Hello, world! im jaimee.but u can call me twix im tall, blonde, mostly green eyes, i like karate nd softball. i love all of my friends 2 death.:D i like helping people too. i love animals and nature. i love mixing styles((emo, hardcore,hippie)) but usually i will dress in random mix matched clothes. IM A VEGETARIAN AND PROUD! i will listen to almost everykind of music, alothough rap and country arnt really on my list. well...have "funn" on my site! :D oh and, dont take it personally if im sarcastic @ all, im prolly just in a bad mood. and you might find that a lot of my answers will simply be "www.google.com" for obvious reasons. byee! : ) oh and feeeell FREE to IM me plzzz!!!!!!!!!!
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whaT DO you do if u hear your parents ummm..... doing it. they're like 48 and i think its wrong. They were both making sounds and i don't want to confront either one. please help me i dont no y but it bothers me.
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just forget about it. its a natural part of life, and most likley you will do it too someday.
~*jaimee*~
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I am 13 and i will call the two boys that i fancy 1 and 2. 1 is a real stunner, blond spikey hair, blue eyes a, six pack, and he's my age, but he doesn't like me as more than a friend i don't think although it seems like he's flirting with my sometimes. 2 is 18, dark brown, spikey hair, blue eyes and he's REALLY sweet, but everyone keeps saying he's too old for me, and he doesn't fancy me anyway. What should i do because i really like both of these lads and i don't know which one of them to fancy and whether i should ask one of them out or not so please deal with this question as soon as possible. I will rate you high. Thanks (link)
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omg hey loz!!
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ok im 13 and im 210 pounds but im also 5'6 and i need help to burn my belly fat and how do you get rid of chin fat like doubled chined fat i rank high (link)
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TALK TO A DOCTOR!! and you know, just stay active and stuff, but DEFIANTLEY talk to a doctor or yuor parents. hope i helped!
:D ~*jaimee*~
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is anyone else extremley bored? (link)
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omg YESSSS!!!!!!!!!!! it horrible.
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I'd like advice with a matter ive often thought about but never done anything about.
Im just turned 50 now. but during my school years I was often bullied, maybe because i was a quiet shy sort of girl at the time. The sort bullying kids make a bee-line for.
But i went through a thoroughly miserable traumatic time throughout my last 2 years of secondary school between 1968 and 1970. Thats age 13 to 15. I was consistently bullied by gangs of other girls, mostly within the same school year, every day of every week. All the time, all year. It was ceaseless and i never had a moments peace from it. It was sometimes the threat of something awful possibly happening that kept me frightened and nervous, but often it became violent, maybe being pushed down stairs at school or literally punched in the face for absolutely no reason at all. All everyone else did was laugh. I was on my own and couldnt do anything about it. I was all the time afraid and introverted.
My parents didnt understand or believe me, neither did anyone else. The teachers did nothing to help.
I ended being sent to court and sent away into a childrens home twice, Once at 14 and then just before i was actually 15 in may of 1970. Each time it was for a period of 3 or 4 weeks. but it was horrendous, i was scared to death. staff tried to give me internal examinations and once i had to stand naked while the homes doctor looked me over, for what reason i dont know, that was so embarassing and humiliating.
And all this simply because i was too frightened to go to school or left during the day before anything else happened to me. Once i was seen outside by the housemaster, Mr Cleary of Plant Hill High School of Blackley in Manchester. He dragged and pushed me around to get me outside the head masters office, I would have willingly gone there if he had just asked me. But as soon as the headmaster came out,instead of asking me whats wrong, he strapped me on my hands. I was so shocked, i suddenly wet my clothing. I then couldnt go into the class room.so i went crying into the wash room and then went home.
Since then i have been affected by no confidence, I cannot mix well with people. I am insecure, nervous. and still after al these years, think of it all the time. It was such a terrible growing up time. I have no self confidence or self esteem at all. People can easily dominate and patronise me and they often do, and i dont know how to deal with it. If i had felt happy and confident during my growing up this would not be happening. I would have the positive life and be able to cope like the rest of my family.
Is there any way i can be paid compensation for what i suffered then, and have suffered since, due to my experiences?I personally believe i should be paid at least four thousand pounds for what i went through. Maybe a couple of thousand for each year i spent each day filled with fear and taken from my home,being punished for being a victim. I suffered through no fault of my own, and i should be helped to have some happiness and contentment now that i am getting older and should be be having some peace now. I would so much appreciate your guidance on this matter. (link)
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I will try hard to answer this to the best of my abilities. First off, no amount of money can fix that sort of damage. You might consider getting counseling. I know your past must bring many painful memories, but try to forget them if you can. Start being more social, make some new friends who you can talk to. try volenteering in community projects to boost your confidence. maybe, if you are Christian, going to curch will bring you comfort. Dont waste the rest of your life living like this. try your best to help yuorself and others who might be in similar situations like this. i hope i helped! good luck : )
~*jaimee*~
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My Friend has a problem but shes to embaressed to aske it on here.. she gets dirreah ALOT like 3 times a day. and she doesnt know whats rong with her and sometimes she hardly eats and still its shootin out of her like theres no tomorrow... i dont know how to help her i have even googled it... but if you could help that would be great thanks (link)
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uhmmm, no offense, but i dont think thats a good question to ask on this site. You really dont know whos answering it.lol. Just dont be embarassed, tell a parent or someone who can get her to the doctor!!! hope i helped!
