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how do you do this updo? it looks like a bun with 3 mini buns lol (link)
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Ok what she basicaly did was section her hair in four sections. She put up three of them in buns. Then she took the other section and basically tied it to getter so they wouldn't be three loose buns. Hopefully this helped!!! :) if you need anything else inbox me
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Today i was swimming and i was nauseous. my brother wasplaying shark attack in the pool and he'd chase me in and out of the pool trying to bite me on my leg. I got up ran out and dove back in the pool, biut i don't think that i did it right. I didn't have my hands form a triangle above my head, my hands were on my sides and i dove in head first ( 12 feet deep pool). This happened around 6:50- 7:00. My head smacked the water and it hurt very badly. when i came up form the water everything was foggy but i don't know if that's because i opened my eyes underwater. The first thing that popped in my head was "WHAT IF I GOT A CONCUSSION?" so i freaked out. i have a history of anxiety issues causing me to feel what i think i have. Anyways, i asked my mom if i had a concussion and she was like NOOOOOOO. she wouldn't even give me a chance to talk to her. Anyways, I'm scared that i got one. But if i did have one, how could i remember every detail so clearly? Should i sleep tonight or is that for very serious concussions when you don't sleep, because i have to be up by 5:30 or 6 tomorrow for camp. But, what should i do? my head still kinda hurts but i don't know if it's form anxiety or what not. I feel a bit light headed and dizzy but that could be from anxiety too. I have mind over matter problems but i'd rather be safe than sorry.. help please? thanks ! (link)
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Hey I have had two concussions...so I think I can help. One very serious or quite strong and the other only a slight concussion. With both I threw up about an hr after and kept on throwing up. And I had a bad stomach ache and head ache. Almost unbareable. So the answer is no. You didn't have a concussion. You might have joggled your brain abit in your skull just enough to get a bad headache and maybe throw up. I remember the almost exact things that happened with those situations. It's ok. Just sleep. Sleep will help and also some ibprofen or tylonal. They will get rid of the headache. What probably happened is because you hit the water head first the pressure and shock from it made your head hurt super bad. I have done this way to many times haha. :) I hope I helped if you need anything else just ask me and if I helped let me know with feedbackk!!!! :)
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Hi there! I just recently got the internet back at my house! I was wondering what are some fun and interesting sites!?
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www.addictinggames.com
is a great one to go to because it has alot of great games that keeps you interested for a long time!! :) i like it alot!!
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i dont wanna brag , but i think im kinda pretty , and people always temm me i am , but im fat , not like huge but kinda what should i do to loose weight, cause if lost ost like maybe 15 pound before school starts again ill be pretty hott , how can i loose 15 pounds in 1 and a half months ?
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I know you probably don't want to do this... But go on a diet. I had a friend that I told to go on this diet and she lost about 10 pounds in a month or maybe less. Here is the diet.
-Most of It is to simply cut down on unnatural sugar. Like candy or ice cream. I know it cam be a big sacrifice but I'm not saying completly no more. Just cut down to, one piece of candy a day if not any.
-Cut down on trans fat. Look at the label on everything you buy pakaged. If it says 0g trans fat, then go ahead and eat it! If it says 1g look at the serving size. If it's 'in one serving' it's fine. The reason is because trans fat is the fat that makes you gain weight. Wrestlers and macho men eat the protien bars that are FILLED with trans fat to gain weight to be in a higher weight class or what not. So stay as far away from trans fat as possible!! :)
-Base your diet off of fruits and vegies. I know that's not what you want to hear but do it. It keeps you from gaining weight and will help you with keeping your weight down. There are some fruits I hear that burn calories while eating them. I'm not sure if it's a myth or not so google that. Sorry I couldn't help with that part though. But yeah eat green. Green vegies and fruits are filled with chloraphyl which makes it green. The chloraphyl has a protien that keeps bad stuff (like fats) and things that are not needed in your body out.
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also a way to LOOSE weight is to exersise. Lots of exercise. Even if it's just jogging in place it helps. I understand you don't have alot of time so I won't suggest joining a sport. But what you can do is go to your local gym about everyother day or at least 2 or 3 times a week. This will help you loose weight. It May not seem like it's working but give it a week or two. The more you do it the quicker and more weight you loose. I did this and went every day for two weeks an lost 10 pounds quick. Swimming is also a good way because it burns alot of calories doing laps and what not. Also if you do laps for about 45 minutes then just play water basketball or something for 15 min. (so you will have been swimming and keeping your Jody active for about an hr. You will he quite tired. Get dressed and go home and sleep. You will sleep really good and for a while. Sleeping burns calories too. It's the reason you weigh less in the morning then a t night. If you spend two hours at the gym everytime you go you will see improvements. Playing basketball and jumping rope is a great way too!
