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My name is Erin.
I'm almost 16 [17 days!]
I love this site so much, I always ask a billion questions on advicenators and I do my best to answer as many as I can too.
Most of the time when answering questions
I give you my opinion,
then I go through different senarios [2 or 3] that are on each side of the issue
So ask away :)

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Do you believe that it is unnecessary for a parent to yell at their teenager when a friend is over for small things like not cleaning up their room or being late? I believe this only make the kid embaressed and the guest feel awkward. Wouldn't it be more sensible to just tell the child "We'll talk about this later?" I've been noticing this happening alot lately at my friend's houses, I was curious on everyones' opinions. 15/f.

i do believe your right, it would be much more classy to simply say we will talk about this later instead of making the guest feel akward standing there while the friend gets yelled at

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I used regular internet.
No dial up.
No firefox.
Just the regular internet.
the thing where you just click the little E and you can search.

but how do i delete google history?

if your press "ctrl + h" at the same time a side window will pop up, click on the top site and hold down shift button, scroll down and select the bottom site, all should be highlighted, push the delete key on the key bord and all of your history should be gone

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okay, my problem is getting worse. i posted a question recently about my relationship with my boyfreid that is on the wrestling team. we can't date because the coach's and everone are really freaky about it because they say that it will interfere with the wrestlers playing and all that. well if you date some one on the team and you get caught, youre basically screwed since they will probably kick you off the team, or bench you, and crap. well we got caught dating and i talked to the coach and she just said i have 2 options, one, quite the team(which i cannot do because my dad will freak out since he payed for the stuff.) or the second option, which is just to be freinds with him. i really don't want that.but unfortunatly, one of the other girls that are on the team, told on me even though there are other people dating that are on the team aas well. her, being one of them, but THEY are allowed to date because the coach says that they are an exeption...dont ask me why... but anyways, she had helped me get with my boyfreind and then right when we start dating, she went and told the coach, and lied to me about it, then went and told my bf's mom, and started talking crap about me and my bf and now all the stat girls(what our position on the team is called) are all over my business, even though cam(my bf) and I split up momentarily, since his mum forbid us to date, because he needs to focus on wrestling and his grades. and we can't even hold hands or do anything romantic around skool because people are watching us and will tell. now the girl who told on us, told me today that cam might get benched(taken out of wrestling) because of breakin the rules and being with me 4 two freaking days! I need help! I dont know what to do!

why the hell is your school involved with your personal bussiness
thats stupid and if i was you i'd make a big deal out of this
talk to your parents and i hope they relize just how inapopriate that is for a school to say you can't date and ask them to back you and talk to the head of your school because that is jst wrong
if your don't want to make it bigger than it is just invite cam over your house or to someplace where not alot of people go so you two can still be together without everyone on your back and he can tell his mother that hes with friends or at the library
hope i helped!!
-esoccer1717

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My bgf and i are really close and we are thinking about having a serious relationship together but im not physically attracted to him. is there a way i could become physically attracted to him? i think he might be to me im not sure but im not to him. also is it ok to date a guy who dated 2 girls you used to be friends with? cause he dated 2 of my old friends but they dont care if we date and we arent really friends anymore anyway. he didnt seriously date them it was just a thing but he and i want sumthing real and through all the relationships we have had we have always been best friends and kind of liked each other. everyone thinks we are perfect for each other and wants us to date but i dont know. also my mom doesnt want me to date him because he dated two of my old friends like i said. his family on the other hand really wants us to date and likes me a lot. what do u guys think? please tell me any thoughts you have and i will rate everyone!!! thanks!

i think you should go for it
but make sure you two decide that no matter what happens you two will always stay good friends
talk to your mom and say that its ok with the other girls and they weren't serious or anything

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Okay well, I'm 15, and I'm not completely preppy [I'm actually not really any sterotype, I dress differently from day to day] but my favorite store is Hollister. There are so many cute things in there, but I hate that so many people shop there. I also shop at Abercrombie, Pac Sun, Hot Topic, etc. all of the typical mall stores, but I hate it when people are wearing the same thing as me. I live in Boston, so what are some good stores downtown or sommething I could shop at?

Johnny Cupcakes for example. I also LOVE Betsey Johnson, but seeing as her stuff is like $400, it's kind of a problem.

