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i'm kathleen.i'm thirteen years old.
i've been through alot.
i'm absolutely nothing special, and you'll find i'm nothing that will amaze you.
i have trust issues.
i hate many things, such as animal abuse, and labels.
i'm a vegitarian, and i don't drink milk.
i sometimes talk alot, sometimes i'm really quiet.
get to know me: kathleenxsaidd- AIM.
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Hey, I was wondering how to make my pictures more interesting. I love how some people can make theirs black and white, and write things on them and can get rid of acne, etc. It looks so cool how they can edit them. Is there any way I can do stuff like that without having to pay for anything? Thanks =)
Hey. Well, you can always just open your pictures with paint, that wont make it balck and white, but you can write on them, and re-save them to put on your myspace or whatever you use them for. i've personally done this is i had like a cut on my face, so that it won't be seen. well, hope i helped♥ Kathleen.
so my friend wants me to get help. i guess i may just need help. i just stopped cutting about a few weeks ago, because my mother found out. I have family issues, like my father. i used to hate the world. sometimes i feel all depressed because of my family.. i dont know, advice?
Hey. Well, no. You don't need help if you think that you can stop. I do it too, but I'm trying to stop. If you find that cutting is the only way you can get any relief, and you do it again, get help, please. Because I've come to realize that it helps nothing in the long run, but everything at the time. Stay strong, trust me I know it's not easy to stop. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here, I can relate. But remember, it is a bad habbit, and if you find you can't stop then I would tell a guidance counselor or a parent to get you a therapist and possibly medication for depression. Remember, I'm always here! :].
I met this girl awhile ago. She is my sister's neighbor and I was atrracted to her. She said she just wanna be firends but something can happen. So the friendship is going great, we hang out, talk all night on the phone just as friends then last week she said she wanted space but she was laughing when she said. While she said that, she said she wanna do something we me that she could not say over the phone, what was that about? I been giving her space, but how much space should I give? Should I call and say hi or just wait??? This started about 6 days ago and when talked once on the phone for 5 mintues?? Is this a game? Does she like me?? We do stuff friedns wouldn't do and she calls me all these nicknames that usually isn't her???
Hey. Well, I hate to have to tell you this, but I think that she enjoys flirting with you, but once she realizes that you really like her, she had to set you straight. For now, I would reccomend talking to her, but not calling. Try talking to her online [with a messanger such as AIM] or in person at someplace public, like school. If she continues to flirt with you again, such as she calls you to talk to you for long periods of time, then let it continue for a while and eventually ask her what the deal is with her flirting and then saying that she isn't interested. I'm in the same situation with this guy in my school. Sometimes I flirt with him back a little bit when he flirts with me, but once I found out that he reall liked me a lot, I felt terrible and had to set him sraight. Be patient!! Well, Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
Hi well I have noticed I have like dimples at the top of my thighs below my but, there not overly noticeable but yano I notice them, and I want them removed. Can you guys think of exercise that can make hem dissaper. I want them gone before july, so I can just walk around in my bikini not self conciously
Also lower stomach I want it as toned as the top, what exercises should I do.
Thanks in advance!!!
xo
Hey. Well, for your stomach, my friend just recently told me that if you suck in as much as you can for say about 15 seconds, it's the same as doing 25 crunches, just without all the hasle of getting on the floor and hurting your back and getting someone to hold your feet. At first I didn't believe it, but then I realized that you still feel the same 'burn' as when you do crunches, so why not try it!?
heyyy, well, i need a just a plain white hoodie, but i have no idea where to find one! i've looked at pacsun,ae,hot topic, delias, almost everywhere! does anyone know where they are? =[. also , a plain black hoodie? thanks people :D
Hey. My friend just got one from belive iit or not- the gap. Go there, they're on clearance, too!