I'm sorry this was super long but I figure it should help pretty good!!! :) if you need anything else just inbox me!!!
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My summer program has a talent show every year. It is not individual people but ONLY as a group so we can compete against 7 different camps. We really want to win but we need something we can do as a group that is a shoe-in for first place... what should we do?
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Here are some great ideas !!!
-you could have people line up and do "thriller" and have someone be like Michael Jackson and lip sync it.
-another good idea that is original is:
you need 3-5 people.
have 1 (or more) people walk across the stage in one direction and 1 person walking the other. then have them go sit down. have the 2 (or more) people come oUt and start to jerk while the song youre a jerk plays. have one other person on stage watching. have him say: "whoa, did you just see that" have him (or another person) say rewind (you can use a remote for fun) and have the 2 (or more) people walk backwards on stage to their original spot. And the people
who jerked skip back to their spot. now have the person with
the remote say "slowmotion" and then have the people come
out really slowly. Really fun!
- something else is find a really popular song and do that music video and have some one lip sync it. It's hillarious and any Justin bieber videos/songs are great because everyone knows them no matter how much they like or hate him hahhaha!!!
I really hoped this helped!!! If you need anything else email me or inbox me!!!
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so everybody thinks that i have had sex.. EVERYBODY. i'm ready to have sex i know i am but since everybody thinks that im not a virgin, i want to make it less painfull. is there anyway i can pop my cherry, make 'it' looser or anything like that where it wont hurt the first time? rate 5 for everything (link)
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Ok you should finger yourself to stretch the opening. The farther you go the closer u get to your cherry popping. Keep doing that and you should stretch it. Use a viberator to stretch it because the vibrations will stretch you vagina to make sex less painful. A dildo should help also. People say if you use a CLEAN banana with a condom on the end it will feel like a dick. Make sure it's clean though!! :) hope this helped!!
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how big/thick is a dick (link)
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Usually about two or maybe three inches think and it depends on how long because everyone is different but average is about 6 inches or sum mayb more it depends hah:)
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lastnight was the first time giving my man a blow job and stuff and we went deeeep to the point were i started gagging. after that, we smoked weed and now it sounds like i have a sore throat. Is this because the smoke or deep throating? Is there any quick ways to get rid of it? :p (link)
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My guess is it's the blow job because you gagged. But it could be the weed if it was one of your first time smoking it. A way to get rid of it is to go to the drugstore and get some suff that will get rid of a sore throat. Hope this helped
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Ok im 14 female.i have this hat that all my friends love and it has alot of memoires with it.I let this guy that i sorta like borrow it untill we were goin to a lock in.when the lock in was over he wouldnt give it back so i was like watever.i just found out that he let it get shreded from a dog.idk what to do because im really mad at him (link)
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Ok if you truly like his guy just let it pass. My advice is to go up to him and be like ok I know the hats gone but how could you do that? It meant alot to me. Don't over react though like don't go off on him because then he will not want to have anything to do with you. If he just says I'm sorry be like ok I accept but I just want you to see how I feel. And say like what if I took somehing you really like or has semtemintal value to you and destroyed it? But remember don't blow it out of porportion. I really can't do anything to get your hat back but maybe ask him for some money for the cost of the hat. If you need anything at all inbox me. Let me know how it turns out or if you want additional advice!!! :)
~Kaiya
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Okay so this guy from school I graduated high school with texted me like 6 months ago (we never talked in school) we talked on the phone and texted each other almost everyday when we hung out that one time he told me to call him when i got home so i got home safe which i thought was cute and didnt even try to kiss me or anything i just hugged him then we texted each other then it got to every 2 or 3 days we talked then we just stopped talking nothing happened bad or anything we just stopped talking well 6 months later he texts me out of the blue and says hey long time no talk that was two days ago first day we talked the whole day the second day he told me to text him but he texted me first right away instead and we talked all day then he asked if we could meet up in the middle of the night but I had work early the next day so i couldnt then he texted me the next day all day and said i could meet at his house the was drinking and i didnt want our second time hanging out to be with him drinking you know and let alone by ourselves ( he had the house to himself all weekend) but i said i couldnt come over but since the next day was 4th of july we could go in the city and see the fireworks and he didnt answer me until the next day at like 3 to say when im going down then he said he couldnt get down there he wqas working and couldnt go he said he was sorry but after we could meet up like around midnight but i was stuck in traffic in the city so i didnt get home until 1 in the morning then yesterday he didnt text me until the afternoon saying sorry i lost my phone i said its okay then he sid hows work i said fine you and he never answered me back now today i havent heard from him so i dont know if he thinks hes texted me too much or hes tired of trying to hang out or thinks im annoyed by him the thing is i dont answer texts back until like a hour or 2 after they text me its nothing personal all my friends and family know i dont get back to them right away i know im weird lol i wanted to hang out with him tomorrow possibly but im scared to text him..should i text him?
