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I know the whole ovulation thing, but is there any other ways to improve your chances of getting pregnant? (link)
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If you go to the doctor's, they can give you a pill that inhances your chance by like 20%.
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okay so i heard someone say her and her bf were grinding and i was just wondering wat that is. can someone plz tell me? (link)
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grinding is when the boy get behind the girl and rubs up against her in a sexual motion.
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Ok!!! Im tryin to find a really cute nickname for my bf!!! I really suck at thinking of them... And he has like 6 or 7 for me and i hate it.. PLZ help me figure some out.. If u have any good ones thank you (link)
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well what's his name? It's cute to make off nick names from that person's name. Have fun with it.
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okay, long version short:
theres this guy that i like and before winter break i was asking everyone for their numbers (i had over 20 so it wasn't personal or anything) and i asked for his and he said "i don't know" and so i took that as a clue to back off a little because before the number incident, he flirted with me like a lot so i often went to his lunch table for like 3min to talk to him and stuff. and then after the number incident, i was like hmm, maybe i'm suffocating him in some way or another. and now we've "grown distant" haha i guess. like i barely go to his table now but i still talk to him and stuff. but like i walk really slowly from lunch to my class hoping that he'll come up and put his arms around me (he does that often). and last week i went over to his table and he gave me one of those really strong bear hugs. and i love his hugs!! haha but i'm like resisting all temptations to run up to him everytime i see him.
but anywhos my question is...by going to his lunch table and going up to him when i see him (i don't see him much. just at lunch and RARELY another time other than lunch) often, does that seem clingy? if it does, what should i do to like be next to him but not seem clingy? (link)
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Maybe you can go up to his lunch table like every other day that way you're still giving him his space and you don't seem to clingly. If he wants to talk to you, he will come to you on the days you don;t go to see him. Good Luck!
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So, there's a song I totally fell in love with. The song is "Love Me Dead" by the band Ludo. I've looked on iTunes and Purevolume, but I can't find a downloadable copy anywhere. The band used to have it on their myspace and it's on their purevolume page, but it's not loadable.
Is there anyway to access this song and download it? I know it's pirating, but you don't understand- I'm in LOVE with this song.
Someone help! (link)
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Have you tried Limewire? Try that but if it doesn't work I'm sorry. Good luck.
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i can get sort of nervous around guys. so i tend to stay away or just not really talk to them unless sometimes i just let my gaurd down and everything is fine but i still laugh nervously. the other day i was with this guy i like and i think it was okay but i still dont know. what do you think i should do about my nervousness???? (link)
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It's okay to be nervous around guys. It's just a reaction. Just act cool and forget about your nervousness. Think about something else and don't try to impress them either. Just relax. Good luck!
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hi well my i have a dwarf rabbit thats about a yr. old. he is really cute and everything but i can never take him out because he is always nibbling on things and stuff so i have to keep him in a smaller place whenever i let him out. Does anyone have any ideas what i can give him, like toys rabbitsl ike, or a good place for him to run around.
thxx xo Amber (link)
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Okay, first buy him some wood to chew on, you can get those at a pet store. They look like food. Second you can buy a enclosed playpen at a pet store as weel. It comes with a fence and a mat. Good luck to you and your rabbit!
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ummm. my periods not regular yet i only got it first it may. but yeah so in november i got it really heavy, i also got it really heavy in july...and i havent gotten it since november but about a week ago i thought i was gonna get it cuz i just kinda had that feeling and stuff. i think it was just stress though but, the past few days ive been getting like A LOT of discharge, like it almost feels like i wet my pants lol, and its really uncomfortable and ive been wearing a little pad. but why is this? am i gonna get my period soon?? i think i might be, and right now my like lower right abdomen? hurts and i kinda feel bloated. well i dunno why this is happening ?? help? thankss. (link)
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After a couple months, you usually get discharge, so that's totally normal. Don't sweat it. It will dry up.
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I am a teen victim of domestic violence. I am 15 years old and I live in the state of Florida, Volusia County. I really dont have the authority to do much. I dont have a job and my mother is taking her boyfriend (the abuser)s side over me. In my situation I was completely respectful until the abuser got up into my face and physically placed his hands on me. I then yelled and left the house. I tried to go back and talk to my mom about getting an injunction on him but she wont because she wants to be with him and says 'he' is in control because 'he' has "the money", supposedly my mom cannot live on her own without him. I am placed in the middle of this because I am her responsibility and I need help. I want to get him out of the house so I can move back in. I dont have family I can goto and I dont have many friends at all. If anyone has any information on this it would be greatly appriciated. ASAP (link)
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You ave to tell the police. It doesn't matter how old you are to file abuse. Go to the police as quickly as possible! Good luck!
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This guy i like, ive known for years. I didnt start liking him until about 3 months ago. Hes really cut and funny and nice. Im afraid that if i tell him, it'll be awkward around eachother. Or worse, what if he gets freaked out by me!! I seriously need advice ASAP!!
-jANE (link)
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well, it's hard to ignore how you feel about someone. Ask him to hang out with you sometime and set a date. Send him hints about how you feel and see how he reacts. Then after that, like either the same night or the next day, set up another time to meet up, but make it clear you want to make it a date, to see what it's like. Then if he freaks, tell him you were joking. He may just not be into you in that way, so you have to give him the chance. Good luck!
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I like him.
He's got a girlfriend
Their relationship is fading and i dont think he likes her anymore .. whenever he talks to any girl or is with any girl i get jealous, even if its not his girlfriend.If i see him even looking at another girl , i get mad and jealous.
