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My guy friend and I are both 17 and we've known each other for about 11 years now. He a good friend and everything but sometimes he says things too me that really hurt my feelings.
The other day he was at my house and we got bored and decided to go to star bucks. Well I had just gotten out of the shower so I just had my hair up in a bun and I had very little make-up on. As we were leaving he turned to me and said, "You're going out like THAT?" So I was like, "Yeah, why?" Then he told me that he thought I could have atleast tried to make and effort to look good. How mean is that?
He also feels the need to tell me when I need to start working out again, when my hair needs to be re done, he even tells me that I "look like shit" when I'm sick.
It's great that he feels that comfortable around me and all, but a lot of stuff he says is really mean and makes me feel like crap.
What am I supposed to do?
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Hey hun, i have fiends like that too and it gets on my nurve. It's like if you don't have anything nice to say dont say it at all. You can tell him to just shut up and stop being so rude. And if he has a problem being seen with you because of the way you look than he should get a life.
xO. jessica
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is it worth it?
does it hurt?
how did u get it done with a needle/gun?
how much was it?
will the hole grow back and leave a scar? (link)
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hey hun i got mine done about 5 months ago.
is it worth it? depends on what you think. it looks hott and thats basicly why i got mine done
does it hurt? when it gets pierced um sorta mostly feels like a lot of pressure.
how did u get it done with a needle/gun? needle.
how much was it? the pierce was about 40 i think im not sure and the belly ring was about another 40 depends what kind you get, i got a half bar because they are easier to maintain.
will the hole grow back and leave a scar? it depends if your easily prone to scars, i think so but nothing huge.
they will probobly give you a cleanser called Avon or something similar to that which is an organic cleaner with no alchohol or any normal soap ingrediants *DO NOT WASH IT WITH REGULAR DIAL SOAP STUFF* because it has chemicals which will make it hurt and sting. also i did the sea salt wash which is when you wash your bellybutton with seal salt mixed with water. you pour the solution into a shot glass and hold it over your bellybutton for about 5 minutes or less twice a day. if you get it pierced they should give you detail on that.
xO. jessica
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I movewd to my town about a year and one half ago...the first year was pretty cool..always having fun.The summer of that year,i never saw any of my new friends...and the following beginngingyear (this year..) almost all my friends turned on me..andnot many people like me..im quiet when you dont really know me..im small and un-noticable..its like the people on this team dont care about me now,all of them are mean they pretend to be nice..my friend(i tihnk..) told me that some people dont like me cause she asked and she was sorry about it..im so sad that things turned out this way,most of the time i just get my work done and leave people alone..because im not sure whos real or not..i hang out with my other friends sometimes (from the town i lived in befor) and im really really sad..i just want to move back..but now that i've changed and im so quiet how will i be like there now? and my real question is,How can i tell if a friend is true,or just pretending to like me? (link)
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hey babe wlel first of the answer is never suicide, because not only killing yourself your killing your friends family and dreams. You can tell if a person is a true friend in so many ways. the easiest way is to ask them to hang out. if you know they aren't buisy just ask them if they wanna go to you house, dont ask to go to the mall or movies because they will either ditch you or have you pay if they arent your friends. if they accept and hanging at your house is super fun they are probobly your friend especially if they come often to your house if you offer but if they decline and you know they are free they are probably faking to be your friend. also if they accept to go to your house but never talk to you in school or even look at you they are probably faking to hate you in school. thats one of the ways to tell.
xO. jessica
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whats the fastest way to get rid of a white head(like a pimple) (link)
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hey hun; if its huge dont even tuch it with your hands unless your washing your face, make sure to wash your face with any good facial wash no need for proactive kinda stuff. then get a good cream on the spot by neutrogina [i cant spell it] is good i use it myself, but its mostly for pimples. if its small like really small like not the kind that hurts when you touch it or doesnt have any puss or whatever, honestly, i pop it. it doesnt leave scars if its tiny and has no puss, just wash your face with a scrub then pop it and then wash it with a cleanser and but the cream on it. also i recomend taking a shower because the humidity opens up your pores and then if you wash your face and but the cream on it will go into your pores and clean out the white head.
xO .jessica
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um....ok im 14 and im pregnant! my mom keeps on asking who the dad is but i dont even know....ive had sex 3 times and with 2 different guys...the first one was some guy i met on the internet about 24 AND the other guy i had sex with twice and he is 49 yrs old....i know there is tests to figure it out....but i dont know where to get that...at a hospital i guess....how do i tell my mom who the guy is anyway is what im asking...its either a 24 yr old or a 49 yr old....what should i do!!!!!???? please help... i will rate with anything (link)
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hey well it depends when did you find out you were pregnant, also if the first time was about a year ago and the second time was about a month ago it would probobly be with the guy who had sex with more recently also if your not obvious like no round stomach yet and have some of the symptoms like delay in period, swollen/tender breast, tierdness, backache, headache, morning sickness, frequent urination, and food craving it would depend. you should really go to the doctor and get an estimation on when you got pregnant or when th baby was "made". then by the date you would know which guy is the father. for what to tell your mom, just tell her the truth, lieng about something like this is not the rite thing to do.