I loves those stores to, but how bout shopping online?
alot of the time they have different things then in the stores so you can still wear your favorite brands and be unique, outlet stores are good too, they have good clothing and for alot less

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My ex boyfriend and I have known each other for over 6 years. Recently we've crossed paths again and became really good friends. He calls me like 6 times a day and we talk about absolutely nothing, but yet the conversation is anything but boring. Well, as you probably guessed I am starting to have feelings for him again. He always makes me laugh, and he compliments me alot. I just don't want to take a chance and ruin our friendship if there are no romantic feelings intended. He called me his "bestfriend" and even though its a great title, it wasn't really the one I was looking for. Does he like me? What should I do? I don't wanna mess things up.

huys are so weird, so its hard to tell if he likes you
i think he might but getting hurt sucks
it would be a good idea to bring up a memory from when you two were dating and talk about it then you can get on the conversation of why you two broke up
and they may lead to him telling you his feelings for you and what he sees in the future for you two
hope i helped

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heyy
well im looking for some love songs
but not the hip hop kind of songs or rapping
im looking for like acoustic or alternative
but nothing tooooo slow.
and it has to be cuuutee too
not a cheesy sort of song

haha can anyone helppp?

pweass and thank youu ;)

Alicia Keys has alot of nice love songs
shes coming out with a new album so that might be something you want to look at
hope i helped!
-esoccer1717

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Is there a way to build your pain tolerance? any method?

i don't think so
i know if your a chief you can touch things that are extreamly hot and mentaly not be affected as much because your used to it
i DO NOT recomend hurting yourself
don' t do it.
but in some cases it is more of a mental thing

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There's this guy in my class and we were really good freidns which surprised me because i'm really anti-social and didn't think that i would make a lot of friends when I go to highschool, but i did.

And I always give him guna nd he's so nice but I ran out of money for two weeks and couldn't get gum anymore.

Then he's like "You're not my friend anymore" which REALLY hurt me!

Then I bougth him chocolate and he's like i love you again friend =]

Is it worth it? I don't know, i just don't liek it when someone doesnt' like me because i get hurt easily but he's so nice and everything. Is he a friend? or not?

he sounds like a jack ass,
do you really want to be friends with someone who just wants gum from you everyday?
have more respect for yourself, don't give him gum and if he's really your friend it shouldn't matter, he'd talk to you because not giving gum to someone isn't a big deal

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14/f
so I like two guys (this question isn't about picking one over the other, so please don't give me advice about that)....
one of them is a year older than me, and the only time I see him is sometimes he eats lunch with a bunch of us, and once in a while after school and like a function or something
and then the other guy...he's two years older than me and I only see him once in a while when we're in plays together...
I do have ways to contact both of them, but we're not really close enought that I could use them often for no reason
There's nothing really that special about me, I mean I can be wacky and odd and crazy and fun sometimes, but I tend to kind of fade when I'm around the two of them, and theres usually people around who are just as wacky and fun
how do I get either of them to notice me?
please help thanks!

be yourself
guys hate it when your fake and sluttish to try and get attention
if you want to flirt a little thats ok,
be silly but not stupid
play with their hands or hair
little complements are nice but don't make it obveous
well i hope i helped!

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i started my period yesterday, and i think im letting out alot of blood, it seems like i change my pad every 2 or 3 hours. is that normal?

its completly normal,
and if you just started your period it won't be regular for a while

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okay so this boy likes me and i like him and we have a lot in common but hes in a different group of people than i am in...this is my last year in the same state as him and i really want be at least friends with him....i think i really like hm because not just becuase of his looks lol. he seems nervous ..but what do you think i should do ...go up to him?

ok, i kno juss how you feel, my b/f is punk and i am the girlest girl u could evea meet! (but i do kick ass lol) go up to him sometime like after school, ask if him and his friends mabe want to go somewere with you and you friends... if he says sure than deffinitly keep up talking to him if not say thats kool, talk to you someother time and leave it at that.

hope i helped
esoccer1717
*plze rate*

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me and my friend were best-friends since we were 4. we're 13 now and since we were 9 she's been hanging around with other people at lunch time.It didn't bother me that much .She became way more popular but it was like nothing had changed outside of school.When we 1st went into 1st year in secondary school (in Ireland)and i was really happy that she starterd hanging out with me in school again.Now we're in 2nd year and we don't see each-other outside school that much and we don't hang out in school and we're only in three classes together.she still talks to me like everything is fine.She doesn't sit beside me in two of the classes unless her friends aren't there!Sheonly sometimes sits beside me in the other class but lately she hasn't even been doing that!I think she's using me but if I tell her then she might not be my friend at all.What should I do?HELP!!!P.S. I'm a thirteen year old girl.

talk to her. Fromwhat you described it sounds like she is moving on. try hanging out with her other friends, mabe than u can all hangout

hope i helped
esoccer1717
*pleaze rate*

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I asked a question about this before. I was the one who was being indeed very selfish about my geeky friend who was embaressing me like hell!!! She was being very clingy and I was starting to feel embaressed about her because of her being geeky and annoying!

