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I am a nice funny person. I love to swim and dance, and i love to help people. I like hanging out wiht my friends and goin out on friday nights and stayin out late! Im all about havin fun!! Ask me for help when you need it. I will be happy to answer your questions. I love answering questions about relationships, so ask me about that!
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I really need some advice.
I am a 15/F ....I have gone out with this one guy about 5 or 6 times (we arent datiing just hooking up). We were introduced by a friend (he's 16) and is (or seems) like a really good guy. My parents are away for the whole weekend and my sister is going to be out tomorrow night and I think this guy is coming over. We have hooked up.. but nothing more then that. I am kind of concerned that something is going to happen that I don't want to happen (i am a virgin). I don't know If i'm just overly worried or what. do u think its a bad idea for him to come over considering the circumstances? Is it suggesting that I want something more then just hooking up? Please give me your advice. Especially the boys here. Thanks.
Ok im not aboy, but you need advoce so....I dont think its a bad idea if this guy comes over when no one else is home. I mean since you know him pretty well. If you guys start kissing and making out, etc, you might want ot tell him your limits. He should respect them. If he doesnt...kick him out..he shouldnt be in your house. Hopefully if you know this guy, he hsould respect you enough to respect what you want and need. But all in all i htink its fine for him to come over, but also dont forget YOUR limits and dont be tempted to do something your not ready for....unless you want to.
Hey...I'm 15/f and I've had my period for a year and about 4 months now...I'm worried because I didn't have it for March...I haven't had sex but what if there was sperm on the toilet seat or something? Someone please give me hope! I RATE!
Um no.....even though you think you have had your period for a long time..thats not, believe me, i have been thinking the same thing. Your still irregular. Same thing is happeneing to me too.....your fine, nothing is wrong and dont worry. Plus sperm will die once it reaches the air. So thats not possible....and...you sit your backside on the toilet seat......Hope i helped!
Hi! Okay i am a really thin person....i am NOT Anorexic i swear! I eat actually alot, i just dont gain the pounds as fast! But my hands in the winter they will like turn colors...like in gym they will trun purple and red and stuff. And if you squeeze them they will turn red! Is this normal...my one friend said it could be a blood clot! Help me
its normal..since your so thin you dont have much ody fat to keep you warm. Your just so thin because your matabolism is really fast. Dont worry about it. Hope i helped!
Hi,
I get a LOT of pimples on my chin and it like sucks loads! I never ever pick them or anything but they always scar, no where else on my face, just my chin. Why is this and what can I do to get rid of the scars? I don't wanna buy loads of expensive treatment things.
Just make sure your washing your face really well with soup, especially in that area. Maybe you where makeup, hen dont wash well wnought? that causes pimples. I know you dont want ot buy expensive treatments, but me, my mom and cousin, and ven my TEACHER asked me about PROACTIVE..its like a 3 step treatment its like $40 but well worth it. You will see results after like one aplication. Its worth it. Hope I helped!
ok... well i have a boyfriend.. and well not alot of guys like me at my school (i mean like bc they are stupid im not like a nerd or anything!) and then like everyone was makin fun of us and stuff and when me and my friend went to his house he was all like flirting with her.. what should i do (I GOT PISSED!)
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Well i think you need to talk to both your friend and bf. Ask your friend if shes interested in him, and that if she is, it may be ok i guess....but to not come between what you already have with your bf. Maybe you should ask your bf if hes interested in her because if he is, thats not cool, and you should end the relationship. But if hes not, just warn him that your friend may possible have a hting for him...Hope i helped!
I have my period about every 2 1/5 to 3 weeks.. then, when I do have it.. I have it for 2 days then I stop that night then I have it for one day then I stop that next day then have it for 2 more days.. is somthing wrong with me.. :-x
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No its perfectly normal. Your probabibly just started your period so its pretty iregular right now. people get really concerned when this kinda hting happenes, but tis norml. If you still think somehting is wrong, ask your mom. Hope i helped!
i have this problem, i wont sleep for days and when i do sleep its for a very short time. i also really like to play supersmash bros and other assorted videogames and they keep me up often, and when im not playing them im dreaming about them and wanting to play them. Why cant i sleep is it my videogame habits or am i sick like insomnia? can anyone explain?... IM NOT NORMAL!!!!
Um....your just becoming addicted to these games...thats all there is to it. If your playing a gam all day, and then sometimes take little breaks to sleep, your still thinking baout the next time you can play it. So put down the joystick or however you say it (lol im a girl i dunno) or put away the x box and ps2 and do something else to get your mind off it. Hope i helped!
my boyfriend and i have been together for a very long time, we've talked about it, and we're ready to have sex. the thing is, we both think its disrespectful to do it at eachother's houses (especially because we always have people home) so where is a nice, romantic, PRIVATE, place to go... where we won't get caught? i honestly cant think of anything. be serious. and thanks.
