I'm a third year psychology student and i love giving advice to those who are in need of it but if you ask me a stupid question you should expect a stupid answer i love hanging out with friends and socialising i can be really conceited at times and if you get on my bad side you might wanna sleep with an eye open!
Altogether I would say that I am still finding myself and my place in this huge world, searching for the great amor and visiting beautiful places
so guys feel free to ask me anything that's on your mind and I will try to give you the most helpful advice
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I got my belly pierced about 3 days ago, I have two friends that got theirs done a long time ago, one friend says dont use peroxide use neosporin for healing and salt water for cleaning, and my other friend says dont use neosporin and use peroxide for cleaning, both friends piercings look great and they never had any problems. How do I do this? By the way both friends work at the tattoo and piercing place i got it done at (i met them getting my nose pierced) so going to my piercer is not going to help haha... what is the right way and is it normal to have little hard things on my ring in the morning? (like what kittens get in their eyes almost) (link)
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your freiend was right you should use salt water it's the easiest and most effective way, since you pierced it three days ago you should dip a little salt water on a cotton bud and dab it around the piercing hole everyday until the "pus" starts going away "the little hard things", it's completely normal and part of the healing process
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A relationship of 6 years just ended, I just can't seem to get over it, This is the worst pain I have ever felt. How do I deal with this? I am a 30 year old female. We have 2 children (link)
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wow 6 years is a really long time, i can understand why this is so difficult for you, firstly i would like to say that i'm really sorry and you should remember that everything happens for a reason, i'm sure he wasn't the guy for you and there is someone out there who you're gonna spend the rest of your life with so remember to stay positive. now the first step is accepting that it's over and you don't need him in order to be happy, you need to get rid of letters, pictures, cd's etc. considering you have kids this is gonna be hard but do the best yoou can because these sources are only gonna force you to cling onto the past and you'll never move on so you have to make a clean break and let him know that he is out of your life. Try keeping a journal and write how you feel and what you have improved each day it is best too write down your feelings and most importantly, go out! have a drink with the girls, the worst thing you can do is isolate yourself at home it just gives you time to think about him and you don't want that, you could meet someone new and by realizing that he isn't the "one' just means that your special someone is out there waiting for you remember you have to kiss alot of frogs to find your prince, this won't happen over night it'll take time but it will get better i hope this helped
best of luck
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Ok so I'm 13 and I got my nails done about 6 weeks ago and I'm soo ready for them to come off. Two of them are really loose and some of my real nail is coming off with it and it hurts soo bad. My dad told me I couldn't have fake nails but I went out with friends and got them done anyway ( I know it was stupid) so now he won't give me money or take me to the salon to get them removed. He says it's part of my punishment for "disobeying him". Anyway, since I can't get them removed by the nail people I need to know if there is a way to take them off on my own without pulling them off because it hurts. Help please? (link)
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you need acetone put some in a bowl and put hot water in a larger bowl underneath so it heats it then soak your nails in it it will begin to melt off
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Is there anyway to make your voice sound better when your singing? I'm a 13 year old girl and I'm not the best singer but I'm deft not the worst. I just need help and advice. Thanks! :) (link)
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drink honey, lemon and warm water every morning and do vocal exercises
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It hurts for me to poop?
It hurts and it feels like theres a cut. When I wipe theres a little blood. The only way I can poop is when I drink some green tea. It stings. It hurts tho. I don't want a doctor looking at me down there tho. It feels like a cut, but I dont know. I have been drinking a lot of water and it hasnt helped. When I drink green tea, it makes it hurt less, but it still stings to go. What can I put on it to make it go away? (link)
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you're constipated, sometimes this happens when you don't chew food properly or your bowels are not loose this is really uncomfortable so you should go to a doctor and tell him that you're constipated don't worry he's not gonna look down there he'll just prescribe some medication trust me it helps
best of luck
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Can consuming Cum/sperms cause pregnancy? (link)
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no it can't she can only become pregnant if you came in her vagina
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is my boyfreind be loyal to me?
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you never really gave us details so only he can answer that
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Okay so there is this real close friend of mine.We are classmates. And we had this sleepover, a couple of us, guys and girls. I just broke up two months back with my bf who cheated..so i am still getting over it...And my friend broke up a few days ago. We ended up chatting throughout the night, and i dont know what happened but we ended up kissing each other too..it was not our intention of doing ANYTHING like that. we pretty much have feelings for our ex's and not each other. i dont know why and how it happened.
we have promised not to tell this to anyone. and that this incident will stay a secret between the two of us forever. but i feel weird about it, i feel disgusted for doing such a stupid thing now. do you think things will change because of this? i am scared he would tell someone which i really dont want.HELP. how should i handle this? (link)
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well you see since both of your relationships didn't work our recently you both are looking for a rebound and i'm sure you felt like you needed somebody to help you through your hard time so you kissed him its a natural reaction really don't worry about it, i'm sure he didn't tell anybody i mean why would he? its a two way thing you should definately speak to him and tell him what i'm telling you, that you just needed somebody and all you want from him is friendship if you tell him this then nothing will change just let him know that it was mistake, and please don't feel disgusted sweetheart as i said it was a natural reaction and you have nothing to be ashamed of , it was one meaningless kiss
best of luck
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My boyfriend and i hang out all the time. we hoold hands nd we snuggle sometimes. if the room gets kinda quiet we'll just stare into eachothers eyes. it looks like he's gonna kiss me but he doesn't what should i do to get me to kiss me or what should i do to make the first move? (link)
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he's probably just shy or thinks that you don't want to kiss him so when you're staring into each others eyes again you should look at his lips and lick yours this gives guys the heads up and if that still doesn't work you're just gonna have to make the first move and don't worry theres nothing wrong with girls making the first move
best of luck
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Thanks for your help about the crack and
weed question but I'm not stupid. sorry I'm 13 I was just wondering thanks for telling me bad stuff about it but I already new them but thank you. (:
and how old are you?
have you lost your virginity?
and if your a girl do most of us shave down there?
and if your a guy do most guys like girls with or without hair down there when there having sex?
