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heyhey im a 14 year old very very bored person lol um i thought i wud rather waste my time giving advice to ppl but dont get me wrong if u mess with me in anyway tht will tick me of piss me off i will serious make your life miserable...ahh i hate ppl who are useless seriously all they have to talk bout or complain about is how thei cell phone color doesnt match their outfits...now questions like those i will give adive to but it wont be a very happy comment...ok now im goin
peace~
oh and yes tht is my pic...my friend made it black and white for me
Website: *sumsum*
Gender: Female
Location: america
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Age: 14
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Yahoo: hartof_dreams486@yahoo.com
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Member Since: July 9, 2006
Answers: 141
Last Update: May 26, 2007
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hey everyone... im a 15/f && i have been getting bullied since 8th grade by this girl && some of her friends... && this girl in 8th grade started IMing me on the internet and started cussing me out.. && then in 9th grade she got my cell phone number and started prank calling me along with her friends... && she also would say im ugly and i try to hard to fit in... she told me this when i talked to her eariler today!!! i wuz like im not ugly && i don't try to hard to fit in && i don't care what u && yur firiends think of me... but she was like fuuck you && go to hell && don't tell me what to do... do she's going to keep bothering me!! so how should i prevent her from bothering me? i've tried to ignore her && that didn't work... && i've tried standing up for myslelf (link)
ok the next time she prank phone calls you you tell her "ok you measly good for nothing dirt bag ive had enough of your gay jokes from you and those fags you call friends so im going to let you go this time but if you ever fuucking call this number again , i know your number ill call the cops for and report you for hurassment and prank phone calling and then lets see how good you will look the next day of school with everyone talking about how gay and childish you are still playing the same retarded jokes that was dead and burried in the 5th grade" or you can just tell your parents and they could solve your problem by talking to her parents


I've been on birth control now for about a year. My boyfriend and I just recently had unprotected sex, without pulling out. I'm pretty good with taking my pill every night around the same time but there were two times during this cycle that I had ended up taking it the next day, including that night we had sex. I'm on the placebo pills right now and still no period. Could I be pregnant? (link)
i think you should go to the doctors and get a check up , who knows it could be a false alarm it happens all the time


ok..

so theres this guy whos liked me since 7th grade or w/e. and he wants to go out. but just today he said " well im only 16, i wanna experience a little more before i go out with you because i have a feelings we'd go out a long time, we have that chemistry" i said ok fine like a dumbass.. then i said id wait for him and give him time..

SHOULD I WAIT!?!?!??! or just be like either me or not. (link)
no oh my god you should even have to think twice about it you call him up and tell him that your not going to wait for him to fool around with other girls so he wont miss them while your going to be with him....that like a guy going ok im going to marry you but since your the only woman im going to ever sleep with after we get married i just wanna sleep with a couple more weman so i dont feel bad that i married you...if i like a guy and he liked me and said that to me id first laugh then spit in his face letting out all kinds or disses you shouldnt even want him anyore you go find a better guy that wont want any other girl but you


Ok this might sound stupid but i wanna know if this is normal. sometimes if i hear a song that i really really love it makes me want to cry, i think just becuase its so beautiful and i feel so deep, its kind of disturbing. for me its enjoy the silence by depeche mode, and lacuna coil covered it, i like that one just as much.

So is this normal? It might be becuase music is such an important part in my life? Thanks. (link)
there is nothing wrong with you atall your just a verying kind caring sensitive person and music expresses you like writing expresses other people , your not the only one who feels this way when they hear a beautiful or tragic love song your completely fine


My yellow lab is a year old and seems to be agressive to new people who come to the house. She looks out the window at people or other dogs who walk by and growls and barks with hair raised on her back.
She has also tore up two expensive throw rugs within a week. We are not home at the time. We have to keep putting her back in her kennel when we leave.
I had a chocolate lab before and she was nothing like our yellow lab.
I have twin daughters, six, I'm afraid she might bite someone one day. She loves the girls but too agressive.
I have thought about giving her away. (link)
maybe you should give her away or take her to a personal dog trainer...do whatever your more comfortable with but if the personal training doesnt work out maybe you should give her away before she hurts some...its a risk but not worth getting your daughters or anyone else hurt


