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immature freshmen.
I'm a freshmen, and this girl margie has started drama with me since seventh grade. In 7th grade, she hated me for no reason, we became friends again, but then in 8th grade she decided to hate me because her boyfriend dumped her because she wouldnt let him be friends with her and he mentioned me, then she started a rumor that i did voodoo. and this year she just randomly ims me and starts stuff. if anyone has any advice it'd be greatly appreciated.
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Well i would confront that what she is doing is wrong.Get help from a teacher and a parent. You should also try to talk to other people (older than you) and see if this is what happened to them and see if like theey know what to do.
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hey hun, well first off your friend does seem immature. and immature people do stupid things. she also seems like she has low or no selfconfidence from the whole boyfriend thing. if it were me i would tell her to stop being so immature, and stop making up fake rumors aboutyou just for the attention. it also seems to me that she goes through so much trouble to make up rumors for you, maybe shes obsessed, i dont know. i would also tell her that you have better friends, and she is not worth the time and effort.
xO. jessica
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Margie seems insecure. She probably has little or no self-confidence, so she takes out all of those feelings onto other people.
Take the boyfriend situation for example. He mentioned you, and she might not like him mentioning/being around other girls because she wasn't secure with the relationship.
What I mean is that she seemed scared that another girl would take him from her.
Ignore her. Block her IMs. Don't start drama; make her think that it doesn't affect you by not paying attention to it.
Don't stoop to her level and start rumors about her. That solves nothing, and in the end, you'll most likely feel bad about doing it.
If it really bothers you and you can't stand it anymore, then confront her. Ask her something along the lines of, "Margie, why do you always start rumors about me? I haven't done anything to you."
But, only go up to her when she's alone and not in a bad mood. Don't yell either. Just be calm and mature about the situation.
If she keeps acting like that, then I would tell a teacher or someone else who works at your school. No one deserves to be treated like that.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
♥Manders
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i think you should try to be friends with other people & tell her that. she isn't her true friend if she started all that stuff. tell her that. i think you should juss tell her exactly how you feel about it, because she seems like a not so great friend & you don't need that, especially through hs. it almost seems like she's using you, which isn't a good friend er anything.
-hope this helped!♥
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