It kinds of depeneds on wheer you live. Some places have parks people dont go to or maybe like a building that isnt being used, i dont know, depeneds on where you live i guess. I mean you could go to a hotel, but that would cost money..and dont you have to be a certain age to get a room? I dont know how old oyu are so i dont know. Hope i helped!
Well, I think I might be spotting (Menstruely lol) when I use the bathroom my undergarments are covered with a mixed waste...when I wipe, i get alot, or a little, blood on my toilet paper, sorry if im too graphic...anyway, I havent started my period yet (I'm 13). Do you think this is spotting? or do i have a problem?
This is just telling you that you are about to start your period soon, its normal happened ot me. Your are at the age that you are going to be starting your period any week or month now, so dont worry its normal..u might wanna buy thos elittle thin pads...they r like pannie linners so you dont get anything on your undergarments. Hope i helped and dont worry!
Hey,
I have horrible frizzy, thick hair and i like it best when its straight. I.ve tried a range of products (straightening serums, shampoos, conditioners, sprays..) but nothing seems to work at all. i have one of those 'wet to straight' straighteners (£80) and if you use it when its wet it frazzles your hair and i think it ruins it (its says it locks in moisture but im not too sure it does). I've tried Sunsilk straight and sleek, Frizz ease, shockwaves extreme straightener..etc..and im going to try that Hot Straight from the advert that stars Beyonce. My bathroom is filling up with half used hair products and i want to find one that works.
Also i dont even know how to apply all of these products so they could be exactly what im looking for but i just do it wrong.
I want smooth, sleek and straight hair where it seems every hair strand is individual and soft . I want it to be dead straightand shiny so if i had it in bunched and took it out it would bounce back into straightness
If you know anything that will make this happen or ave any advice please help me..:-)
LuV
Rachel
Sry this is long but believe me its worth reading. OMGosh i was going through the same rob;em! frizzy hair, good when straight. well...first i got a relaxer whcih defrizzes your hair. its a hair treatment you get at a salon..like around $100 for 6 months....but then i went to a website. www.folica.com and it had like a whole section about straighteners...so it has a chi and stuff but i read the reviews for that and it wasnt so great. then i saw a top 10 hair straightener seller list, and number one was called a sedu ionic straightener 1 1/2 inches, and it was also rated best straightener. Then revies for it were great, it had like 4.76 or somehting out of 5 star rating. SO its like $116 i know a lot....but its the BEST investment ever, like im serious! my hair was the poofyest frizziest hair ever! I had ot have my mom blow dry my hair all the time. Now i can starighten it all by myslef and it only take like 20 min which is good for my hair, and i just have to air dry my hair, also my hair is curly and theres a lot of it! just try the website look for the sedu 1.5 inch straightener and read the reviews! I hope you really look into it! Its os worth it! Hope i helped!
Kind of a dumb question but...
How do you make pancakes with a mix? Like what do you add? I lost the box and I can't remember...
Also, where can I find info about the history of pancakes? I've already googled it and asked jeeves but i can't find anything. (It's for a project)
Tres merci!
ok well for a recipie try www.foodnetwork.com, also on that same website, you can chose different shows and theers one about the histoy about different foods and stuff, i forgot what its called but ifyou search a bt on those idfferent hsows, one must pop up as being the right one u know. Hope i helped!
alright so last month around feb 9th my boyfriend fingered me and i wasnt sure if he had anything on his fingers or not..well i freaked out because my period didnt come till feb 28!! (and im positive it was my period not just spotting) well this month i havent got my period yet and its april tommorow..i havent done ANYTHING whatsoever with my bf at all this month. maybe my period is just late because i didnt end my last period till march 6 or 7th. im not sure. so ive been REALLY freaking out about this. and today i took at pregnancy test and it said i wasnt pregnant. but what if it was lying? could i be pregnant? the test only costed 10$ so it was kind of cheap..
well if you didnt do anything all month, your not pregnant so dont worry about it. Since you got your period late before, its gonna come late again. Your not pregnant. Hope i helped!
I'm very shy and quiet, and I not a geek or anything but I'm not exactly popular either. There's this guy that I think might like me.. but he is really popular and outgoing, so I'm not sure if he really does like me or if it's just my imagination. Is it possible for a popular, outgoing guy to like a shy, not-so-popular girl? What are the chances? I don't know what to do because of my uncertainty.. should I flirt back or not?? Thanks in advance!! :-)
I think you should go for it! I mean if you like him. If you dont...dont play him like that. It is possible for a popular guy to like not so popular girls! Of course. I mean many popular guys have known the popular girls because usually they are all a close group. And we all know how popular girls sometimes can be. Im not sayin they are bad cuz i have popular friends, but some can be mean and stuff, i dont know wat the ones in your school are like. However not os popular normal girls are usually the more down to earth girls that guys can have better times with. And maybe this guy is a popular guy, with a good heart and knows a good girl when he sees one, and doesnt go only by status in school. Hope i helped! And good luck!