My friend Jane ask me a question that i thougt she all ready knew the answer cause a anime book explanes it. she ask "how can same sex people fall in love?" my answer "people will fall in love with someone that has a wonderful personlity, you just like that person cause how they treat you and make you feel. Just like the anime book Gravition the character Hiro explains it." do you think that was a good answer? Hiro in gravition explains it like i did but more info in it and i thougt Jane will know, cause she read gavition and she lead me the book to read. why would she ask me?
FYI: I'm a Female.
Hey. Yes, I think that was a good answer. Your friend may have asked you just for your oppinion on it. She personally may think that it's wrong, whereas most people don't have a problem with it. I think that maybe she meant in a way such as 'how could you ever possibly fall in love with someone that is the same sex as you?' meaning that she finds it repulsive. Regardless, your answer was appropriate :].
However, I have a question for you.. you made it sound as though this anime stuff was like a religion of some sort, like, this 'Hiro' person explains situtations and what's right and wrong. I thought it was just like a TV show or something.. so my question is, what exactly is that?
What are some similar stores to places like dELIAS, Alloy, American Eagle, Forever 21...
stores with teen clothing that's stylish and not overly expensive?
Hey. Well, there's this place, it's called Arie. It's made by American Eagly but the clothes are sooooo much cheaper. Actually, I think they are having a sale on summer/spring stuff right now. You should head over. It's in the mall, if you live in MA, it's in the providence place mall, and the Emerald Square mall, but I think that's all. If you don't live near here, you could try googleing "Arie Stores,*your state here*". Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
Well, this may be somewhat long..
On Tuesday, my friend Megan and I have had plans for about a week to go shopping. I asked her seventh hour to call and make sure with her mom, and she said that she did and that her mom said she was grounded. I said, okay, that's fine.
Now, when the bell rings to go home from school, I see her, samantha, and heather trying to rush out before I saw them leave with her...didn't work. I was walking with my sister, and she saw it and she calls her name then asks her what happened to her and my plans, and megan just looks at her and said something better came up.
So, I was ditched for the first time and it hurt like hell.
So the next day, she comes into school so bright and cheery to me, and I just didn't talk to her at all...and I felt very bad about this all week because I didn't talk to her.
Well, after I got ditched, I went to one of my teachers and I told her and I was bawling when I told her...and she looked at me and said...now something like this with those girls happens to you every year, and you make up with them, and you apologize for nothing, and when you all make up, you put yourself in the same predicament to get hurt over and over again. Now, these girls are not your friends if they keep doing this to you and it seems as if they don't deserve your friendship because you don't deserve to be treated like that. I agreed, and even it was something what I wanted to hear, but not someting I wanted to hear. And another friend told me this too. So, right now I'm hanging out with Meredith..the girl that has always been there for me, but I never took advantage of the friendship I had with her.
And another thing that pissed me off kind of was that the fact that this girl samantha is a liar. She came to school Monday with little tiny nail marks on her neck that were barely visible and like you would give to yourself. So she tells heather and megan that her grandma chocked her so she can stay a few nights over heather's house. Now, what pissed me off was about three months ago, my parents kicked me out of my house for two weeks, and I stayed two nights in the car, and when I asked heather for a place to stay, she said she'd ask her mom and she came back the next day and she said that her mom said no..which I didn't believe, so I called and explained to her mom what was going on and she ended up saying that heather said nothing to her and that I am welcome to stay as long as I needed..and I told her not to bother because heather doesn't seem to want me over there, so Meredith saw that I was wearing the same clothes for three days in a row, and she gave me a place to stay.
And since I haven't really talked to them at all this week, on Friday a few people came up to me and said that they were talking about me saying that I'm a bitch and that I'm fat and hope the diet pills kills me. This hurt me too because first of all, I'm not on diet pills, and second, since Tuesday happened, I've not been immature and talked shit about them.
So, just after this week and all what happened, I've not said anything to them, even though it feels as if I'm guilty and I was to apologize for what I did, which I don't know what I did.
I just don't know what I did to deserve this at all. And I feel like I'm guilty about it, but I don't want to be used by them again just to get hurt again.
