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Is It Safe Fingering Myself after I have been raped?


Question Posted Tuesday June 7 2011, 3:47 pm

Hello This is embarrassing but yeah, My Name is Amie friends call me 'Me me' because it's my nic-name but it's cute yeah.

I'm 13 and I finger myself I use 2 fingers and I go deep, I have a boyfriend who has fisted my vagina in the past and it hurts sometimes, I also have been... raped but I didn't tell my parents and it wasn't serious but I'll just tell you so you might be-able to tell me whether I could be infected or not.

Here goes what happened:

I was walking near a park it's in a forest and I was going home from a friends house at 9PM it was quite dark and I got to near the main road on a quiet street when I was pulled through a bush and fucked...

Can anybody Help me?


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nikz answered Wednesday June 8 2011, 10:46 am:
being raped is a really serious matter i suggest that you tell your parents about this immediately and remember that they're not gonna be mad at you because it wasn't your fault but you can't keep this to yourself because you need to be checked by a doctor and make sure that this guy didn't give you any STD's or even HIV, this guy doesn't deserve to walk free and you have to tell your parents so they can report this to the police.

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adviceman49 answered Wednesday June 8 2011, 9:59 am:
First, rape is always serious. Fortunately you were not seriously hurt. The next girl may not be so lucky.

Whether you know your attacker or not you need to report this rape to the police.


You need to be checked by a doctor to make sure you are not pregnant and have not contracted any diseases.


Depending on how long ago you were raped there may still be a chance for the hospital to collect forensic evidence.


My advice is: Tell you parent immediately what has happened to you. Have them call the police immediately. After you have spoken to the police have them call a rape crisis center for you to speak with.

You need to do this for yourself and for future victims.

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