Yes, he knows who i am and we used to be like friends with benefits..
how can I overcome my jealousy?
and please dont say TALK TO HIM, i cant really talk to him anymore
And I've tried moving on, and i cant.
so please help! (link)
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Well, I'm going to have to go past what you said. The only way you can tell him how you feel is by talking to him. Give him hints and stuff about how you feel or have someone else talk to him about you. But if you get that jealous about how he looks at a girl, I'm not sure if that's very healthy. You should be able to trust him, whether he looks at a girl or not. But that's just my opinion. Tell him how you feel You need to let him know otherwise it's never going to work out in your favor. Good Luck!
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my uncle did something that i thought i could never forgive him for and well i said i hated him and a while back he tried to say hello and i ignored him, now i just found out he has possible bone cancer and well i feel so bad, like i dont want to hate him but i cant forget what he's done. i feel like the worst person in the world because he's still the man i grew up with inside and i still kinda love him but i dunno, all i know is i dont want him to die. am i a terrible person (link)
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Well, it depends on what the terrible thing he did to you was. If it was something he could get arrested for then I would forgive him myself, but if it was something less extreme, maybe you could find it in your heart to forgive him and talk to him, at least until you find out what's the matter. I'm not saying, like, well if he doesn't have bone cancer, then hate him, but see if you two can get past what had happened and try to move on, slowly but surly. Good luck.
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td on the bus, my one friend jackie was sitting in front of my other friend natalie. i was sitting in the seat next to natalie but then krista moved me in. so, krista told me that like jackie whispered something to natalie about me and she knows for fact it was my name and that it might have been something bad. i dont want to make a big deal out of it since it might not even be true, but this isnt the first time i've heard about them saying rude stuff about me. i dont want to jump to conclusions when it might be a misunderstanding. what should i do? (link)
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Never jump to a conclusion. Just Sit next to them again and see if they mention your name for yourself. Ignore the other girl, she may want to get rid of your friendships. Good luck!
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i'm a sophmore in highschool and i just recently noticed a guy who's locker is like 5 lockers away from me and he takes the same class as my other friends. he's a senior and i really like him? i dont know. *nervous laugh*
today i saw him at the library and i blushed and that never happened before =/
he didnt look at me or anything. i just finally saw him close up in front of me is all.
i'd like to talk to him. but what would i talk about? how do i approach him?
he's 2 whole grades older than me and i take zero classes with him.
:S (link)
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Have your friends talk to him sometime and when you see them talking to him, walk up and introduce yourself and start it off. Let him get to know you and keep me updated! Good luck!
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Okay, I've bought my boyfriend over $500 worth of Christmas. (he has spent way more than me)
I love him so much, and I want to get him something from the heart.
Unfortunatly for me, I can't write poetry to save my life. I suck at writing stuff.
I need a website or two that has really, really sweet, loving poems on it that I can give him.
Thanks! (link)
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If I were you, the best person i know to write a love peom and make it sincere is CaptainL. Send her a message and tell her what you're looking for and she'll probably help you. But don't mention I was the one to give her name to you. If she doesn't have to time, she will most definitely send you a web site to go to. She is the poem queen. Trust me!
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yeah so there is this boy and i really lieked him but he doesnt like me and it made me llke really upset... so i kinda got over. him but i dont know what to do i like always think about him and stuff.
so yeah what do i do about this. (link)
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Well, I can't help on who likes you or not, but you can do stuff to keep yourself distracted like go out wiht your friends and go boy-watching. haha. Like go to the mall and just get rid of things that remind you of him. Find yourself another person who you know will treat you right and will keep you happy. Now remember to to jump him, but just take it slow. Good luck!
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well hey, im writing back to my question about sean, i asked him to hang out next friday and like i said, he was like "i have to check my swim schedule but i definetly want to". Shud i act like it is a date or just us hanging out? we've become really good friends the past couple months and we talk almost every night on the phone. But shud it just be a casual hangout and then maybe a date, or shud it be a date from the start? i dont kno how i shud do this because i dont want to send out the wrong impression as desperate or anything else thanx, K (link)
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Good. You've gotten past the toughest part. First, you probably want to have a hangout thing and hint at that you like him. Let him know you're available, but don't jump him at the same time. Then if all goes well, ask him out again and make it an option as a date and see what he thinks. Good luck and keep me updated!
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okay so heres the thing, at my school there are vary few guys that are close to attractive. and i alwasy find it that when i do like a guy he never seems to like me back...
what do i do (link)
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Well, before you go and jump him, ask him if he just wants to hangout then see how it goes from there. Give him hints that you like him and see how he responds to them. If he doesn't respond, then that probably means he doesn't like you but give him the chance to get to know you first. Good Luck!
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i really want a new screen name that has my name in it ( nicole ) and xo. iv tried a lot but there already taken. do any of you have ant ideas for one?
thankss (link)
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try
xox.nicole.xox
or
xoxo.nicole.xoxo
Hope they work!
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well, im 14/f and there's this guy, sean, hes really nice and friendly, and we started talking this year. he walks me to three of my classes and we just talk about random things. I really like him and he knows i do, but i dont kno if he likes me back. We talk on the phone but he doesnt say much. I just recently asked him to hang out and do something with me , and he said ya, definetly. But i want to kno shud i tell him again that i like him? And how do i get him to like me? thnx, K (link)
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Well, before you officailly say you like him, hangout and see how that goes. See if you two have chemistry and see how comfortable you are around each other. If that works out, ask him out again, but make it clear you want to try it out as a date, no strings attached. See how it goes from there. Good luck and tell me how it goes!
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