How do I get rid of this guilt?
Hey. Well, it seems that these girls are flat out losers. And they're really fake. Don't appolagize, you did nothing. They obviously have some sort of issue with you that they don't have the guts to actually tell you. Most girls are like this, and unfortunately won't change. I know you feel guilty, but think: What did YOU do to deserve them not being real friends. And for a 'friend' to leave you on the streets when you get kicked out of your home is the most sickening thing I've heard all day. The way I see it, Fuck them. It's really their loss, not yours. Just forget about them, and stick with Merideth [sp?] becuase those other shitheads aren't worth your time. Just forget them, they're worth nothing.
Hey. Well, I'm 13/f and I go to middle school, 7th grade. I know, please believe me, that labels are the stupidest thing on the Earth, but I have to use them just for this particular question.
Okay, well, I used to be 'prep' but now I find myself likeing things the 'emo's' were and at my dad's house, in his neighborhood, I hang out with the 'emo' people. I really like all the things they do, like, the eye makeup, the styles[kind of], and stuff like that.
Problem is, if I just, one day 'become' 'emo' then everyone will call me a poser. What do I do?
And, I have blonde hair and blue eyes, and I love cheerleading. I know, that's kind of 'preppy' but I like being 'emo' more than being 'prep'.
But there's a part 2, lol. My older sister, who is 21, seems to think the only way to go is prep. When I wear even a little bit of eyeliner, she calls me 'emo'. Now, I don't have a big problem with this, her oppinion means nothing to me. But she might get my mom into rsenting the make-up and such. Then what do I do?
I have a myspace and I was wondering where I can find some cute layouts?
thanks alot
Hey. Well, if you look at some of your friend's friends, they will most likely either have their own layout site, or have some that they didn't make themselves. You can either get them from there, or www.buddy4u.com has some layout sites. Lastly, you can google 'myspace layouts' and get some sights there. Hope I helped. Kathleen.
i submitted this question once already but it like didn't go through so i fixed it up a bit..
alright well..
one of my friends has very strict parents. so they were looking at her search history and found her myspace. they also found mine.
i'm not aloud to have a myspace. my parents made it very clear that if i had one, i'd be in deep trouble. i wouldnt be allowed on the computer for a long time and when i am allowed to my parents would watch my every move. so on AIM, i cant talk to anyone about private stuff.
i deleted my account already but i dont know what to do. my friends dad said hes going to tell my parents. her dad is going to say he saw it a few days ago so there's no hiding that i actually did have one.
i really don't know what to do. i don't want to get in trouble and loose my computer rights. last resort would be to come clean but i don't want to have to do that. i need to get out of this situation. i really need help, and FAST!! please, does anyone have any advice?
thank you sooooooooooooooo much. you dont know how incredibly bad i need advice.
Hey. Well, it might comfort your parents to know that you can make it private, so that only a few people, whom you personally approve, can view your myspace page. Also, tell them that you can have fake information. For example, my myspace says I'm 100 years old and I live in Bermuda. I'm thirteen, and I don't live in Bermuda, lol. So, if you do decide to come clean, which I reccomend doing before you get 'ratted out', tell your parents that you want one, and that you'll make it very safe. Also, explain to them that you aren't stupid, you aren't just going to go talking to like 50 year old petifiles, lol.
Hope I helped! ♥ Kathleen.
i got caught with a drug and now all i want to do is put it all behind me. i never want to do it again but its hard because some of my friends still do it. i need distractions or something. how do i keep myself away from drugs?
