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I don't beat around the bush. My advice may be harsh, but I'm not sugarcoating anything to keep your bouncy, sticky-capped ego from being hurt.
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I recently started going out with this guy, I am 16 and he is 18. We make-out tons and tons, and its great and it feels great. But then that makes me wonder if he is only in it for the physical aspect, I asked him if thats all it was, he said no and that he likes being around me and he likes hanging out with me. Whell things dont feel right at all, I feel like im just his toy or whatever and he doenst tell me how he feels about things. Its often hard to express myself as well because I dont know how he would react. Its just weird, I just want to make things better
If you still want to be with him tell him how you feel and let him know that until you feel like you know him well enough and have a meaningful relationship you will not make out with him anymore. It can be hard to keep a promise like that, especially if he's all over you, but if your body is telling you one thing and your brain is saying something different...listen to your brain. And if he tries to make out with you afterwards, that's definitely a sign that he doesn't respect you and your wishes and is not worth staying together with.
I know this has been asked 100 times before but I need some help. After school I am always hungry (I have lunch at 10:30). And of course I always reach for something unhealthy and not very filling. So my question is what is a low-calorie yet filling snack? I am not as active as I should be so I don't use many calories. So what is something that I could burn off easily?
I usually get a little hungry before lunchtime so I always pack a healthy snack for myself. Here are some things you might like:
- dried fruit
- granola/breakfast bars
- yogurt
- ants on a log (celery with a little bit of peanut butter and some raisins on top)
- nuts
- low-fat crackers with hummus
Me and my girlfriend are in a delema she is makeing a dission between me or another guy she says she is confused. and she says she loves me but my point of view is if she loves me as much as she says she does then i would this it would be no comp. I love her like no other. Im thinking she is playing both sides she wants me to be here if she picks the other guy and it goes wrong with them. my prob is what should i do if she picks him. I would hope she'd pick me though.
Don't let this girl play with your heart anymore - break up with her and forget about her. As cliché as it sounds there will be other girls and this isn't the end of the world. It'll be alright as long as you don't let her walk all over you.
so me and my sister were messing aroudn with out hair one day and we decided to trim mine because we were bored but she ended up cutting a few inches off.. and i want it to grow back but idk how to make it grow faster or like if theres a shampoo i can use or something
Science hasn't managed to invent a product to make hair grow faster. Just deal with it and find new things to do with your slightly shorter hair.
Tomorrow, I'm taking an AP test and all year long, I haven't paid any attention..so now I have to cram and review the whole book..It's so hard to stay concentrated because the subject is so boring..(Human Geography) I need tips on how to stay focused and the best way to study..pleaseeee! I'm in 9th grade and if I pass this test, I won't have to take it in college...any advice is greatly appriciated!
I could give you some great study tips, but I have no pity for you. It's your fault that you didn't pay attention during the year - shouldn't you be studying right now instead of being online?
What things make your face break out or makes you get pimples?
Greasy foods, chocolate, etc. do NOT make you break out - that is a myth.
The best way to keep pimples at bay is to wash your face when you wake up with some sort of acne wash, use non-comodogenic make-up products (this means they will not clog pores - it's usually printed on the packaging), wash your face after rigorous physical activity, and wash your face before you go to bed. Change your pillow cases once a week as well. And above all, try not to touch your face.
okay well i was told the other day by another kid at school that i might have thyroid disease. he told me thats when u cant gain. lose weight. Well i weigh 95 pounds adn i was wondering if there really is a such thing as thyroid disease. and if so could somebody explain that to me??
OK, are you really going to trust what a kid at school tells you? If you're that worried make a doctor's appointment and ask to have it checked.
My friend has been acting really weird lately ever since her mom started going out with her new boyfriend. She jumps back when people move to fast towards her or swing their arms near her like she thinks they're going to hit her. She's also been waring clothes that are really baggy which isn't like her at all. I talked to her about it and she started crying. She told me that her mom's boyfriend has been beating her and even raped her. He told her that if she tells anyone or tries to runaway he'll kill her mom. She asked me not to tell anyone but I hate seeing her being treated like this. I want to go the police but the thing is he has a lot of money so if they do arrest he can just get out on bail and then go after her. She's really scared of telling people and I don't want her to get hurt anymore. What can I do to help her she really needs help but she's afraid to get it. Is there anyway that I can get her help without her mom's boyfriend finding out about it?
You need to tell someone NOW. If you don't want to have your identity revealed talk to your school counselor and tell him/her what's going on. They are required by law to report things like that to the police. Your friend and her mother should get a restraining order and have him prosecuted for battery and rape.
what are some ways to show your significant other that you really care about them thats not sexual or extreme?
Make something for them...it doesn't matter what it is, but the most special gifts are ones that you know a person put love into.
Whenever I try to put a pic on advicenators or myspace it doesnt work.. On advicenators it says it has to be less than 15k how do i make it less? and why doesnt it work on myspace? thx!!
Getting a free graphics program like IrFanView (http://irfanview.com/) will allow you to view information about your files and do simple edits like resizing, sharpening, etc. To make your image smaller, resize it and make it smaller. So if your image is 200x200 pixels, try making it 100x100 pixels. When making images smaller, it is always a good idea to sharpen them once or twice before making them smaller, otherwise they turn out blurry.
Ok I think I have one, but how do you know and get rid of it...and fast?
thanks
Try icing for 15 minutes every hour...that's about all you can really do. There are lip ointments you can buy, but decent ones are probably expensive.
