Okay so here's my problem...I have a lot of friends, and i would say 70% of them are guys. youre probably wondering what the problem is right? Well the problem is, i have a tendancy to fall in love with my guy friends because they are so sweet and the perfect boyfriend material type for me. Sometimes i think they like me by how they act around me, but then i find out they only like me as a "friend" I'm sick of being just the friend and i want to show the guys i can be more than a friend...how can i should my guy friends that i can be more then just friends with them? That i want to be seen as girlfriend material?
lil_short_girl answered Sunday January 30 2005, 12:14 am: i have the same issue as you i hang out with 70% of guys ...even at lunch i sit with all guys i'm the only girl ..some girls can piss me off with there fucking attide being all that because they were fucking ambercrombie and shit and they don't like me becausei'm friends with the hott guy i wear like skater stuff so there against me two ......mmmmmmm if i were you flirt with them maybe go to the movies with him get closer to him [ lil_short_girl's advice column | Ask lil_short_girl A Question ]
Yellowmms89 answered Saturday January 29 2005, 11:35 pm: Just because he may over look you for now doesn't mean you dont have a chance with him. Just be yourself around him. If he loves another person then maybe once he's over that you'll be there to confort him. Its hard to see a good friend as some you can date, but if you lead him on he'll get the idea...
shockren-b12 answered Saturday January 29 2005, 10:50 pm: ok first of all guys don't like girls that are ugly , are you? if yes...im sorry but its not gonna happen, but if not then you'll have a chance. i think that you should be more flurtatious and affectionate towards them, sometimes relationships that start off as frineds don't work, and i hope that this situation goes well for you. hope i helped. [ shockren-b12's advice column | Ask shockren-b12 A Question ]
princs answered Saturday January 29 2005, 10:41 pm: Well I was the exact same as you. I hang out with all guys i had maybe 2 girlfriends and when i was younger i used to fall in love with them too. Its kinda hard when your seen as a friend to the guys to become more then that but it can be done. Try just simply reminding them that your a girl. My guy friends used to say gross guy stuff like "that chicks hot" and dumb stuff like that. When they say something like that just simply say "hello, im a girl you know". That usually gets their attention. Try dressing really cute and girly around them. If all else fails just make a move! tell them you like them, or even try just kissing one of them, although if your 13 thats kinda young to be just kissing people but the dressing cute and reminding them that you are in fact a girl should work.
Good luck! [ princs's advice column | Ask princs A Question ]
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