Hey, Well, all of my friends do them, and I have never tried drinking, smoking, or anything. It's really not hard to lose interest in. Google or Yahoo facts about drugs, and read up and look at pictures of the things that can happen to you, and you'll lose all desire you have to do them. I know you said that you don't want to do them, so why would you be worried about it with your friends? You're your own person, don't forget. They may enjoy single handedly destroying their body, but you don't have to. If they try to make you, or tell you they don't want to be friends with you if you dont't do them, then they aren't real friends and they don't care too much about you. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.
well one of my best(?idk anymore) friends parents got divorced last year. i knwo its hard and i completley have compassion for her. but, ever since then, she has turned into this really realy mean person. i'm not the only one who noticed it, and alot of people have siad to me, "ever since ___'s parents got divorced, she's become a b****." i know its really hard to have your parents divorced, but does it make it ok for her to be mean and do rude things to me behind my back and just overall not be a good friend? and it's not just me, its too other people to. idont know how to handle it though. cause if i talked to her she'd probably get her meanness again. the thing is, before she used to be a really kinda quiet, nice person. id ont know what to do. advice?
Hey. Well, you deffinatly need to tell her that since the divorce, she has gotten to be really rude and becoming someone you just don't want to be around. Tell her that you're slways there for her whenever she needs you, but this attitude thing has got to stop becuase she can't just walk all over people whenever she gets really upset. My parent's are divorced, and though it took me a long time, I got over it. Your friend will get over it eventually, too. There's not much you can do for her after that. Be there for her, but give her all the space and time she needs. Lastly, you could talk to her parents about how she's become angry and keeps to herself a lot, becuase ever since then, I've thought I was bipolar or had depression, so I reccomend before it's too late, you suggest to her parents that she talks to someone, like a councelor or someone. Well, Hope I helped, tell your friend it's okay, life goes on, trust me. ♥ Kathleen.
Ps, also mention to her the benifits twice the gifts on holidays, two sets of friends, when you get sick of one house, just go to the other one, etc.
Ok, I want to link my screen names!
I don't want a FAQ page. I want a step by step or a website that takes me directly to the page that lets me link my screen names.
My friend told me to go to MY AIM on my buddy list and there's a link that says something like manage linked screenames. I dont have that MY AIM there and I'm not even sure if that's where she was talking about. So where is that MY AIM part? It's not on my buddy list!
Please it would be better if someone gave me the link of the direct page that lets me do it. Or, a clear step by step. THANKS and I appreciate anyone that helps :)
Heyy, Well. The My AIM link is at the very top of your buddylist. You know how at the top of all the programs you open on your computer, it has the blue (or whatever color) like taskbar thing? It's on the very very top, and it has the title of the website you're on. Well, My AIM is right under that, and just above the advertisement that you get on your BL. If you were looking at this as like a Paint document, it would be where you would find the 'File" dropdown. Okay, so you go to My AIM, and then you click it to open the dropdown menu. Then, the third choice down is Manage Linked screen names. Open that, and click Link/Unlink screen names at the top of that window. Once you do that, It will connect you and you just type in a new screen name, push finish and ex out. However, you have to sign off and sign back on again before your screen names are linked.
Wow, this looks really confusing. Uhh, if it didn't help you, I could explain it again, simply. Let me know ♥ Kathleen.
okay, so sorry in advance if this is long.
so me and this boy have been friends for so long. like about 8-9 years. and like last year and this year we fought all the time.
So we got into a huge fight about 3 months ago. and its not like we are going to be friends again. and He doesnt care at all.
And like this may sound weird but like i have been doing really bad in school latley. and im not saying that the two have anything to do with each other.
And once when i saw him i got a really sharp pain in my chest and like the other day he came into my class and i kinda may have flipped out. like i put my headphones in and my ipod froze and then i was flipping out to this girl and like i was shaking and i dont know. it was like an anxiety attack.
i dont know if these things are like related or anything.
so do you think that they are? and like what should i do to like control it if it is something to do with the kid?
Hey. Well, I get anxiety attacks about the most random things, too. What you do is, you focus just on breathing, but not hyperventalating. Take deep, slow breaths and try to relax your muscles so they don't shake uncontrolably. Also, try not to think of it as that you and this guy aren't friends, becuase if you think about it, you still are, you're just fighting. When he walks into a room, don't think you have to avoid eye contact and everything, becuase really, if he came into a classroom of yours to get something or whatever, it's not like a teacher would let you talk to him anyways, so what's the big deal? Well, hope I helped. And also, you can get tested and get medicine for anxiety I think, but I'm not sure.
