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19/f. My names Casey. I'm a crazy cat lady who's obsessed about books and doesn't wear matching socks. I enjoy all kinds of tea and sometimes I believe in as many as six impossible things before breakfast.
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okay so im wondering about the "Fat Loss 4 idiots" weightloss program thing. has anybody used this and does it really work? ive looked up reviews and all of them say that it does work but i guess im still a bit skeptical. and will it work for sumbody only wanting to lose about 7 pounds? i use to be really skinny but since its gotten colder and with the holidays coming ive gained about 5 pounds already and im guessing between now and january 1 ill gain about another 2-5 pounds and when the new year comes i want to drop it off quick before i go back to school and this "fat loss 4 idiots" claims that you'll lose a lot of weight within 11 days. will it work for somebody like me only wanting to lose about 7 pounds. by the way im 17 years old 5'3 and i weigh 120
7's a random number.
But if that's all you're going for - I don't think Fat Loss 4 Idiots is for you. That type of weightloss program is for bigger people. You loose weight faster when you're heavier and since you're not 150lbs, I don't think it would make much of a difference.
Heating healthy and excersising is really the best way to loose that amount of weight.
Cut back a couple hundred calories. ex: if you normally eat 1600, cut back too 1400. excersize a half hour, three times a week. and you should be all set.
Does anyone know an official website that has all the dates and places for the Twilight tour? I've heard they were coming to my city but I just don't quite believe that. I've found a couple of websites, but I'm not sure if they're legit. I want to know for sure...
Any help is greatly appreciated! :D
try
http://stepheniemeyer.com/
TwilightTheMovie.com
Answer this:
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=157yejl&s=5
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=2w5st1u&s=5
(Sorry, the pics arent that good)
Be honest i can take it trust me!
But i was kinda fooling around with cutting my hair, and decided to try for the Hayley Williams look. Can you guys please tell me if i did a good job, if not tell me what i can do to make it look better.
( My hair used to be the bright red but faded, im dyeing it like that soon)
i think it looks really good!
i was thinking of getting my hair cut like that, actually. hah.
so what are some songs about you liking a guy who just broke up with someone, and they keep getting back together, not matter how many times they break up. and you still like him.
Relationship: Until the Day I die by Story of the Year
Getting Over him: Candles by Hey Monday
Ok so me and my bf and just started going out. I am shy and stuff but I don't have his number and he doesn't have mine. How do you get him to ask you for it? I know it usually trades off and stuff but not this time. I would be really nervous to ask so what are some ways to get him to ask me. I know you guys will probably say ask him, and your right but I just can't. So all I'm asking for is someway to get him to ask me. Thanks!
Make plans.
"hey do you want to go to "so and so" "this day"?" -you
"yeah sure. what time?" - him
"oh. i don't know. i have to do "insert whatever here". call me and i'll let you know? - you
"okay, whats your number?" - him.
I dont' know. something along those lines.
In my broadcasting class, I have to do a final project. My idea is having it be about an Acid Trip.. going through the mind of someone who does acid and just have it be very creative/crazy trippy footage. We can do whatever we want, and I am asking for help if anyone has any ideas or input on what I should put in this video. Also, I am in desperate need of some good music, preferably no words in it, just trippy. I was thinking of having a girl take acid and going through all the levels of a trip. send me your thoughts/ideas! thanks
ps i have months to work on this!
I can kind of see "Smells like Teen Spirit" by Nirvana
Or maybe
"Rock and Roll Queen" by The Subways
17/f
so i need to lose weight, i need to feel better. ive been so tired and im sick of it. i want to look and feel better.
a few questions:
-what kind of vitamins are good for me to take everyday?
-for breakfast, what could i eat besides cereal? is there anything fast to make? i was thinking about making one scrambled egg and a glass of juice and vitamins. would that be good enough?
-what is something really healthy that i can bring to lunch, besides salad. i dont really want to bring anything to school that can spoil in my locker, just something really light that wont make me too full. and not really sandwiches either, because i get sick of that too quick.