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you've posted this question so many time and we've answered you, i think you're doing a little more than wondering sweetheart, speak to a parent or someone you trust
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My best guy friend and I were planning to go out after summer ended, but he just told me that he doesn't want to anymore. How do I get over him because everytime I see him I want to cry. (link)
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he probably met someone else over the summer or he just feels that it would be weird considering he is your friend either way i doubt you can change his decision unless you want to speak to him about it, for now you have to cut off all contact with him which means texting, phonecalls and even seeing him for atleast two weeks this is not guaranteed that it will work but it would help a lot, if you really want to get over him all you can do is move on, as soon as you get that new guy trust me your feelings will go away in an instant
best of luck
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I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time awhile back and it was my first time and ever and when I got home I checked to see if there was any blood and there was nothing. Was it possible he didnt 'pop my cherry'? The first time was kind of a quickie but then the next time we had sex it felt like he hit it hard but I never bled. I heard when a girl loses her virginity she will bleed during or after. Am I still a virgin or? (link)
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even though it was a quickie if he was in you then you're not a virgin and all girls are different not all of us bleed or maybe you just broke your hymen before without knowing it you can do this by some exercises and even riding a bicycle but he did pop your cherry so you're not a virgin
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I'm a 13 yearold girl and I hear about people just a year older than me sucking guys dicks and having sex and stuff but I think that oral sex is disgusting. is that normal? I'm not a lesbian I just think that's gross. and should girls shave there down there hair? you all probably think "what is she talking about, she's 13?" but I want to no if I should. It would help if I got advice from girls and guys. and how old were you guys when you lost your virginity? any advice helps. Thanks (: (link)
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alot of people find that oral sex is disgusting especially at your age thats why we have the power of choice so it is completely up to you but you should wait a couple of years before you start having sex, i lost my virginity when i was 17 and i started shaving down there as soon as i began to grow hair i find it to be more comfortable but once again that is entirely up to you and don't worry its completely normal to think about sex at this age but also your body is still developing so you should definately wait
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Okay so I am goin to the water park this Friday and I want to wear a bikini. It's the only bathing suit I have. I wear like size 32a and I want to make my boobs look bigger in a bikini. How can I do that? I want to make them look bigger! Thanks!! (link)
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since you're going to get wet you can't really stuff it so when you tie the top part of you bikini pull it up so that it's tight and it gives your boobs a lift
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How can I look hot when I go to the water park? I am going this weekend and I want to look hot! Whn my hair gets wet how can I do it so it doesnb look like crap and doesn't get all ratty? I am 14 f. I usually don't get ratty hair but it's at like my arm pits so how can I do it? Braid maybe? Also I am really white. I don't have time to get a tan in two days so how can I look not as white?Thanks SOOO MUCHH!!!(: (link)
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you could carry some conditioner, hairspray or hair gel that would hold it in place and if you're going to a water park i'm sure that you are going to get tanned so just put on a pair of hot shorts and a nice top with your hair looking all wet and that will be really hot
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Hello This is embarrassing but yeah, My Name is Amie friends call me 'Me me' because it's my nic-name but it's cute yeah.
I'm 13 and I finger myself I use 2 fingers and I go deep, I have a boyfriend who has fisted my vagina in the past and it hurts sometimes, I also have been... raped but I didn't tell my parents and it wasn't serious but I'll just tell you so you might be-able to tell me whether I could be infected or not.
Here goes what happened:
I was walking near a park it's in a forest and I was going home from a friends house at 9PM it was quite dark and I got to near the main road on a quiet street when I was pulled through a bush and fucked...
Can anybody Help me? (link)
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being raped is a really serious matter i suggest that you tell your parents about this immediately and remember that they're not gonna be mad at you because it wasn't your fault but you can't keep this to yourself because you need to be checked by a doctor and make sure that this guy didn't give you any STD's or even HIV, this guy doesn't deserve to walk free and you have to tell your parents so they can report this to the police.
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I have a guyfriend, and we've been really close for over 4 years. We've been liking each other off and on, but right now, we don't. There is a girl that he likes, and she likes him back, and whenever I see them flirting with each other, I get extremely jealous! Why am I feeling this way? (link)
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well you guys are friends for four years and that's a really long time so it's either you're really protective over him or you like him and you don't know it, but yes i think that you have feelings for him and it's best if you speak to him about it
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Is it harmful to swallow semen?
My wife is concerned about health issues. (link)
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nope, semen is natural it's not harmful if swallowed
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Ok, so I love my gf kelsey and she loves me, but i want to kiss her and im nervous. How should i do it or how should i act. We have been dating for 1 month and i want to kiss her but im very nervous. Im 12, thanks. Please give some advice (link)
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you should wait for a time that you two are alone and when you stop talking then look into her eyes then she'll know it's coming then slowly lean towards her and kiss her, don't hold back because after a month i'm sure she really wants to kiss you too
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i don't know why?
i've been here for almost half a year
i tried to get use to them... but it's really annoying!!!
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well neighbours love new people on the block and since they know everybody else's lives they're gonna try to figure out yours because it seems like you don't speak to them, so just be friendly everytime you see them just say hello, how's it going and stuff like that so they wont keep trying to figure you out
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