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On Xanga,How do you get music on your page?It says you have to have a url?Whats A URL and How do you get one?Someone please help!!

*Thanks*

go to www.xanga.com/xanga_music pick out ur song right click on it and press copy shorcut then paste that into wer it says paste url for the music

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how can u get a popular guy to like u when u r very very shy???

NEVER get someone to try to like u bt wut u can do is talk to him dont be shy put urself out there be comfortable and just " holla " at him lmao

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okay well i feel really stupid asking this but okay here i go.. i have done everything with a guy besides suck dick/blowjob w/e.. okay and its not that i dont want to bc i do but im scared! What if i dont do it right or sumthing?! Do you have any advice on how to do it or step by step or anything?! If so thanx! i really appreciate it!
-Desperate girl-

i have never really done it bt just try it and see how it goes u'll get better at it lol ask the guy to help u out its cute wen a grl doesnt kno wat to do nd the guy helps so try dat lol

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i rly wanna get on birth control..because of my period..its irregular and BC is supposed to make it go back on track right???
and do you gain weight or lose it when you 1st start it??
how much does it costs and whats a good web site to get information about it???

frm wut i kno u gain weight like crazy on birth control... im not sure how much it costs... go see ur doctor he/she will kno everything and have the answers to ur questions if u dont get em answered here

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i need good way to study because the way i study doesnt work and i cant afforid to lose a another test this semster.PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

power notes =] dats wut i use wen i study... simple reading text in a book does not help... try forming a study group or something

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ok me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex..i right now am a virgin..my question is, ive never shaved and he wants me to..but like i honestly dont know how i'm suppose to do it..do you just shave everything? or what..and like what about the hair really far back?? sorry if this questions a lil blunt but i really need advice & well thats what this sites for right?..

:) thanx in advance..i'd really appreciate some advice :)

well see thats why u wax so u dont have to worry bout that i kno it sounds like it would hurt bt it really doesnt ive been doing it for a while nd its allrighty! if u shave it will grow back thicker and darker just like wen u shave ur legs... hope i helped! have fun with that sex lmao

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nIna yOu`ve knOwn me fOr idk hOw lOnq..yOu knOw hOw passiOnate i qet with qUysz..well help! i wanT sOme one that knOwsz me persOnally to answer- i ReaLLy like tarrique's cOusin..Pierre...i`ve had sex with him =/ idk hOw many times..i really lOve him-i knO i dO..lYinq tO my parEntsz..stEaLinq stuff fOr him.. seeInq him WHENEVER I CAN! people say hez usinq me fOr sex and i asked him n he sed-well if i wuz i wOuldnt call yOu flirt with yOu n uD be here every niqHt..i waNna qO OuT wiTh hiM sO bad qirl! iT`sz been like 3 mOnthsz uNder hisz spell! i asKed him "wHat dO yOu do when the persOn yOu really really like..duznt like u bak?" Hesz like idk i've nevA rEallY reaLLy liked sum1..wE haVe taLksz abOut beinq a cOuple every niqht..he sed he canT beCuz his LasT g/F *A yEa aqO* HuRt hIm sOo Bad n nOw itz takiNq a Lonq tiMe 4 him 2 b ThE saMe...what shOuld i say? i knO i shOuld qive him time..but it`sz hard knOwing he`sz sO cLose yet sO far!!

well okay first i know its tiffany lmao =] i think you should tell him that its not right for u to wait in line for him because okay idk who this dude is bt ur so much better than to try like throwing urself at him let him come to u and try to understand how hes feeling cuz u kno we've both been thru being hurt by guys and its hard to get back on track so i say keep at a friends with benefits * wink wink * level and then wen hes ready u will kno he'll let u kno cuz how im seeing it he likes u too i mean why wouldnt he ur pretty ur nice ur caring so juss give him time i kno its hard grl bt itll all happen wen u least expect it and dat will be tha best moment =] so dont beat urself up over it just play it cool go with the flow u dont wanna put urself in a position wer u look so desperate and like ur chasing after him bt like i said give it time he'll come to u why wouldnt he =] hope i helped gurl! luv ya!

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someone told me that if water is cold it fastens up your metabolism more then warm water would, is that true? also what other things speed up your metabolisn..thank you

ive heard that green tea speeds up ur metabolism... bt idk lol

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hi
I'm 27 years old male from Windhoek,Namibia.
my girlfriend and i broke up after two years of healthy relationhsip.i still love her very much though and i'm pleading day and night for her to give it another try.i know her decision was made by the influence of some of her family. her family pretents alot with me,but i don't have a problem with them.altough i'm now living 400km away from her i still can't get her out of my mind.she was and still is the best thing that has ever happen to me.
please help me..what do i do to get her back.
Thank you
Haroldt

you need to find some way to talk to her and maybe talk to her parents as well! im sorry that this happened bt its worth a try i hope i helpd

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hey, well i went out with this one guy for like 9 1/2 months we did fucking everything together! we spent every day together and its not been a month sense we broke up and i want him bak, but the thing is that i have a new boyfriend...hes a sweetheart and everything, but hes a junior when im only a freshman...my new boy is great but i want my old one bak...i juss want things bak to teh way that they used to b, bc now i dont think i can ever b happy again!!! i miss him so much i still love him and i want him bak to bad...but the thing is idk if he wants me bak...i feel really bad about this whole situation...please help me!!!