not to be a bitch or whatever but why, i could understand if it was with someone your age but 10 even 30 years older why? its like having sex with your father, atleast for the 49 year old. i could understand you were anxious sure but why with someone that old? thats rape, and especially with someone you met online? did they know you were 14, did they know you were atleast underage. i know its harsh to hear and your probaly thinking "its not your life, you dont know what im going through, so STFU" but i do understand what your going through the presure and all, maybe not even the presure, the urge, but that doesn't make it right to have sex with someone who is old enough to be your father. and yes, it is wrong, grows, and disgusting but hey its your life and to others what may seem grows may not to you. i just hope that you didn't do it to pruve something to someone, or to just do it. good luck with everything.
xO. jessica
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how do u do the strikethrough on myspace? whats the code (link)
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what exactly is the salt water treatment that is used for the aftercare of belly button piercings, can u please explain it to me step by step and where can i get this salt from? what is it called? please be specific, thanks in advance! (link)
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hey hun okay so first when you get your belly button pierced they should give you a soap called Avon or something like it. Do not use any regular soap because they have alchohol and ingrediants that make it infected. The salt water treatment is simple you get a shot glass and fillt it about 1/2 to 3/4 way up with warm water. then you buy organic sea salt and get a teaspoon and fill it about 1/2 to 1/4 way of sea salt and pour the sea salt into the water and mix it. taste a tiny bit to make sure its not to salty. then take the shot glass or small cup and as your standing put it against your belly button like on it then slowly lie down so it make a suction feeling. hold it down on you belly button for about 5 minutes and then stand up slowly and pour it out. you should do this twice a day and it really helps remove all the discharge you get from the piercing. hope i helped
xO. jessica
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For the gals--
what stars do you dream about and whats the best part about them {physicly]? keep in mind im only 13 so i cant have mustaches or anything like that.
PS:have you ever heard of drake bell? I like his old hairdo. (link)
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hey hun well first all the hot ones are like over 16 which they can all get facial hair but they usually shave it, here is my favorites in random order.
jake gyllenhaal; [actor] eyes
Tom Welling; [actor] body
jesse mclaf; [actor] face + body
ben mckenzie; [actor] body
george stults; [actor] everything
chris evans; [acor] body a little bit of face
Freddy Ljungbergl; [clavin klien modle] everything is uber hot!
Josh Duhamel; [actor] face + body
Joseph Sayers; [af model and model] gorgeous everything!
Paul walker; [actor] body+face yeah
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I'm trying to get music on my xanga. On the look and feel section where it says music and you type in the website to get the music, I need the website to get We Be Burnin from Sean Paul on my xanga. Please help me. (link)
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hey, well you dont type the web site you put in the code for the song. You can go to a music site on xanga. Or when your at the xanga homepage at the search bar under blogs type in We Be Burnin- Sean Paul and usually te first one should have it click the link and find Sean Paul under the artists and copy the link the person gives you and put that link/code into the music part for look and feel.
xO. jessica
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I'm thinking of getting a belly button piercing. I got a few questions... Does it hurt? Do they numb anything or no? How long does it take? How big is the needle? Would it bleed? (link)
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hey hun i got my pierced at 15 and id didn't hurt there is pressure though, and kinda stings but it doesn't hurt trust me. no they wouldn't numb you. The needle is straight in and out but the healing can go for about 2 months to 8 months. The needle isn't that big in thickness its very think like sewing needle but a little bit longer dont look at it though trust me. Mine barily bled but yes it bleeds but very little usually and only when you get it done it doens't bleed in the healing process. I recomend you do the salt water treatment 3 times or 2 times a day and use Avon if they have it. its a soap that has like no alchohol or something like that. Don't use regular dial soap or anything scented. Don't tuch it and make sure you get a regular half bar not a loop because those can get caught on your clothing. When you get it done dont wear tight clothing.
xO. jessica
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how do you shave under your arms without cutting yourself with an eletric shaver.
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if its the vibrating shaver i recomend not to use it just use the regular shaver.
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what can i do to make my room warmer because when the heat is on its still cold.. any ways? and no i cant put the heat on any longer (link)
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turning on the lights may work. or candels they always seem to work.
xO. jessica
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Can you tell me eyeliner and liquid eyeliner brands? Oh and I want to see you're opinion on what is better to use.
And is there any COLORED mascara? Like.. purple, pink, etc? If yes, what stores are they in?