-what are some healthy snacks that i can eat, besides yogurt, veggies, and fruits?
-how much water should i drink in a day?
-is there any other drinks that are healthy besides water?
-should i completely cut out junk food, or have it once or twice a week?
i want to lose weight, but i want to be healthy. i dont wanna starve myself like i already am. im slowly stopping the pop drinking, and sticking with juice and water. ill have a pop once in a while. for dinner, i just eat what my mom makes me, but im gonna start eating in smaller portions.
also, what is a good exercise plan to go on?
i have a treadmill and a bike, how long should i go on each every day?
i could use loads of help from people that have lost a lot of weight, and it would help if some vegans could tell me what they eat. im not turning vegan but i like some of that kind of food.
please any advice can help!
I'm the same age as you. and in the same situation.
so i'll tell you what i'll be doing:
- Any kind of vitamins will pretty much cut it. I usually just grab a complete multivitamin.Try looking at some labels/googling what's best for you.
- Breakfast is actually my favorite part of day. And cereal isn't the only thing out there.
try non-fat vanilla yogurt w/ bananas
Toast w/ Peanut Butter along with an apple as a side
Whole-Grain waffle with no syrup.
Or even the egg/juice/vitamin is a good one!
- Lunch: if you don't want to bring a big lunch, you can always buy something at school. I don't know what your school system is like, but we have a deli section, salad section, and the main dish. Either that, or you could just Bring in a snack like a protein bar with a peice of fruit or vegetable.
- healthy snacks: non-fat fig newtons are good. but stick to the serving size when you eat them.
uhhm. sunchips are whole grain - which is good.
ricecakes ( they have flavors and are only 60 calories per serving)
fat-free pudding cups
pria bars (in the health food section. they're really good if you're having a sweet craving)
pretzals
tablespoon of peanut butter
popped popcorn with no butter/salt (you should get a seasoning called Molly McButter. It tastes like butter, but it's really low on calories)
really, there's a lot.
- Water: standard 8 glasses a day should cut it. when you go to the store, buy a big bottle, it'll help you drink more.
- Healthy drinks: plain tea, black coffee, diet soda (don't overdo it on this either), grape juice orange juice, apple juice, crystal light (powder you can put in your water to make it taste better), low-fat milk.
- Junk food: I think it's up to you. Personally, I don't have it becuase it really just makes me freak out and have more. Just stick to the serving size. And don't have it everyday. then you should be good.
- Smaller portions: best way to do that is to use a smaller plate. it tricks your mind into thinking you ate more than you did. (:
- Excersise: Bike is good! My brother bikes and he lost 30lbs one summer. And he's been skinny his whole life! Biking everday for around 20 minutes will deffinitly be benneficial. Same goes for tredmill. 20 minutes a day is excellent. Just remember to do some crunches/pushups/situps/weights too.
- As for the whole vegan thing: try boca burgers.
Hope I helped. =]
i weigh 165 and i really needa lose more weight than i already have. i'm at a plateau. i dont know what to do. i don't have any more time for exercise.
can you PLEASE help me out?! anything is appreciated. and i know that i have to "maintain a healthy lifestyle" and "eat healthy" but i really need support, help as to what i should eat, or YOUR STORY ON HOW YOU LOST WEIGHT =]]
please!!!!!
Well, there's a few ways to get out of your 'plateau'
you can:
a. Cut back on calories. If you're eating 1600 calories per day, make it 1500 or 1400.
b. Increase your excersise time. 15 minutes to 25 minutes, etc.
c. Cut back on something else you eat a lot. Like replace some snacks with fruit or vegetables. Or if you drink a lot of juices drink water instead.
Well, that's all I got at the moment.
Hope I helped. =]
Okay so I've had sex with girls(if that's what you want to call it), but now I'm going to have sex with a guy for the first time. My friends told me that their first time it wouldn't go in and it hurt really bad. Is it going to be extremely hard and painful for me?
