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what do you do when ur a freshman dating a sophomores (14/f) and all the sophomore girls hate you bc ur dating a sophomore? all these sophomores are getting all these other people to be against you, what do you do?

tell them to go to hell

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I havent worn makeup much but now that i am getting older i try to wear it. my everytime i wear some, someone says "your wearing makeup!!" and they sound so shocked, it makes me embaraced so i was wondering if i should just start this summer and when i get back to school it will be different.

omg me to sometimes its so annoying and when you wear it they things its because of a guy or when you get your nails done .yeah were it over the summer and let peopl get use to seeing you with make up

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alright so theres a guy basketball game at 6..my best friend wants me to go and she just called the thing is my boyfriend is over protective like that so he mite care if i went to a guys basketball game but..hes playing football sot heres no way i can call him and ask him or w.e for a while..should i just go and tel him and tkae the chance or should i go and say i went shopping with ym mom or should i just stay home?

tell ur boyfriend to shut the fuck up its nice to be protective but damn if he gets pissed becuase your going to a damn game ...slap the fuck out of him .....you should be able to go places with out your boyfriend being so protective

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i usually straighten my hair evry morning, my hair is already pretty naturally straight with a little wave, but my hair is really thick and it is really hard to get straight, i use a really good straightenner, but my hair just wont straighten all the way, is there anything i can do or put in it to help it straighten more? ill rate you high

well you could get it cemmical done coast up to 300 thats how much is was for mine and i for got what kinda strighter to get but my go's up to 140 degrees

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What Should I get My Boyfriend For Valentines Day??....He's 14 and He Has Just About Every Cologne Made!...Because thats what I was going to get him..He is a Skateboarder...umm..thats about it...What Should I Get Him??

SKATEBORED!.if not then something from pacsun

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How exactly can my boyfriend and i have some privacy without his sister or anyone watching us or barging in on us? not like..sexually..like just so we can have time together. Thanks!

mmm dinner and a movie

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Okay so here's my problem...I have a lot of friends, and i would say 70% of them are guys. youre probably wondering what the problem is right? Well the problem is, i have a tendancy to fall in love with my guy friends because they are so sweet and the perfect boyfriend material type for me. Sometimes i think they like me by how they act around me, but then i find out they only like me as a "friend" I'm sick of being just the friend and i want to show the guys i can be more than a friend...how can i should my guy friends that i can be more then just friends with them? That i want to be seen as girlfriend material?

i have the same issue as you i hang out with 70% of guys ...even at lunch i sit with all guys i'm the only girl ..some girls can piss me off with there fucking attide being all that because they were fucking ambercrombie and shit and they don't like me becausei'm friends with the hott guy i wear like skater stuff so there against me two ......mmmmmmm if i were you flirt with them maybe go to the movies with him get closer to him

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hi i have a friend that is WAyy to prideful of her backround. she like, bases her life on it. il use an example, say if she were spanish, shed make a sn that would be like spanishbaby or cutie spanishgirl and she has nicknames, real nicknames that are words in spanish like guapa or buena chichi chicana etc or some crap like that, and her whole family speaks it n shes always singing songs in it, and talking it to me. shel say something and then il be like what?? and shel say it in english, like "it means im so cool in spanish". and always wearing clothes that represent it, and rarely does she have friends that dont speak it. and her whole room is decorated in it, and she wears jewelry representing it, and shes always like "you cant speak it stupid" or she always like "oh shutup you cant even speak it" if i try to say a word, and shel just go up to random people and be like haha she cant read spanish. im not saying i dont like her i maen its just getting SO annoying, i wouldnt be so annoyed if maybe i spoke it too, but im just getting terribly sick of it. shes always talking it to people behind my back..laughing at me with another person, what do you think i should do?

tell her to kill her slef

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hi, uhhh its kinda hard to talk about this but, I dont know what to tell my boifriend, I mean he asked me if I was a virgin or not n i keep aboiding the question, you see when I was 13 I was rapped, what should I tell my boifrien? should I lie or tell him the truth, do you think it will effect the relationship?

thanks so much (I rate well!!!) HaLeY

tell him the truth that way he won't ask you that kinda stuff

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my friend who i told that i liked him asked my friend for my number. she gave him the wrong number. so he asked her for my number? does this mean he is shy?! and if so how do i open him up a bit?

how stupid can your friend be to give the wrong damn number ? .....go up to him and give him your number in stead (not the wrong number like your friend)

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my friends say i should be more affectionate with my cursh because he likes me! what should i do?! how can i be affectionate?!

hug him , tease him , flirt with him .........then if its a reall good moment kiss him

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I've been going out with this guy for 5 months and i love him and everything... but i think my ex is hot and sometimes i even dream about doing stuff with him (i've dreamed at least 4 times in the past month me and my ex either making out, or having sex) and i love talking to my ex even though i don't like him anymore and my boyfriend kind of gets mad when i talk to him.. but i don't want to end things with my boyfriend.. what should i do?

well first off he is ur ex so you can talk to him ...screw your boyfriend ....thats pretty stipid as if your boyfriend doesn't talk to his ex girl friend

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I don't mean to bash the religion, but I'm sick of it. I live in Utah, so I'm surrounded by it. And everyone is always bringing up that the religion should be more a part of the school. Well, I don't believe in any of it. Personally, I think their religion was just founded on Joseph Smith trying to steal other men's wives and get away with it. And they have a class here. How do they get away with having a religiously oriented class in a public school, isn't that infringing on the separation of church and state clause? My question is how do I deal with all of this religion when I don't want it, especially since all the guys that I could date are mormon?

the hell with that its a free country do want ever u want !

