-cum with caution.
The chances are very, very low that you're pregnant, but whenever you engage in sexual activity of any kind, there's a little risk involved.
But since it would only be a small quantity (if any) semen, it's unlikely that you will be effected. Yes, it only takes one sperm cell, but of the millions of sperm that a man normally ejaculates, very few will actually make it through the body and to the egg.
I honestly think you'll be fine, but if you miss your period be sure to take a pregnancy test. A girl who posted before me said you could take a test a few days after the actual act, but that isn't unless you are expecting your period soon. There are a few tests that can detect pregnancy a few days before you miss your period, but even then you still have to wait until just before it for the test to be effective.
As for the debate regarding how long sperm lives, it does depend on the conditions, but by understanding is that it normally lives 3-5 hours after leaving the body. There are factors that can change this including how much sperm there is, and what the temperature and atmosphere that it enters are like. However the mobility of the sperm is impaired the second it hits air, so the longer it is exposed to air the less likely that it will travel all the way through your cervix and locate your egg.
Please keep in mind that I'm not a medical professional and that I could be misinformed on any of the previous points. I am just giving you my impression.

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pinkpolkadots answered Tuesday June 24 2008, 10:15 pm:
Okay, seeing as he didn't cum on his hand first, I'm gonna say that you're probably going to be fine. If you're really worried about it I would go get the plan B pill from a clinic or something.

However, and I wasn't going to answer this question until I saw this, but that first answer is completely ill-informed. Sperm, under the right conditions, can live up to 72 hours outside the body.

That being said, if he were ever to cum on his hand first, please use extra caution when letting him finger you after jacking off. You don't want to end up another statistic of teens that didn't know you could get pregnant that way.

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Cux answered Tuesday June 24 2008, 10:12 pm:
Anytime sperm gets near a vagina- there is a chance of pregnancy. Yes, that means pre-cum, too.

If he had sperm on his finger, then yes- there is a chance. That chance may be slim, but it still is there.

Though I would say you should be fine, but to be sure- wait a few days and take a pregnancy test.

To debunk the rumor said by ADDiCT3DTOHiMx, sperm DOES NOT die when it hits the air. That is a lie.

This website will help you with any questions you may have in the future:

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If you want to be safe, please use protection, even when doing things like this ;]

--Jack
(16/m)

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ohitscassidy answered Tuesday June 24 2008, 10:08 pm:
your fine, theres like the smallest chance ever

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ADDiCT3DTOHiMx answered Tuesday June 24 2008, 10:00 pm:
It's possible but pretty unlikely. Sperm dies almost immediately when it hits the air. So I wouldn't be too worried about it. (:

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