Well, she sat with me at lunch today. I followed someone's advice on trying to get some space because I realized I needed it!! But, how can I get space without making her upset. She's completely oblivious to me being annoyed with her!! I don't want to go out of the blue saying "You're annoying be so give me some space" She'll ask why! And then i'll have to tell her the truth! She's so annoying at lunch. I sit with cool people and she's totally butting in to all our coversations going "What?" "Who did?" ITS DRIVING ME NUTS!!!!! I've been avoiding her and I know its not right! I need further inforimation!!

omg i have the sameee problem except the girl i am dealing with NEVER talks. i would juss say to her, "some one is sitting hear sry" amd that way she can't bother u... thats what i did...

hope i helped
esoccer1717

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well ... i got up the courage to let my friend erin tell this guy brendan that i like him...(i really love him)and i really thought i might have a chance cuz were really friendly and i thought he might have liked me.
erin was at my house at the time... so she let me go on her screen name wen she left so i could talk to him... this is how it went:
erin(me): wasnt that surprising?
brendan: i kinda could tell
erin (me) : oh?
brendan: not to be mean or anything but i would NEVER go out with her
erin (me): oh I have to go...bye
and i signed off... i dont know what to do! I need to know what to say to him... im allowed to go on erins screen name again in the morning... but idk what to say... what do you think i shoujld... should i try to convince him? well the worst part is ... i keep blaming it on parts of me... like i think i make too many jokes now... and now i think its because i am a little overweight... but i thought he was the kiond of guy that didnt care about looks...
please dont say "get over him" because i have liked him for 2 years and ive tried that!!!
i'll rate high...please ... i need help before like 10 tmw morning :-(
~heartbroken

i get my friends to tell guy's i like them all the time... sometimes it works and sometimes it dosen't. ok i get that ur like tottaly in love with him, so what i'd do is go on erin's sn (that jus happens to be my name 2, lol) and say like "so y don't you like her?" keep getting info that could help you out... like ask what kinda girls he likes and stuff like that.
i really hope this works out for you, i have gotten in to situations like this myself... if you evaa need anything please let me kno... i really wanta kno how it turned out so drop one in my box!

hope i helped
esoccer1717

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is there any good colleges to get into if you want to be a fashion designer when u get older, i live in ny

F. I. T. >>> i wanna go there myself!

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im new to getting my period...is it bad if it comes 2 days b4 its suppossed to?

no its not, ur period isn't always on time on time.

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I Need a awsome cheer! IT can be a genral cheer or a football cheer. NOT A SIDELINE a cheer.


Help;
My Town Is East Palestine
My Macot is : Bulldogs
My colors are: Brown orange and White




HELP: GAME THURSDAY AND ONLY TWO CHEERS! EASY 5++

1) Fasten your seat belt, step on the gas cuz we're gunna kick you in the everybody we will we will rock you..rock you...we will we will rock you rock you...

2) reeses pieces buttercup mess with us we'll kick your butt bang bang choo choo train let me see you do that thang...(1 person says) i cant (2nd person says) why not (1st person says) i cant (2nd person says) why not (1st person says) my back aches my skirts my bootay shaken leften and right (everybody) go left go right go left right left right

3) strawberry shortcake banana split we'll make your team look like shift to the left shift to the right stand up sit down fight fight fight woooo!


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whats probobly the bst shampoo to make hair grow faster and smell pretty?

i dont think there is a way to make your hair grow faster but to make your hair smell good try

>herbal essances
>suave
>aussie
>johnsons
>loriel (how ever you spell it)

hope i helped
esoccer1717

>>>please rate

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Hi I have this friend who went out with my ex a week after we mutully broke up. She's nice and all but I don't like how she would go out with him after I did! SHould I forgive her or not?

i had a crush on this guy HE DID NOT KNOW! well he asked one of my friends out, she dumped him n than thank to anotha friend of mine he found out i liked him, well he asked me out n said yes. she acutly took it better than i thought, she said he was a jurk and i'd be sorry, but she wasn't mad, me n him r still going out, (she movied to fL), n were still bff's, n eveything is good, moral forgive her. she might have had a crush on him while you were going out with him. so jus don't be nasty to your ex jus sorta act as if he was ur friend, i kno it sounds weaird but jus do it. its llike the only way not to make this aquard fer all of you

hope i helped
esoccer1717

****please rate****

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