my friend gets what she wants when she wants it. when i'm mad or upset at her..... like today, we got in a big fight and she said either "i come over and we work this out now or we're no longer friends." whats that all about. shes always like that....help!!!!! (link)
she is jsut stubborn maybe she just isnt good enough a friend from the sound of it she sound spoiled to the gut so you call her and tell her that if she wants to solves things tht she somes over and solves it herself and if she dont want to be friends with you anymore screw it you dont need all that drama


ok well im 13/f and i masterbate like 5 times a day is it too much?? its like a need i love to do it!!! is this weird?? another thing is its kinda smelly down there what should i do about it and is that normal???? (link)
well i think its kind of dangerous to much of something good can be trouble and havent you ever thought maybe it smells becus you wont leave it alone...give it a little break or you will end up hurt


Ok, my boyfriend is BI. I really like him and stuff like that. We haven't been dating long, and people are already making jokes about me, him, and his sexuality. I'm getting sick of it. And I need advise other than, ignore them. Because no offense, but it dosen't work. Thanks in advance. :] (link)
ok the bi problem tell you boyfriend that you truely care for him but you cant take it anymore and you want him to be striaght with you and if he says no forget him you dont need him you deserve someone who is willing to sacrafice for you and for othere unfunny people you diss their mamas out or just flick em and let them know who is boss...and hearst&sam who ever you are i dont think its very healthy to havea 3sum i dono why anyone would be proud of that...kind of sick


((this is for my friend named chelsea)
well, theres this guy on my brothers baseball team, and hes really hott and sweet. the only problem is that he is 10-and i am 13. what do i do? is it okay if i still like him or is it too weird? (link)
even though its kinda weird..really weird (no offence) you shouldnt let age step in your way..now im not saying go rape him..i think you should tell him how you feel and wait until he is a teenager to date him or tell him how you feel when he is a teenager which ever way your most comfortable with


Hey im trying to lose like 5 or 6 pounds and i was wondering if anyone new any outside games i could play with my brother or sister or even both
PLease and thanx XOXO (link)
football, basketball, baseball, dodgeball , hide end go seek , volleyball, tennis , duck duck goose , run around playing with the hose, man hunt , races , arobics , tag ,or you can make up a game that has a bunch of running around in it


i have a friend and hes a boy iv known him for a while and hes one of my good friends.. ya i like him a lot not as a friend.. and i dont want to tell him that i like him because i dont want to stop bein friends and im scared that im might scare him off like its one of those things that you want to tell the person but you dont.. and the worse part is that we act like homies and im a tomboy and i have a lot of guy friends so ya.. what should i do? (link)
i think you should striaght up tell him and if he feels the same great and if he doesnt and still are friend great but if he doesnt feel the same and feels akward confront him about it and tell him you still want to be his friend and if he doesnt change than he doesnt deserve to be your friend you deserve better well i hope ive helped in anyway


Ermm.... I'm a 15 year old girl, and when I was 10 my grandma gave me this teddy bear for my birthday. It's very cute, with brownish fur, and little button eyes. And it has a green vest. I named it "Mr. Paddington". Lately, something weird has been happening. Whenever I've been around it I've felt... odd. As though I had a crush on it. Now I'm embaressed to change with it in the room, and at night when I imagine my first kiss, it's Mr. Paddington I imagine having it with. I've told my friends that I'm dating him, but they think I'm joking.... I'm afraid to tell anyone for real, because what if they took him away? I was just wondering if this is normal..... and if I'm allowed to someday marry my teddy bear? (link)
well this truely is a first...your either a joker or serious if your a joker...get a life people come here in need of serious emotional and physical problems and if you arent jokin well..i think um your crazy..but dont get me wrong not in a "im gonna kill you" crazy way in a "i wanna marry my teddy bear way" i think you should get rid of that thing before you rape it or something seriously or tell someone


14/f/with cerebral palsy..i dont know if that contributes to this , vut just in case.

I have this twiching right above the left side of my right knee, it has been going on for many days.. Then my right foot is really swollen and puffy,It hurts really bad to walk , the pain is mostly where the top of my foot meets my leg, and none of my shoes fit. plus the pain is awful.

