Question Posted Wednesday October 20 2004, 12:37 pm
ok me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex..i right now am a virgin..my question is, ive never shaved and he wants me to..but like i honestly dont know how i'm suppose to do it..do you just shave everything? or what..and like what about the hair really far back?? sorry if this questions a lil blunt but i really need advice & well thats what this sites for right?..
:) thanx in advance..i'd really appreciate some advice :)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? TommiBrowne answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 2:05 pm: Dear Thanks In Advance,
If you are a virgin and you have made up your mind about having sexual intercourse with your current boyfriend, make sure that shaving is absolutely your decision. If your mind is made up and you go through with having sex with your boyfriend, BE SAFE!! Use a condom and talk over sex issues and safe sex if you two haven't already. You have to be positive that this change for you is what it is...for you. Don't let the fact of you pleasing your boyfriend influence your choice. So, if you have gotten over the bridge of actually shaving, take this procedure:
1. You have to be wet while doing it. Say like during a bath or shower
2. The choice of female shaving razor I recommend would be Gillette for women
3. When you shave, ALWAYS shave down. NEVER go against the natural hair growth's direction
4. When you reach your clitoris, pull it out of they way so you can reach the hair around it
5. Shave evenly and if you want to go further back, just keep the same procedure going
6. When your satisfied, rinse and wash to get all spare hair follicles
7. Before getting out of the shower or tub, massage Johnson and Johnson's brand baby oil on the shaved area to repel itching
That's it. Simple and safe. When you do actually shave, take slow cautious strokes. The oil will moisturize your private area. If you like the results, stick to this procedure until you have mastered your own from experience. [ TommiBrowne's advice column | Ask TommiBrowne A Question ]
xokaylanicoleox answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 2:05 pm: Shave everything! Just put like shaving cream or something like that, that you would shave your legs with. Then shave down not up and make sure you get everything "down there". -Kayla [ xokaylanicoleox's advice column | Ask xokaylanicoleox A Question ]
Karen answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 1:56 pm: I shave down there and it's like shaving your legs except that it grows back faster and darker and you gotta watch out not to get cuts! Just put some shaving cream on everywhere "down there" and just shave upwards, towards you! Watch out not to get shaving cream on your labia and shave slowly because it might sting a little bit if you go fast! That's basically how you shave "down there"! After you're done, just put some lotion on "down there" so it'll reduce the redness and heal the cuts! Hope I helped :) [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
niinax3 answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 1:44 pm: well see thats why u wax so u dont have to worry bout that i kno it sounds like it would hurt bt it really doesnt ive been doing it for a while nd its allrighty! if u shave it will grow back thicker and darker just like wen u shave ur legs... hope i helped! have fun with that sex lmao [ niinax3's advice column | Ask niinax3 A Question ]
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