15/f- I want to go on the birth control pills called Seasonale because they give you a longer cycle so that you have fewer periods a year, who wouldn't want that, right? well...my mom won't let me get them because she says i'm too young...and then she started giving me excuses such as "the doctor doesn't perscribe birth control unless you're sexually active" well...if i were sexually active, wouldn't i have wanted the pills BEFOREHAND anyway??? and i was under the impression that sometimes birth control is percribed to those with irregular periods to help regulate them. so, was my mom correct? and if she wasn't, how can i convince her to let me get seasonale? thanks!
Try talking to your mother and let her know you are not sexually active. I don't know what her stance is towards sex before marriage, etc. but if she wouldn't freak out, let her know that if you ever think of becoming sexually active you'd talk about it with her first. Go to the doctor with her and have a talk about Seasonale and exactly what it would entail, etc. Make her comfortable about it.
You could go to Planned Parenthood without her if you're sure you really want to go on the pill, but if you do this you will be going behind your mothers back and should be willing to accept the consequences of your actions. Doing so could cause a major rift in your relationship, so be prepared.
hey well last night me and my bf where talking online for like 2 hours and then he had to go and take a shower and left his away message on and while he was gone his uncle came in and saw what he was sayin to me and he got in trouble because he was sayin bad things online and for some reason i think it is my fault. is there anything i can do because now his uncle doesnt want him talkin to me so the only way i can talk to him is by email. can someone plz help me???
Use the telephone.
this is really weird but ..im always afraid to sign on aim because im afraid someone will say something really mean to me and ill get upset for weeks. I over analyze convos on AIM wayy too much and I think if someone says anything like hi instead of hey or um i think they hate me!! what do i do? I love talking on AIM but Ive had some bad experiences and now im paranoid!
I'd suggest getting a new screenname and only giving it out to close friends you get along with. Talking to acquaintances online can cause problems...actually, talking online is one giant problem.
oK well I don't really have that much time in the morning to do my hair for school and my hairs always the same either down or up..I really need some cute but quick hair styles to do to my hair..my hairs shoulder length and light brown..pLz help ill rate u high!!
Hair clips - there are lots of fun things you can do with them. And if you're up for it, kiddie clips can look really cute.
well i just got my period on friday (aobut 5 days ago) and i used these pads for a few days..but they are so long and fat in width! so then i went to the store and i got a thiner one width way but then its like really thick! and your can see it through my shorts that i have to wear for volleyball! are there any kinds or brands that i should know of that would work for my problem??? and i was wondering how long it normally takes a girl to learn to use a tampon..scince summer is coming up..i jus got a inground pool so all of my friends will be over here like 24/7! thxs so much!
I'd suggest practicing inserting tampons when you're not on your period to get used to them. Buying a lubricant like KY would make them easier to insert, make the process perhaps less painful (though it might not hurt at all, it depends from girl to girl), and help you get used to how to do it.
i am 13 122pounds and five foot three is that overweight? also can someone tell me the average range of my weight? i am also a boy.
I wouldn't worry about it - you're growing a lot right now and as long as you eat right and get some exercise you should be ok. If you're worried about your weight go to the doctor and they can give you advice on what your ideal weight is and what kinds of food to eat.
Can anyone reccomend a good face lotion that is oil free with an spf of at least 15 that I can wear underneath makeup? I can't seem to find a good one that I like!
I use Clean and Clear Morning Glow...it's SPF 15 and very light.
Is it possible to loose a few pounds by just eating healthier (with some physical activitey but not alot) If so, can you tell me some good health foods to subsitute with my normal junk food? Thanx i rate high! :)
Definitely - I've lost over 10 pounds that way. The key to losing weight is to not stop eating but to stop eating things that are unhealthy. If you go to fast food places stop eating their food or order a salad with a lo-fat dressing instead. Only eat when you're hungry, not when you feel like eating. And try not to consume solids after 7Pm because your metabolism slows down after then - if you're hungry yogurt, fat free pudding, or a small glass of juice are great food substitutes. Just watch what you eat and try to get a little bit of exercise and you'll get the results you're looking for. Don't feel bad if it doesn't work immediately, you have to be very patient and not give into temptations (ie cookies).
Good luck
okie so the easiest way to put it is that my parents are complete conrol freaks and i cant do ANYTHING without them either noeing or okaying or watever and if i do im in complete trouble, can never go out agin, and watever else rite? AND they also threaten all the good in my life so that i HAVE to follow themm... ive thought about calling a child abuse service or watever but i thought that just might be a bit selfish because i have two siblings who reallie need the family until they're ready...and its so annoying because i cant do anything about it (dont ask why.. i just CANT) so im stuck like this for another three years and i really dont think i can survive that long. i mean who can??? if you were here youd probably noe. i dunt even talk bad about them to my friends and all my friends are scared of them. even my best friend is. o and they always go back on theyre word and change things around so that the story fits what theyre saying and they make you have a lot of accomplishments just so they can brag about it and all to all theyre friends and them even if its something you dont want to do and if there is something you want to do but they dont think you should because there is like "no point" (i.e. sports... they wont lemme try out for any of the sports teams at my school and they say its because of money reasons but they pay A LOTTTT more for my brothers' sports EVERY YEAR than they would for a sport). **btw that felt better just righting about it...** but anyways what should i do about it?
--DrIvEn CrAzY--
Maybe you can spend summer break with a relative or something. There really isn't any way to get rid of your family, and it doesn't sound like they're abusive.
Try having a talk with them or write them a letter if you're worried that they won't listen to you. Try compromising with them...like if they let you take on a sport you'll pick up extra chores around the house or have a garage sale to raise the money for the equipment.