~*jaimee*~
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oh my god i am 14 years old and i look very younf for my age. I need a job??? anyone have any ideas please i really need the money. (link)
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hey i really dont think it matters how old you look just how old you are. I'm sure you could do those simple jobs like baby sitting, or mowing ect. but one thing that i know of is ice cream places. also maybe you could be a busboy. i hope i helped! good luck!
~*jaimee*~
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c i hav this bf (as in im a grl and im 11) i havnt ceen him all summer and i i wanna breek up with him and i saw a my ex today and like omg hes like SOOOOOOOOOOOOO HOT!!!!and i reely wan to ask him out again but i dont kno if he likes me or not and i saw him today in the stores and he called my name and we had a 1 minute comversation theni had to go but the i passed the store going home and he said bye!!like shouting it and then i was like EEEEEEEEEEEEKKKKKKKKK!!!!!but like my bf dosnt kno i wan tot breek up wih him and im afraid to say coz hes like totally upsest with me and im serious to the point that it gets anoyin sometimes~~~~~!!!!!! (link)
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okay well i would definatley aSk the other boy out, but also tell your current b/f you want to break up first. I havent seen my b/f all summer either, and im kind of in oyur situation, but not w/ the whole ex thing lol. But anyway, if you have a school directory then you could call him or ask one of you friends to tell him. Don't be afraid at all. hpoe i helped!! good luck!! :D
~*jaimee*~ (jemmy)
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LIKe OHNOS I JUST MICROWAVED MY MUM N I DUN NO WUT 2 DO???? (link)
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aww,, you poor, poor thing. actually, i feel very bad for your microwave. it probabaly exploded.=/.
LIKE OHNOS!!!!!!!!!!
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Ok so yesterday i was raped =(....but see the thing is i dont know how to tell my parents....or anyone. I kind of feel embaresed that it happend and idk. But should i tell them and how should I tell them.
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okay listen i know someone who was in a similar situation...and you really need to tell your parents. you will prolly end up crying, but thats fine.your parents will understand and something really needs to be done about this. i know it will be very hard, but it is necassary. just sit down with them, maybe you will only feel comfortable with one of them, and just tell them everything. Or everything that you r ready to tell them. i hope all goes well, and i hope i helped. : ). dont worry, it will be just fine.
any other questions you have, feel free to ask.
~*jaimee*~
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theirs a really cool 11 banded spike bracelet that i want. my dad says not to go overboard with bieng punk/gothic. do u think thats going overboard????? i dont think so. (link)
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no i dont think so, and i think that all in all it is your choice what you wear but your dad i guess has a different oppinion. try to persuade him....if you can.
: ) hope i helllpppedddd
~*jemmy*~
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how do you do those little hearts? (link)
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copy & paste :D
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okay this weekend I'm meeting my boyfriend's ENTIRE family at his sister's graduation party, and they're the REALLY formal type who like kiss you on the cheek and stuff. well you know how when girls kiss in the cheek? do you move your head to the left or the right? cause every time i do that i always kiss the wrong side and we always bump and its so embarrassing haha...
what other ways can i make a good impression? (link)
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say thank you a lot...and when you kiss on the cheek or watevr just let them move first and then either sit still or move the opposite way.dress nice, don't put on too much makeup, offer to do things like the dishes and if they say u can go off with your boyfriend and do whatever always ask if they need help first, and if not expet the offer. hoPe I hElPed!! good luck :D
~*jemmy*~
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A friend of mine is currently in a relationship with some woman from a little town with the name of a kitchen utensil (this isn't some kind of moronic internet relationship - the towns only a few miles from here - its a moronic, yet real relationship) Anyway this dumb bastard found out that his woman was cheating on him, and for about a week he ran around yelling "Dear jesus how can that bastard do that, he took her virginity, that was MY virginity, he took my virginity! I'll get that bastard!" Then he began to think about what he said, took the large amount of gay jokes and sat down. Anyway, this kid is convinced that he will never find anyone better (and this is probably the best thing that will ever happen to him) and hes all depressed because they made all these plans about going off and living with each other next year. Anyway, this kid still wants to be involved with this woman and REALLY just isn't picking up on the hints. The wench got off scott free and the issue doesn't even seem to come up anymore... But for the most part, everyone but that kid knows that the girlfriend is still cheating on him. The two people that tried to talk to him about it - one was direct and was honest with him, the kid thinks hes an asshole now, and the kid that sugarcoated the whole story didn't get anything accomplished. Anyone who wants to take a tackle at the situation, let me know what you'd do.