In high school, we get to choose which language we want to take- French or Spanish. I signed up for Spanish, but I'm having second thoughts. I like French a lot more, but I want to do what's best for me. Does anyone have any pros or cons for taking a certain language, or just general advice on what I should do? Thanks!
WEll im in 8th grade ad im taking spanish, and i think its fun. I was having the same probs you are but i wen with spanish cuz my friends did lol, any way. A good thing about spanish is that there are a lot of cognates, which means there are a lot of spanish words that soud like english ones....so its kinda easier. Also, many of the caribean islands, mexico, etc all speak spenish, so when u get older and become and adult and travle more, and go to those places, as do many people, it might be more interesting to see what you can speak and understand. If you take french, there might not be as many chances to use it. Spanish is more common, unless you want to be alittl emore different you an take french. Just whatever you think sounds more interesting to you, being bilangual is great! im bilangual goin on trilangual if you count spanish. Hope i helped!
I was wondering a few things about steroids.
- First, I'm not taking them for sports or anything, I have bad asthma and I have to take them to control my attacks.
1. What are the risks.
2. Do they make you eritible/angry all the time
3. Do they make your muscles large
I'm a girl so I wouldn't want my muscles to be the size of a man's!
um well i read in this health magazine in health, and one in science that steriods can mess things up in men and women and might like flip flop stuff. Women will start to gain lots of muscle mass like men, and may start to grow facial hair and stuff. Thats all i can remember, but i mean if your doctor prescribed them.....maybe they are different...Hope i Helped and good luck! Im sure u'll be fine!
ok, this is a really good question i know a lot of people struggle with. expecially at our shitty school.... anyways, i dont really understand why people call other people posers, or why they say things like "you dont listen to that band!" or "you dont skateboard!!" i mean, how do they know!!? why are they judgeing me and other people form our school!?!?!!? it makes no sense!!! i mean, the only way they would know you dont like something is if they were a crazy ass stalker person!!! PLEASE HELP!!!
well some people are just lablers. its a big problem in my school because part of the people are really rich, and the other part are like normal. All the richer people, not all of them, but some all dress in abercrombie and holister and stuff, and people call them posers because they are trying tobe cool by copying what other people ar ewearing. Also usually you wnt see a prep, (sorry for the lable), skatebording. People say you dont skatebored by the way you dress. These people you are right just dont understand what the person is really like, they only see it by clothes. it really makes no sense but there will always be people judging other people just to make themselves feel cooler. Hope i helped! A little confusing i knnow!
I can never eat breakfast- one because I'm a bit lazy because I'm tired and two because I'm not a big fan of it, but I know it's unhealthy not to eat it and I know you can gain weight from not eating it because then you pig out at lunch and the rest of the day. Any suggestions [besides fruit] and please note that I'm on a tight scheduale and don't have alot of time to eat or prepare it [no cereal suggestions, please]
you can buy cereal bars....when u said no cereal suggestions i dont know if you meant you dont like it or what not, but i have cereal bars. or i have thos elittle muffin bites..they come in like a boz and theres like 5 poushes of 4 muffins in each, and i just take those out to my bus stop or in the car. Hope i helped!
ok..i stole a bottle of perfume,earings,keychain,lipgloss,2 rings, (this was formyself) i also helped out my friend steal her stuff and she helped me steal mine. I never stole anything before..and im kinda feeling bad now. the stuff i took was probably worth $15 or $20 altogether. is there a way i can make myself feel better and get rid of he guilt..besides returning it. And is it true that people steal stuf until they get caught? because ii dont want to make a habitt out of this. have any of you stolen anything before?
well i have stolen stuff before, but i was little.....but then i told my mom when igot a little older and i felt better and i promised myself that i would never ever do it again. As for your situation, u might want to try telling your parents because it will relieve a lot of stress....and maybe you should go back and buy something from the store worth the same amount, you might feel better. Just never steal again. its really bad. people who work at those stores need ot feed their families too and if people all steal, there wont be money to do that, and if you keep it up you will get cought, so dont do it anymore! Hope i helped!
Alright I was asked out by this guy i really like but the problem is that my friend likes him too. What should i do? Should i breack up with the guy and keep my friendship togheter, not that my friend won't be my friend anymore, or should i stay together with him and tell my friend that she will get over it?
I think that you should go out with him....and make sure you keep one on one time with you friend too! I mean friends are more important then guys, but sometimes you need ot take the risk with him. You wouldnt want to always think..."what would have happened if I did stay with him." Also dont talk about him infront of your friend a lot, unless she asks about him. Hope i helped!
Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about two months now and the guy hasnt even tried to kiss me. Like im sorry if i sound bad for saying this but i have needs! So I was wondering what are some ways i can turn my boyfriend on so that he'll wanna make out with me, or at least kiss me?
sit really close ot him in a dimmed out room, and like play around with his hair and stuff, put your arms around him. or just flat out ask him if you guys are ready to take your relationship to the next level...kissing. Hope I helped!