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friend's divorced parents
well one of my best(?idk anymore) friends parents got divorced last year. i knwo its hard and i completley have compassion for her. but, ever since then, she has turned into this really realy mean person. i'm not the only one who noticed it, and alot of people have siad to me, "ever since ___'s parents got divorced, she's become a b****." i know its really hard to have your parents divorced, but does it make it ok for her to be mean and do rude things to me behind my back and just overall not be a good friend? and it's not just me, its too other people to. idont know how to handle it though. cause if i talked to her she'd probably get her meanness again. the thing is, before she used to be a really kinda quiet, nice person. id ont know what to do. advice?
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Hey. Well, you deffinatly need to tell her that since the divorce, she has gotten to be really rude and becoming someone you just don't want to be around. Tell her that you're slways there for her whenever she needs you, but this attitude thing has got to stop becuase she can't just walk all over people whenever she gets really upset. My parent's are divorced, and though it took me a long time, I got over it. Your friend will get over it eventually, too. There's not much you can do for her after that. Be there for her, but give her all the space and time she needs. Lastly, you could talk to her parents about how she's become angry and keeps to herself a lot, becuase ever since then, I've thought I was bipolar or had depression, so I reccomend before it's too late, you suggest to her parents that she talks to someone, like a councelor or someone. Well, Hope I helped, tell your friend it's okay, life goes on, trust me. ♥ Kathleen.
Ps, also mention to her the benifits twice the gifts on holidays, two sets of friends, when you get sick of one house, just go to the other one, etc.
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hmm.well.
1. you need to talk to her abot this, tell her..
maybe say.. "hey..some people are calling you abitch and stuff lately.."
2. ask her whats up?
3. she might be afraid of relationships falling apart, since her parents did..so she doesnt want to get close to anyone?
4. maybe her life isn't so great now..and she's acting out.. maybe it never was, and now its worse...
5. bottom line..
you need to talk to her about it, lay it all out.
if she's already ebing mean..
you just need to straight up tell her that.
and find out wats bugging her.
=] truth hurts now.
lies hurt a lot more later on.
by darling, goodluck
i hope everything works out
love always,megan.
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