Sorry i sound so paranoid its just guys never want me as a girlfriend im always like the "make out" person so i always become catious when i like a guy because i dont want to get hurt I protect my heart. But this guy has a record of having long term relationships so i feel like something could happen here and maybe my luck will change i mean there is a reason why he thought to text me after all these months not talking right? lol sorry this is so long. But what should i do? should i text him to hang out tomorrow? should i wait for him to text me? im so confused! why do you think he contacted me? thanks so much! :) (link)
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Ok so it sounds to me that you like him too. ;) it also sounds like he likes you because he txted you after 6 months and I think you are right wen you said he would have to have a reason! :) haha ok so I would say yes, text him. Just be like hey at first and my guess is he will text you back. Once he has... Be like I was wondering if you wanted to hang out today or tomarrow? That way he has a before notice and he can clear his schedule for the next day or for the day you text him. He will be able to hang out probably so yes... Text him! :) It also sounds like the reason he contacted you was indeed because he likes you or has a thng for you. He would if you talked all day for two or three days! And if he all the sudden texts you after 6 months of not texting. :) hope this helped!!!! If you need anything else or just want to talk inbox me! And let me know how it worked out!! :D
~Kaiya
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15f, about 5'8, 129lbs
i want to have bigger boobs i am a 34-36a and its kinda embarrassing because i barely have any cleavage. i know im still developing and whatnot but i just hate having small boobs and want to know if theres any safe way to make them grow.
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I completly understand you. This is the same way I feel. A way you can make you boobs 'look' bigger it by buying a 34 and 36 a push up bra. Which ever fits better I would recomend 34 because it's smaller and you will fill it out for sure. Sadly there is no way to actually make them grow. You are right though. They will grow on there own. Hope his helped. There is also a way... It may sond weird but take a few klenix tissues and fold them into a square put one or two squares in each side. It won't over do it but it will make your boobs look bigger when they look very small. I hoped this helped and if you need anything just ask! :)
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me and my sis have the same best friend named hailey and shas gunna start comming over like every day and i need ideas of what to do when she does lots of ideas please!!!!!!! (link)
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Hey this is somethng, you could try cheerleading. Also you could make keychains or brackets or stuff and sell them.
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ok..... welll i read your column of how to tell my mom i had my period but the problem is that she overreacts
once i waited only 2 days to tell my mom i needed a bra and she flipped out its been about six months now from my first period and i have no clue how to tell her with out being grounded or killed or kicked out she over reachs to everything
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Ok so what you can do is just go to her and say, "mom I got my period today" or something. Deff. Tell her. Even if she over reacts she needs to know. But I highly doubt she will because moms know you are eventually going to get it and it is a part of life. She would probably get mad if you tell her the part about you having had it for 6 months. Just don't tell her that part. The reason she would get mad is because she wouldn't think she could trust you if you had kept it from her all this time. Go on and tell her, she won't get the slightest bit mad. :)
hope this helped...
~Kai
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Ok... so I have been with my fiance for almost 2 years and he is always wanting to have sex and I am just never in the mood... and when we do have sex it doesn't really do anything for me... We are getting married in a couple days and I want our wedding night to be perfect and if he wants to have sex I want to be able to make him happy. So please give advice.... SOOONNNN!!! (link)
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Tak Viagra if you want to get in the mood. Also what you can do is etch a video that will make you want sex. I understand I'd it sounds weird and u don't want to but that's just a way. If you go into your local gas staition they should have sex stimulates that will get you in the mood. Viagra is an example. Also there us trojan extacy condoms if you were planning on using one. They have good brands if you read what's on the lable if Trojen condoms they should tell you what they will do for pleasure. Hope this helps!
~Kai
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Heyy i am a varsity cheerleader for my school and my coach is yelling at us to turn our hips out. I really don't kno wat that means. Like my jumps have been good and all and i just need help. Is there any easy way to help me turn them out?? Also could you help me to get my jumps higher too??? My toe touch is high but i would want it to be higher. Is there anyway to help me?? Thanks you!! (link)
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Heyy i've been on all-star squads and was on my middle and high school squad so I think I can help. Not trying to gloat but my jumps are very high and they are easy for me to do. When she says to turns your hips out she means to be almost doing a split in the air. If you know how to do a horizontal split that's great, if not practice and stretch so you can. (if you need advice on how to do it inbox me) This will Make your toe touch eaiser to hit.