To add onto the person below me:
if your a girl - i doubt it will hurt that much. Since you've already had experience, the tightness most girls have is most likely gone.
if your a guy - well, i'm pretty sure it would still hurt.
AHHHH im kinda freaked out because i think that i might be pregnant.
idk tho.
ok so ive been moody and i think i might be spotting.
im not exactly sure what "spotting" is supposed to look like but like ive been have like dark blood and it looks like its been mixed with discharge because its lumpy.
this is around the time when im supposed to get my period and its never this light when i get it.
so im REALLY scared that pregnancy could be a possibility.
do you guys think that my symptoms could be pregnancy??
I think it's kind of early to have symptoms.
But then again, I might be wrong.
Pregnancy test is really the only answer in these cases.
I'm a freshman, 15. All my friends are having sex with their boyfriends, I want to have sex with my boyfriend...but I'm scared you could say of getting pregnant, there are so many risks.. But I really wanna do it. Am I too young? Should I do it, cuz I do love my boyfriend alot? I'm just so confused.
if you have to ask, you're too young.
My birthday is coming up. I just want to have a little sleepover. I was wondering any ideas of what we could do? I thought of a movie, and ice cream because I love ice cream!!
Any other ideas?
Thanks!
well, normally, when i have a sleepover, we play video games, watch movies (usually a TV season on dvd me and my friends are obsessed with), dye hair (temporary stuff), listen to music, pig out on junkfood, and depending on the person, sometimes walk around the neighborhood.
it really doesn't matter what you do. it doesn't have to have a certain theme or anything. just have the birthday party be about you!
okay. long story. okay. so yesterday "thursday" some kids dared me and this girl to kiss. so we did. and so someone convinced me to tell my b/f. and so did. and he got really pissed. but he "said" he got over it and he wasn't pissed anymore [[yesterday]] so today, i went to this thing after school. and so i got these 3 guys to call him and say "dude, your girlfriend is a really good kisser" and hang up. but i NEVER made out with any of them. and he got really mad. and he left a comment on my profile. it says. "I will never trust you again.You broke my heart.I trusted you with everything now that is shattered.you meant everything to me now you mean nothing i will remember you but hope i will forget.you were my life,but thats now over. I HATE YOU" i don't know if he means it. and i don't feel bad for getting them to call him. but i do feel a little guilty because i hurt him. but i don't really care about him. or i don't want to. because everyone i've ever dared to love has gone. and. i just need to know if i should care. i mean. we've been through alot. and i do think i love him. but i don't want to. i mean. i care. but. what should i do. i don't wanna loose him. i really don't. i can't afford to. i mean. he's been there for me through all my bullshit. and i think i hurt him really badly. and. i really just need to know what to do.
i don't know what to do without him. and i guess i do care. but i dont want to [[sorry for the repitition]] please help. everytime me and him have gotten in a huge fight i started cutting again or i've attempted suicide. i really need him in my life. i can't lose him.
i'm going to be bluntly honest.
first off, those guys calling your boyfriend, was seriously a really stupid move. you should feel bad for hurting him. and you should feel bad that you even told those guys to call him in the first place.
dares are bullshit and are nothing but drama. of course he's going to be hurt if you already kissed someone else. why should he beleive you if you say you didn't with the guys?
i'm sorry, but i'm going to have to say that this is your fault. and he deserves to be mad at you.
tell him you need him. and you're sorry for what you did. it seems to me that you do love him, whether you want too or not. especially if you can't "lose" him.
so. my friend and i are kinda in a big fight. and.. he's winning. i mean. he has a good reason. he called me a poser [[well, that's not the good reason]] for cutting and he said i cut to get attention or what'ev.. so like. he's really mad at me for cutting. and he posted this on my myspace.
"You're such a fucking idiot
I wish you'd fucking stop
You think you really are
But you're really really not.