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there are many brands designer brand and drug store brand. mayballine, loreal, convergirl, revlon, ect. the desginer are like, mac, sephora, chanel, dior, este` lauder, stila. i prefer pencil eyeliner over liquid. liquid is messy and stings and you have to be really carefull and skilled when you put it on. pencil can give you a either really dramatic or natural look anything in between. and yes mascara does come in colors. drug stores like wallgreens, rite aid, safeway even can sell them. desgner brands like mac, sephora, ect. all sell them as well.
xO. jessica
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I'm a freshmen, and this girl margie has started drama with me since seventh grade. In 7th grade, she hated me for no reason, we became friends again, but then in 8th grade she decided to hate me because her boyfriend dumped her because she wouldnt let him be friends with her and he mentioned me, then she started a rumor that i did voodoo. and this year she just randomly ims me and starts stuff. if anyone has any advice it'd be greatly appreciated. (link)
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hey hun, well first off your friend does seem immature. and immature people do stupid things. she also seems like she has low or no selfconfidence from the whole boyfriend thing. if it were me i would tell her to stop being so immature, and stop making up fake rumors aboutyou just for the attention. it also seems to me that she goes through so much trouble to make up rumors for you, maybe shes obsessed, i dont know. i would also tell her that you have better friends, and she is not worth the time and effort.
xO. jessica
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I'm 13/f and i have strech markd on my thieghs and weigh 113 lbs so am i fat and if so what are some tips to get trim. (link)
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it depends on height and weight. your probobly not 113 for a 13 year old is really good weight. its probobly just because your growing to fast or your skin isnt growing at the same pase as your bones.
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okay well im 13, and the guy i'm going to be talking about is 15..and I really like him..okay well I was textmessaging him and i jokingly said "hey sexy beast" and he answered.."sexy woman" ..then i was like mmhmmm SEX (I WAS JOKING! haha he knew that to)then he goes "oral" and i was like hahaha..then he put a =0 face, and now like everytime he talks to me online its about us doing stuff like blowjobs and crap, and i mean i liked it at frist and stuff, but now its getting weird..like hes saying "Im masturbating..and looking at your myspace picture..TALK DIRTY TO ME"..it sorta turned me on at frist, but im really freaking out now cause i haven't even kissed a guy yet..like he's really trying for us to get together and he wants to kiss me and stuff, but then i know hes gonna want to go further, and i dont want to be really a slut at my age and stuff.. i mean i havent kisssed but someones been in my shirt before like they felt me up..i guess im just afraid of whats going to happen with me and the guy..hes like so serious and im like nervous..(lol) (link)
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hey hun, like when your talking on aim you can be like, okay lets change the subject, or go into something else. if he does wana go out with you and posibly hook up tell him that your not really experianced and dont wanna go to far cus you dont want to seem like a school slut.
xO. jessica
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Alright, I have a question about being popular.
Well, not exactly. You see, I'm not obsessed and crazed and having my whole life devoted to becoming popular. Its just, the popular people are all so out-going and aren't afraid to do anything and they speak their minds. How do I do this? I'm so shy in real life, but I'm actually out-going online. But in real life its just like, "woah, who's that girl? She's so shy." nobody knows me.
How do I improve this? I just wish I could be out-going and be my real self without being so scared all the time.
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hey hun, well best way is join a club in your school or sport (if your into that kinda stuff). or if one of the people in your class is popular become friends with them like if you sit near eachother or at the same table talk. and if you become his/her friend you can hang with them and through them hang with his/her friends who are popular.
xO. jessica
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I am on the yearbook staff this year - and need some help coming up with some superlatives. Here's my problem - I don't want things that everybody doesn't have a chance at such as "Best Dressed" Here's what we have come up with so far
Funniest
Sweetest
Best Hair
Most Creative
Most Outgoing
Most Athletic
Best Smile
Best Eyes
Most Likely To Suceed and
Most School Spirit
Any suggestions would be nice, but preferably not ones like "Most trendy" "Best dressed" and such because thats just demeaning.. (link)
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these are some from my previous year books;
cutest couple
Most likely to become famous
Most Talkative
Class clown
Most laid back
Best hair
Best teeth
Most outgoing
All around friend
Teachers Pet
Most spirit
Most attractive
Most Stylish
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does prude mean that you never kissed anyone or that you dont like too? (link)
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a prude is a guy or girl who's afraid to do anything sexual or kinda shy around the opposite sex, but not gay or lesbo.
xO. jessica
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what are some pretty,and uncommon names? please dont say things like,jessica,jennifer,katherine,there pretty but they are all to common! thanks for the help! i rate to 5's :) (link)
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well these are people i know with uncommon names;
-francesca
-aubrey
-avon
-bryson
-chanel
-damani
-hayden
-rashel
-orly
xO. jessica
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