Does anyone know what could have caused this and how to make it go away? (link)
i think you either bumped or ran into something but dont worry im sure it will be fine but you might wanna go to a doctor just to be safe and sure


i have blue eyes and brown hair well how can i make my eyes look bigger .. everyone is always saying how pretty my eyes are ... but i want the to stand out more what can i do ? and how can i wear my hair to compliment my eyes && i have really gross eyebrows i hate them they like curl and there wayy long.. HELP PLEASE (link)
black eyeliner and mascara will make your eyes stand out more and you hair either lat it down or put it up as a flower


I am a 14 year old girl but im 15 in 3 months and i know its illegal to have sex in uk before 16 but i really love my boyfriend and i'll be honest caue i want real advice i've been going out with him over a week and i already feel he loves me and i love him and i think i feel ready i mean he's given me oral sex if that can be correct but i've not done anything to him and i think he's the right one and the one i want to loose my virginity too and i want to know if theres a way of checking to see if ur ready by tasks or talks or something . one magazine said to see if ur ready to have sex see if you can walk up to your local chemist and buy condoms out of it from a lady who knows you live near by is this a good way of telling if im ready please email me bak or reply soon cause tomorrow or the next day is ment to be kinda big with him and me


please help love me xxxxxxxxxxx (link)
omg r u serious this guy only knows you for a week and u wanna screw him...are you serious.....why are people so horny...well i dont think your ready...your just a bit horny you dono if this guy is just using you you have to give it more time and i dont think you should break the law...tell ya this when you turn 16 and if you two are still together than sleep with him but if your not...which no offence im sure you wont be then he just wasnt the right one


i really need to get a flat stomach. but seriously it looks like im pregnant lol no im not fat i just need to get a flat stomach. what kind of excercises can i do and an estimate how long will it take. thanks! (link)
do a hundred situps before you sleep for about a month or two and dont eat to much eat yes but not crazy eating alright good luck


I dont know wat I should do. Im 15 and my boyfriend is 18 and for his friends 18th birthday he is inviting all his close friends to his party at a stripclub, and my boyfriend is invited. I first heard about this when I was on my boyfriends myspace. My boyfriend go an invite and had told another friend that he should come as well. I didnt think i should ask about it so I just kinda decided to wait to see if hed bring it up with me at least. A few days later he told me that his friends wanted him to go but he knew that I wouldnt want him to so he wasnt going. But he also told me that his friends were trying to convince him to go and just not tell me anything about it. Im glad he told me and Im even more glad that he said that he wasnt going to even if I gave him permission, but Im still a little nervous. I know he wont hook up with girls there, and I trust him but Im worried hes going to go behind my back. I heard from a friend of his that he had told them he was going. What should I do? Do i confront him? I really dont want him to go but I dont want to be unreasonable. I dont think its right if we r in a committed relationship and hes out looking at other girls... Am I overreacting?

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you are not overreating atall if i had a boyfriend and he even so much as thought about goin to a stripclub id slap him so hard to get him back to his sences that it would never happen...this is what you do tell him you want to hang out on the day of the birthday since he wont be going his day will be free and if he says no ask why and if he doesnt answer or doesnt want to tell you why then confront him about his friend that said your boyfriend is going to the stripclub but from what your boyfriend says it sonds like he wont go because if he was gonna go he wouldnt have told you that his friends wanted him to go without lettign you find out about it so dont worry


Ok so my friend's coming over and we want to make out, but I have this fever blister {cold sore} but you can't even see it anymore because it's going away. Could he get one or get sick? I was going to tell him before we made out that I had one and if he still wanted to because you can't even tell it's there. I was just wondering thought. Thanks!!! (link)
well there is a chance he will becus you know your germs will obiously get in his mouth which you said you still are sick so maybe its better if u wait..besides y wud you makeout with you friend....get a boyfriend..


does anybody have any websites i can got to get layouts at for myspace? i already know whateverlife.com thanks (link)
pimpmycom.com , freeweblayouts.net


okay well I baby sit my neighbors and I love there kids and they are 8 and 7 but ehy pay me like 30 dollars i think it is like way too much but i dont want to say because i like just started baby sitting and they are my only clients being 13 and all i know i started a little late but what ever please help me with the pay problem do you thikn 30 dollars is too much should i set a number of dollars an hour? help me (link)
no 30 dollars should be how much you get paid its perfectly fine




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