You've got no-one fooled
So stop tryin to put on you're little act
Put your notebook on the shelf.
You're really fooling no-one, but yourself, in fact.
Cut the fuckin drama
I will no longer tolerate this stupidity
Seconds after reading this you'll be cryin to your mamma
I refuse to tolerate your imbecillity.
You're such a fucking idiot
You make me wanna shout
You're such a fucking idiot
Find a gun, and blow your fucking brains out.
Get out of my life
Leave me alone
Bitch, you're whack
Take that shit home."
and this....
"If you really wanna kill yourself that bad
Go a-fucking-head,
Put your finger on the trigger
Of a gun full of lead
The people close to you
Feel the same fucking way I do
Go ahead, do it, you'll fill out lives with bliss
I highly doubt you will be missed"
and it hurts
alot...
honestly, i think he means well. he cares about you, but its pretty obvious he doesn't know how to handle this situation.
cutting is not normally something people tell others about. especially if, to others, you have nothing wrong in your life.
if you have a reason, you need someone to talk too.
if you have no reason. then i'm sorry, but he's right on the part that you need to stop.
im looking bands in these genres:
-indie
-rock
-punk
-pop punk
:]
indie:
- dashboard confessional
- death cab for cutie
- cake
rock:
- nickelback
- the beatles
- ac.dc.
punk:
- the clash
- mxpx
- sum 41
pop punk:
- new found glory
- simple plan
- sugarcult
14/f
i slept over my family friends house (girl, my age) and we were watching a movie with her brother (2 years older). she fell asleep and me and her brother were watching. and then he was kissing my neck, and we then started making out. then it kind of got carried away and we went into the basement, and he wanted to go really far but i just let him feel me up. i dont like him at all.. but my question is, should i tell my family friend, because that would completely change our relationship and awkward between me and him, and i want to avoid it..
youre first reaction is probably going to say to tell her, but try putting yourself in my position.. its really hard. thanks in advance
you don't HAVE to tell her if you don't have too. i mean, i wouldn't bring it up if he doesn't act any different towards you after that. unless he actually did like you, and you wanted your family friend to know what happened so next time you hung out and she fell asleep, it wouldn't go as far if you didn't want it too.
Does anyone know where to get a C.D of the christian rap group G.R.I.T.S I need it for my school project I need it before febuary please help I live in LA but I will go as far as Austin Texis to get it please help
well, you can try:
itunes.
the mall.
wal-mart.
17/f..145lbs. 5'6".
I don't know if my weight is normal, but I'd still like to lose a few pounds here and there. My 'problem areas' are my thighs, calves, and abs. I want them to get skinnier, but I don't want to look muscular either. Any tips on how I can do this? I'd love to do this by at least May (hopefully) but I do want to do it safely too. Thanks!
as for your goal, i deffinitly think you can shape up by may! its an excellent and reasonable goal that won't make you have to change your ways drastically. start by making small goals before your big one, like loose 4inches off your waste by end of febuary, or run 20 minutes three times a week for a month. you'll see better progress =D
anyway..the workouts.
well, for calves - i would deffinitly try ankle weights, if you have any. walking around with them during school is great. when you have them on, take bigger steps when you go up the stairs. you will feel the burn!
as for abs - try crunches, pushups, sit ups, etc.
and for thighs - 5-10 minutes of running, jumping jacks, rollerskating, swimming, jogging, walking, etc.
eat healthy! you don't really have to take it to the extreme, but just eating 5 fruits and veggies a day would be excellent for your body.
hope i helped.
i'm really startin to *love* Three Days Grace. wut are some of their best songs? i already know Animal I Have Become, Pain, Just Like You, Let It Die, Are You Ready, and I Hate Everything About You. wut are some more good ones? fast or slow but preferably faster more hard-rock!
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what are some good quotes of
-friendship loss
-love
-funny quotes
thanksssss
i really like this quote for friednship lost -
"things change. and friends leave. and life, stops for nobody." = the perks of being a willflower.