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me and my boyfriend fight on and off all the time we never het along ne more but i love him i have been with him for almost 2 years and i almost had a kid with him but he treats me really bad. He yells at me all the time and calls me really mean, hurtful names he hurts me so bad sometimes that i cry and sometimes cry myself to sleep he means the world to me but he always makes me feel like i am nothing and puts me down all the time. Ihave tried to kill myself before because he has made me feel so bad about myself. I am so confused and i dont know what to do please help me WHAT DO I DO?

well break up with him and killing ur self over him is dumb .....i would of killed him ....anyways no one should put u down like that ......teach him a thing or to

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Hey ok well theres this dance comeing up and i really want to ask a friend of mine if he wants to go to it with me but, i cant dance, and i mean i dunno if he is a good dancer but even if he isnt i dotn want to make a fool out of myself. Also, i dunno, maybe it would be awkward if i asked him toit and he said no...cuz we are really good friends, i just want to go with him lol as friends.

find some black girls cuz damn they can dance so good

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I've got a question about my friend. I think she may have some serious mental problems. This morning in first hour she was writing a note to someone (I didn't know she was). Well, I glanced over in her direction and she flipped the paper, turned to look at me, and said: "Stop reading my fucking note! God, are you ever going to leave me alone?!?!" So, I asked: "...what...note?" She rolled her eyes and moved to another seat. So, naturally, I was in my seat thinking "What the hell did I do?" Anyway, in third hour she sat beside me again. Again, she was writing notes and I didn't know that she was, so I turned around to talk to her. She FREAKED out and starts yelling about how I'm a nosy bitch. I was ...basically speechless. I mean, it's like she's got some mental problem with excessive paranoia. For instance, yesterday in our Study Hall my boyfriend and I were writing notes to each other. My friend wanted to look at them, and because I said no, she automatically assumed that they were about her and proceeded to call me a bitch. They weren't even remotely related to her. If I talk to anyone other than her she automatically thinks that I'm talking about her or telling them secrets about her. She spreads horrible lies about couples at our schools, including me and my boyfriend. Sometimes I wonder if I should get her some counseling to try to help her out. She's excessively paranoid. I think she may be bi-polar as well (either that or she has some SERIOUS mood swings). For example, in P.E. one morning she was on a different team than me and was so mad at ME that she rammed me up into the bleachers. After P.E. she cussed me out in the locker rooms for being a "complete asshole." Then at Lunch two periods later she acted like nothing was wrong, or that nothing had ever happened. In the hallway this afternoon, I was joking about her using her cellphone (which is strictly against the school rules) and she lost it. Is this just normal teenager behavior or does my friend need some serious help? All advice would be appreciated.

well if i were u .i would of gone off on her the first time she yelled at u ..well anywanys ...bitch slap her (maybe knock some since in her )

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14/f...theres a girl in one of my classes and she'll sit there the whole class period and talk about me loud enuff for me to hear..so she obviously wants me to. Shes so mean and i've told her to stop and shes just like "I'll do what i want" and the thing is...she seems like a nice person but for NO REASON she hates me..when i asked her y she hates me so much shes like "the question is why wouldn't i" so she doesn't have a reason..theres this one guy thats her friend and always sticks up for me whenever she talks about me and its really nice and i think it'll eventually stop bc he always tells her too and she'll get bored saying everything when he just tells her to stop talking about me. but the stuff she says is mean and sometimes she IMs me outta no where to say how weird i am or i have no friends (which is not true) any advice on thing is can say bak to her when shes talking about me?? I RATE 5'S SORRY SO LONG!!

bring a bat to school and fucking beat her iwth it ....or just give her what she desevers !

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Hey. Umm well I just started cutting and I don't want to cut my wrists because people will see the marks but where else would you suggest??

you'll reget it ..when you see the scares and like azngemini said ..if your a cuter you won't tell people ..its noting to brag about ...so yeah .and if your doing it stop ..its stupid (took me awhile to learn that )

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is 12 too young to wear thongs?

nope .......but don't be stupid like some girls and sow them off ......seriously cuz thats nasty...worst is when biger people show them off ....makes we want to trow up .but no its ok at age 12

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My mom and I spent the whole day together. That's not the point. We went somewhere to visit family and when we came home, I went in my room to get away, to relax. So she goes in the living room and sits down on her fat ass.. and conviniently starts ordering me to do things. I was sitting her, we had gotten home like 15 minutes prior to this. I told her I would do it in a bit but she proceeded to yell at me to do it. So the very last time she yelled at me, these were her words: "If you're not fucking out here in 5 damn minutes, I'm kicking your ass off the computer." So in return, I told her to shut up. Not even yelling, it was to myself, and she overhead. So she came to take my danm cellphone, the phone I bought with my money, and pay for with my money, and for some reason she believes she has owenership over because its in her name. BULLSHIT. I'm so pissed I'm hitting shit now.. I want to hit her. Please help.

believe me yelling back won't help i got grounded for a long time .....for be smart with her ...and stuff .....i mean notin u can do but deal with it .....remember after hight school u can move out

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