Good luck! ♥ Kathleen.
P.S. sorry for all the spelling mistakes, I can't spell haha.
heyyy i decided i wanted to make up a dance because well i'm bored haha. (i take dance so don't worry lol) but the problem is i have trouble remembering combinations. how can i get it better? (also reffering to remembering dances better in dance)
also what are some good songs to make dances to? either like lyrical, or hip hop-jazzish?
thankss
Heyy. Well, If you have like realone player, or like Itunes or limewire, you can actually search for remixes and songs that are mixed together and are really fun to dance to. I got some off limewire for cheerleading, and they're really good. Well, hope I helped ♥ Katheen.
Last Tuesday, I went in for testing. I went in for testing because at cheerleading practice, I fell on my knee and it wouldn't stop bleeding for over an hour. And it didn't need stitches either. So the doctor in the ER had someone to come and test me and my results came back in today...I have lukeimia.
I didn't think of saying anything last week or this week until now because I was pretty sure that nothing was wrong with me. I guessed wrong.
I'm scared. Seriously, what is the survival rate. I don't want to die, and I don't want this cancer, I don't want any cancer. I don't want any illness. I swear to myself that God hates me and he just wants me to die. I hate this.
For the next month, I will have to go for more testing, and in Mayish, I will more than likely start chemo therapy.
I don't know what to do. Shit like this always happend your senior year. Next year, I will be a senior, and I know that this lukeimia will stop me from playing volleyball and cheerleading and dance.
I need help...I don't know. I'm just scared.
Hey, well first of all, I'm SO SO SO SO SO SO SO SOOO sorry about that, it really sucks. You don't have to give up cheerleading and stuff completely, just like temporarily, and start going back to it gradually. Well, the most important thing is to stay strong, and know that all your friends, family, adn advicenators people will be here for you if you need it. Live each day as a vacation, and have fun. You won't die, I can almost promise you. I know someone with Lukeimia, and she isn't going to die. Don't think like that :].
Well, I'm always here for you if you need me. GOOD LUCK
Okay, I have long naturally straight hair and I really want to curl it but nothing seems to come out right
I've tried using curling tongs, plaiting it for waviness, scrunching it with mousse when it's wet .. but none of it really looks good.
The best one was the curling tongs but it takes so long, it's bad for my hair and at the end of it to be honest, my hair looks a bit messy.
Has anyone got any tips on how to curl it?
Hey. I agree with the person below, try a curling iron. But, if you're going to use a curling iron, you will want to use spray-gel, or... hairspray. But, hairsprays really bad for the enviornment and stuff, so try the gel. If you have more questions, ask me :]
I have a huge problem with my family. My brother, who is autistic, gets on my last nerve because he takes advantige of his disability, AND I have to clean up after him, and my mom, and myself. My mom, well lets just say, all the pressure is on me. Plus, she looks to me to be her support system (not money)24/7, I mean I love my mom, but I dont know if I can take the pressure. BUT school, thats a whole other problem. It's like taking your whole entire grade that, hates you and wants you dead, and locks them and you up in huge room. Worst of all, none of them realy even know me, so why do they hate me? Can you PLEASE give some advice what to do?
Uhh, well, that's kind of tough. You mean like they don't speak English? Uhhh, well, I don't know easy this will be, but you could try to get someone to like translate for you a little...
ok i just got the new sims 2 game. i have it all on my computer and installed and all that jazz. i got to Veronaville and it says that the neighborhood is loading but its taken forever like probably 30min-and hour and i have tried it 3 times to restart it. so what am i doing wrong? or what do i do next? or does it take reallly long?
Heyy. No, my friend has that game, it takes forever on her computer too, but maybe you should try to clean out some un used things on your computer, it will make it go a lot faster. Hope I helped ♥ Kathleen.