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resisting myself
okay, long version short:
theres this guy that i like and before winter break i was asking everyone for their numbers (i had over 20 so it wasn't personal or anything) and i asked for his and he said "i don't know" and so i took that as a clue to back off a little because before the number incident, he flirted with me like a lot so i often went to his lunch table for like 3min to talk to him and stuff. and then after the number incident, i was like hmm, maybe i'm suffocating him in some way or another. and now we've "grown distant" haha i guess. like i barely go to his table now but i still talk to him and stuff. but like i walk really slowly from lunch to my class hoping that he'll come up and put his arms around me (he does that often). and last week i went over to his table and he gave me one of those really strong bear hugs. and i love his hugs!! haha but i'm like resisting all temptations to run up to him everytime i see him.
but anywhos my question is...by going to his lunch table and going up to him when i see him (i don't see him much. just at lunch and RARELY another time other than lunch) often, does that seem clingy? if it does, what should i do to like be next to him but not seem clingy?
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hey, well if hes not putting in the effort to come to your table to talk to you the days that you dont come to his then i dont think hes interested. if your not interested in someone and they do that, then yes that would seem clingy. do a little test. go to his table WAY LESS, but dont stop coming completly. see if he takes the time to come to your table. maybe hes scared to talk to you in front of the people you sit with? does he ever talk to you when your alone? if he does then hes either a) interested in you but doesnt want to show it in front of your friends or b) is embarrased that he likes you. if your pretty popular and have a lot of friends then i wouldnt see why it would be letter b). ask your self those questions and sort things out.
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Maybe you can go up to his lunch table like every other day that way you're still giving him his space and you don't seem to clingly. If he wants to talk to you, he will come to you on the days you don;t go to see him. Good Luck!
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It seems fine unless you're going up to him every time you see him. Once in a while just smile or ignore him altogether and go on doing what you're doing.
A lot of guys love the chase. And what are they supposed to chase when you're under their nose all the time?
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