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How can i tell who is real?
I movewd to my town about a year and one half ago...the first year was pretty cool..always having fun.The summer of that year,i never saw any of my new friends...and the following beginngingyear (this year..) almost all my friends turned on me..andnot many people like me..im quiet when you dont really know me..im small and un-noticable..its like the people on this team dont care about me now,all of them are mean they pretend to be nice..my friend(i tihnk..) told me that some people dont like me cause she asked and she was sorry about it..im so sad that things turned out this way,most of the time i just get my work done and leave people alone..because im not sure whos real or not..i hang out with my other friends sometimes (from the town i lived in befor) and im really really sad..i just want to move back..but now that i've changed and im so quiet how will i be like there now? and my real question is,How can i tell if a friend is true,or just pretending to like me?
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ok listen before you do anything your goin to regret walk around and just look at how others act and see if they would be good friends towards you then if you see someone nice go and try to make friends with them
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hey babe wlel first of the answer is never suicide, because not only killing yourself your killing your friends family and dreams. You can tell if a person is a true friend in so many ways. the easiest way is to ask them to hang out. if you know they aren't buisy just ask them if they wanna go to you house, dont ask to go to the mall or movies because they will either ditch you or have you pay if they arent your friends. if they accept and hanging at your house is super fun they are probobly your friend especially if they come often to your house if you offer but if they decline and you know they are free they are probably faking to be your friend. also if they accept to go to your house but never talk to you in school or even look at you they are probably faking to hate you in school. thats one of the ways to tell.
xO. jessica
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I totally understand what you mean about the whole "who's real, who's not" deal. All I can simply say is that most females are lying, manipulative, mean, people. You and I are exceptions and that's why we find issues with friends. We aren't fake so we don't just play along with the "I hate her, she hates her, she hates me" etc. There really is no way to tell whether someone is real unless they just seem different. My advice is to do what I do, make a bunch of guy friends because guys are never fake. They're straight forward and I can see that's what you are searching for. I understand how you feel about wanting to move back, but you need to realize that in life you can't always "move back". Just remeber one day, they're all going to be nothing and it's gonna kill them because that's the only thing they have going for them. You on the other hand seem to have the power to go places in life, and high school and middle school are only important know. Sooner than later, you're going to be doing your thing while these "friends" are bumming society and feeling worthless. Things will get better. You gotta work with time. Also, as for your dream. Don't try to be something just to say "Ha, look at me now". Be something you have a passion for and if you pursue it, you will be known. It doesn't have to be something as rare as wanting to be a singer, but could be something like I want to be which is a neurosurgeon. One day, I will be known if I am a good surgeon and I could even find cures or come up with new surgical techniques and be found regularly on the television. So, I give you no tips on getting famous because that is simply who you know. It's also not the life you'd imagine and you'd probably end up miserable. So, try meeting new people and not just guys but maybe girls who are interested in the same things you are. Also, remeber that "obstacles {the friend issue} are the scary things you see when you take your eyes off your goal or destination". Maybe you'll have to wade it out alone now, but everyone has their "time in the spotlight" and yours is bound to happen sometime. Good Luck and hope this helps :)
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