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u said sacrcasim will be appreciated, so here you go:
1. that was one of the most like stupid, confusing questions I've heard of.
2. you said "kid" too much.
3. you said "woman" too much.
4. that question didn't make sense.
5. "that kid" seems pretty...uhh...not bright.
yea sry usually im nice but i also like sarcasim so here u go. and that kid or watevr sounds like he needs some help. : ) o yea and dont take this personally.
~*jemmy*~
ok well i'm responding to your feed back. First off, u said sarcastic remarks would be apreciated, so if u dont want them dont say you do. duh. And second, i really could care less if my answer was a "blob of text". that just made me laugh. i really think u r a blob, period. oh and, ive never heard of that Ayn Rand or watevr...so umm that really doesnt insult me. and if u think my answer was a "blob of text" *smirks* htne wtf did u give me a 4 for? wow. some people really need help.
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I have this cousin and she's in 6th grade and me and her are really good friends even though I'm 2 years older than her. Anyways, A LOT of my friends and older guys (like 14/15 yr old guys) thinks she's really hott and I think it's because she has big boobs for her age and to be honest, her bras are really padded. Well i'm sick of guys comin up to me and being like "god your cousins soo hott..she looks older than you!" and pretty much all my guy friends think she's hott and shes really not like "OMG SO PRETTY"..I just don't know what to tell them or what to tell her because it's so messed up..help please? oh yea, and my cuzin is eleven.. (link)
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well, if it relly gets on your nerves after u tel them to sstop nicley them tell them to just back off r something. Or just say somethig like "Well stop telling that to me and go tell my cousin." other than that im not really sure what to tell you, but i hope io helped!!! :D good luck!
~*jemmy*~
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what shows on broadway in new york city do you recommend besides the lion king? (already saw it) (link)
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beauty and the beast was pretty cool, and i REALLY want to see The Phantom of the Operah. Everyone who has seen it has loved it. hope i helped! :D
~*jemmy*~
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Hi im a 16 yr old female. i need to get in shape for the swim season next year so i can go to state. ( so close last year) well ive gain some weight(now 150) and im on a diet now. it consists of mostly egg whites and absolutly no junk food, sugar, and everything else that will lead to weight gain. Now for my question: with the workout im doing should i stay with it or change some of the exercises. i get the fitness magazine and someone wrote in about change exercises. and is it good to not do the same thing over and over again. im also going to start going to a gym, should i also join and arobics class, but boxing looks fun. im very confused and i hope you can understand what im asking. thank for everything and sorry about my spelling.
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Hey yeah I think it would be a good idea too switch up your routines once in a while,or just do the same thing over and over but each time make it more complicated. I'm sure arobics would help but I just saw a brief preveiw on T.V. that was talking about how boxing is like one of the best ways to keep in shape ((for women)). It sounds like you are already off to a great start, and I hope all goes well with the state thing. 8) gOod LUcK!!
hope i helped!:D
~*jemmy*~
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I'm going to a movie with my best friend, her boyfriend, and his friend who I like tomorrow. The boy I like and I are good friends but I want to know if there are any hints I can give him tomorrow at the movies, maybe to lead him on. People say he likes me and he's been giving hints but how should I act tomorrow. Any tips?
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You can do stuff like laugh @ things he thinks are funny, sit next to him, trow popcorn@ him playfully, push him in a friendly way, but don;t annoy him. Later in the movie maybe you could even ask him out!!! :D HOpE I helPeD!! Good luck!!
~*jemmy*~
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I love denim skirts and flouncy skirts from abercrombie! ..the problem is..They are too expensive! Do you guys know anywhere I can get a bargain skirt?..don't say ebay! Thanks! (link)
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hollister, aeropastale, jc penny, boscovs, khols, maybe gap.
HOPe I helpeD!! :D
~*jemmy*~
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My girlfriend is a quite beautiful girl. And I know she knows she's beautiful. She's also pretty damn confident. But, for some reason it seems like she's insecure around me. Every time we're intimate and I try to slid my hand down her stomach she sucks it in. I guess she doesn't think I notice but, I do. She has a fine, flat tummy so why she feels the need to suck it in is beyond me. I also don't understand if I did anything to make her feel insecure. I tell her that I think she's beautiful every chance I get. I don't know what to do here. (link)
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She's probably not used to habing a boy friend like you, and wants to impress you. a lot of girls think they are fat, some just wanting attention, others really thinking it. Just try to talk to her maybe, tell her that there is no need to worry about those kind of thing. HoPE i hELpeD! Good luck :D
~*jemmy*~
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