P.S.- dont tell me to move on!!! i would if i could trust me, but he is all that my heart wants!!! HELP!!!!

you should talk to both of them about it .. dont leave one hanging

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I use a foot massager feels great and gets it out can u send me sum more pics to my e-mail hckyguy999@yahoo.com cuz ur prbly 1 of the sexiest girls ive ever seen

... lmao

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i get naked when i do it my dick was 3 1/2 when i was 12 is that big or small now its 4 1/2
is that small for my age

... yeah dats pretty small... how old r u?

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I NEED to learn how to swallow pills... i just cant do it, i have a huge gag reflex but i'm in so much pain and the only med. i can get is swallowable. Anyone know any tricks??

swallow with water thats what i do =]

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ur sexy and pencil sharpeners would hurt if u want to get my e-mail go to my column

ahaha umm i mean the electric pencil sharpeners the way it vibrates... seting it on top of ur clothing right on ur penis .. yeah i kno ppl who do that

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How long does a girl have her period? like how many days?

not every girl has her period as long as the other one... some may have it a week like i do.. some have it 5 days... some girls have it every other month bt 2 weeks into those months.. so u dont really know

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**OK my friends name is Nancy.(changed to be confidential)Her idea of fun is drugs. Any time she can get a hold of a drug she takes advantage of it. The drugs "I KNOW OF" that she has tried is coke, aderal, and defently weed! Chronic is what she lives for, everyday after school she smokes with her sister. Any other drug she usually doesnt tell me bout. She also drinks. I dont think she does alot. Whats the problem your asking? my friend just turned 13 4 months ago!! Yea...so everytime i try to tell her "Nancy you're so much better than that and you kno it!" she just goes "Dude its nothing it cant hurt me" Nancy is a smart girl, she could do much with her life! I never kno if an ingrediant in any of the drugs she takes she could be allergic to. I need help, what do I do?!
**Anoynomous**

you REALLY need to talk to her about it and u needa find out more about these drugs and tell her bout it and prove ot her that she will not be okay so many ppl say it wont happen to me and shit like that bt 70% of those that say that are the ones that it does happen to so u need to be there for u and really try to help her nd if it doesnt work get her some serious help

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My group of friends and I have been really close for a long time, until recently. We were all loyal to eachother and thought that we could put lots of trust into eachother...until we found out some things about this girl Cara. She had been saying bad things about all of us behind our backs. Individually! We all knew that she had been doing this for awhile and we kinda excepted it as being her. We would nod our head when she talked about another friend, but wouldn't participate in the verbal backstab. You see, she told every one of us that we each were the only ones that she could trust and the only ones that really understood her. That made us special and feel that we could trust her. WRONG! recently we found out that she had been doing this for years and giving verbal beatings to all of her so called friends behind their backs. Its not even that that ticks us off so much. You see, she always is depressed and moody and ruining our fun by being sad about things that she say are happening at home or at school, but in reality, she has a great mom and dad, and is getting excellent grades. We all didn't talk to her for one week and she retaliated. she told anyone with ears all about how we were all jerks. Than the next day, she acts all sad and trys to apologize. She says that she's truly sorry and all and we all want to forgive her. She says that she is going to change and she needs our help and just wants us back. So naturally we forgive her....but today she started talking about us and acting all depressed and moody again! We have no idea what to do because even though she is a mean jerk, she's that kind of person that you want to hate, but you miss and you want them to miss you and like you. She will also spread rumors about us if we be mean to her. We are so confused at what to do. It doesn't help that we all go to the same school, so we can't just ignore her because were in a lot of the same classes. HELP!

omgod wow.. im kind of in that situation right now.. if shes going to be a bitch and lemme tel u how im dealin with mine.. u gotta give her time to fess up and admit she was wrong and prove to u shes sorry .. now like the person im in shit with.. shes not the type to dot hat... so u just gotta ignore it cuz she will stop her bullshit in a matter of time wen she realizes dat its not affecting u.. i kno its hard cuz she means so much to u bt ur worth more than worrying buot wut a helpless lil bitch thinks... so u can either try talking to her or moving on bcuz ur so much better than to let someone put u down everyday! hope i helped

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Hi, I straighten my hair everyday, but now that its rainiing im afrid it will get frizzzy and wavy. I use john fried hair serum and i have a chi. Do u think it will go wavy on me? Or do u have any ideas wut to do with my hair so it wont get frizzy and wavy? * I rAtE*

im not sure but what i use for my hair to stay straight is ill wash my hair and put some Paul Mitchell straightening gel and then blow dry it straight... and then i use a straightenin iron and straighten it some more... dat works for me and it wont frizz up =] hope i helped

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Hi there! I've got my own column on here (EMiLYELiZABETH) but today I'm needing some advice.

I'm 2O/f and tomorrow I've got a huge job interview with the police department. My question is... what should I wear and how should I do my hair?? It's brown with reddish highlights, half way down my back (about to the bottom of my bra). I like it either up or down, so that isn't an issue.

As far as what to wear, I was wondering about pinstripe pants or a skirt? Also, what kind of shirt? I've got a few nice sweaters or some that I can layer with.

Any help would be GREATLY appricated!! Thanks so much!

Em

i think you should wear a cute not too dressy white blouse with the pinstripe pants.. like have a black nd white thing going on with some cute white shoes and put your hair up in a pretty bun .. hope i helped!

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I just got a Virgin Mobile phone for my b/day.. Thing is, I've already spent $70 on it in phone cards.. And I've had it for a month. I REALLY need minutes on the phone, because I ran out a week or two ago. Thing is, I'm flat broke & my mom isn't willing to buy me a phone card. Any ideas on how to make money? And don't say babysitting!

selling lemonade?

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