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i hooked up with my family friends brother
14/f
i slept over my family friends house (girl, my age) and we were watching a movie with her brother (2 years older). she fell asleep and me and her brother were watching. and then he was kissing my neck, and we then started making out. then it kind of got carried away and we went into the basement, and he wanted to go really far but i just let him feel me up. i dont like him at all.. but my question is, should i tell my family friend, because that would completely change our relationship and awkward between me and him, and i want to avoid it..
youre first reaction is probably going to say to tell her, but try putting yourself in my position.. its really hard. thanks in advance
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No, you shouldnt.
In truth, its not really her business. It would hurt the relationship.
What would be the point? You hurt her, you hurt you. If you feel guilty about it, thats your burden to bear. If you like being friends with her, don't fuck it up.
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you don't HAVE to tell her if you don't have too. i mean, i wouldn't bring it up if he doesn't act any different towards you after that. unless he actually did like you, and you wanted your family friend to know what happened so next time you hung out and she fell asleep, it wouldn't go as far if you didn't want it too.
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honestly. if i was in your position, i wouldnt tell her. i mean, its not her business. if you think its the right decision, then tell her, but.. if i were you from the way it sounds, i would really keep it 2 myself
hope you make the right choice =]]
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hey... well i think you know that you need to tell her what happened i mean you said it yourself. But you have to think about who it is going to effect and how everyone will react i mean sure they'll get over it eventually but you still need to consiter them.
if you and your friends brother arent going to take it any further and it was a one time thing then there might not be any point telling anybody cos what people dont know wont hurt them right.
but if it is going to become something more then your better off telling your friend.
i know you said you dont like your friends brother but he could like you so you should talk about it with him first to hear what he has to say and how he feels before making uo your mind wether to tell your friend or not.
hope i helped you xxx sal
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