As to getting your jumps higher:
Find weights, tie them to your ankles and do toe touches. I know this will be hard to get your toe touches as high as usual but this will work on your hight because your body naturaly wants to get as high as usual. :)
Also another way is to go to the ground and touch your hands to the ground, (like squating) and jump up as high as possible and put your hands an arms out like you're hitting a toe touch and go back to a 'squat' and do it again. Do thi about 20 times and it will build up your mussles in your leg so you can go higher when you are actually jumping. It should burn your quads. Do it again unroll it doesn't burn, do it everyday and it should really help!!! :) hope my advice helped you, if you need. Anything else feel free to inbox me!! :)
~Kaiya
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Hey, just wondering when girls start to get their periods. I had just read a question about periods on here and stuff and then I started wondering, when? Is it when they hit puberty or when they hit their teen years? Puberty sounds more logical to me, but I don't know, I'm a guy and so I don't get periods. Anyway I'm 13(m). (link)
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Girls usually start their periods within the ages of 10-16. Always it's different! Girls start their periods when they are going through puberty. They tippically start when they are begining to develop breasts. Even if they are not that big. If a girl had mood swings or is nice to you one day then hates you or is mad at you' the next, it probably means they are about to start or have started just fir a piece of advice. Hope this helped!
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What are some good summer reading books? i just finished the pretty little liars series (link)
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There is a series of books called Charlie Bone. I really loved the first one I read and just kept reading. Other series you may enjoy...
Twilight Saga
Harry Potter
a book called Perfect by Natasha Friend (there's also another book she wrote called Bounce)
Another hideous book where the mother dies (amazing)
and these are shorter books but they keep you entertained Mates Dates series the first book is called mates dates
San unflatable bras... I know it sounds weird but it's good)
Hope this helped!!! :)
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Ok so I hate having pubic hair lol it's just a personal preferance thing...so usually I shave it but I can't shave it every day and it grows back uncomfortably. So yeah, I bought this stuff called "Nair hair remover" because it sounds like it would be easier then shaving. I was reading the instructions and it said it can be used on the 'bikini area' but not around the 'vaginal area'. I'm so confused, I always thought they were the same thing o.o also, it seems to be SO specific about how you can't leave any part of this stuff on your skin...what will happen if I do on accident? I'm kind of too intimidated to use this stuff just yet...anyways, thanks!
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Don't worry. It is nothing to worry about at all! :) all it is is a hair remover cream... Like veet. They both are just creams that you put on any hair u dnt want and it goes onto your hair pores an dissolves what is keeping the hair there. I haved used both before fir my legs, under arms, and pubic hair. It's alot easier then shaving. I enjoy veet a little more because it's very smooth and doesn't dry out my skin at all. But that is also just my preference. The reason it says not to leave on skin is because it can dry your skin out quickley. Also will remove any hair it touches so you don't want to touch your hair on your head while having any cream on your hands. Just apply the cream and leave it for the instructed amount of time and wash off. I suggest putting it on then when it's time to wash off get in the shower. This way you will be sure to have it all off your skin. After that make sure u wash any part it touched with soap so it won't make your skin smell like the cream. To answer your question about the vaginal area... It is basically saying don't let it get inside of your vagina. I would suggest you put it on the top of your vagina but if you put it on the "flaps" be careful not to let it get into your organ. That's all it's basically saying... I really hope this helps you!!! :) if you need anything else just inbox me! :)
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So I heard all the reasons NOT to use soap during intercourse.
But what if I did, and felt great discomfort afterwards? What do I do? (link)
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Well it's ok. If it burns wash it out with clean, clear, sterile water. Your information isn't very clear about what hurts or something. I hope that helped. Go to wikipeua and you willcbe able to fin specific information about this. I am sorry my advice isn't vey clear, but I hope it helped anyways! :)
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i havent been well for a week now. first i got a badcold and then a inflammation of the middle ear (which is almost gone now)
and I didnt eat much cause i felt to weak to do anything. yesterday i only ate a cookie. this morning i ate two slices of toast, one with cheese and the other one with salami.
and a few minutes after i ate i began having a terrible stomach ache & i had to take a poop.
(this is a bit ambaressing) it was quite painful and when i whiped my butt i saw a bit of blood on the toiletpaper.
now im really scared. it stopped and my stomach ache is almost gone but im scared that its smth serious. i dont think i have hemroids & i dont have any other symtoms that cause anal cancer.
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it's ok. if your a girl it may be your period. if not you may have stretched your anal hole to the point of bleeding. it's ok though. it happens alot if your not well... You should b fine but if it keeps bleeding go to the doctor or tell someone. hope this helped!! :)
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