Question Posted Thursday November 22 2007, 4:33 pm
There's this guy in my class and we were really good freidns which surprised me because i'm really anti-social and didn't think that i would make a lot of friends when I go to highschool, but i did.
And I always give him guna nd he's so nice but I ran out of money for two weeks and couldn't get gum anymore.
Then he's like "You're not my friend anymore" which REALLY hurt me!
Then I bougth him chocolate and he's like i love you again friend =]
Is it worth it? I don't know, i just don't liek it when someone doesnt' like me because i get hurt easily but he's so nice and everything. Is he a friend? or not?
tropicalbabe33 answered Friday November 23 2007, 11:38 am: It depends whether he was doing it jokily or not. From reading your question, it sounds like he's just using you for gum and chocolate.
But if he said it jokily, he could have just been, well, joking.
Spend more time with him and see how he acts next time you don't have any gum.
If he does it again, and not in a jokey way, I wouldn't consider him a friend. [ tropicalbabe33's advice column | Ask tropicalbabe33 A Question ]
esoccer1717 answered Friday November 23 2007, 11:13 am: he sounds like a jack ass,
do you really want to be friends with someone who just wants gum from you everyday?
have more respect for yourself, don't give him gum and if he's really your friend it shouldn't matter, he'd talk to you because not giving gum to someone isn't a big deal [ esoccer1717's advice column | Ask esoccer1717 A Question ]
sealgirl07 answered Friday November 23 2007, 11:08 am: I say he isn't your friend..You don't be friends with someone who is just in it for the reward. He just wants to be friends with you because you give him stuff which isn't really nice. He just like teh fact that you give him stuff. Once you stoped giving him gum..he didn;t like you anymore..and that is his true feelings. He only likes you for what u give him. So no he isn't your friend. iF i were you, i would dump him before he takes anythign else.
~sealgirl~ [ sealgirl07's advice column | Ask sealgirl07 A Question ]
Brandi_S answered Friday November 23 2007, 10:21 am: Over gum? He was surely just messing with you.
But if he is really just your friend because you give him gum, then he isn't really a friend at all.
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