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Q: ok i don't know how to french kiss and my boy friend really wants to!!!! can u write down the steps for me!!!
p.s
discribe every bit!
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0K D0N`T STRESS AB0UT iT!
iT`Z ACTUALLY LiKE REqULAR KiSSES 0NLY DAT Y0UR T0UNqE AND YOUR B0YFRiENDS ACTUALLY PLAY WiTH EACH 0THER...
JUST KISS HiM AND WHEN HE STiCKZ iN HiS T0UNqE PLAY WiTH iT...THERE AiN`T REALLY STEPS 2 iT BUT JUST PRETEND Y00H KN0W H0W 2 SCAM...D0N`T LET HiM KN0W Y00H D0N`T KN0W H0W 2 KiSS
H0PE iT ALL q0ES q00D!=D
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Q: I just recently got a myspace account. And Im unsure about somethings. I see a lot of people leaving comments up there in big letters and I want to know how to do it. So does anyone no the code for making words bigger on myspace?
thanks in advance
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simply put in fr0nt 0f the message and the letters will be black and huge but if you want colorful letters check out
www.freecodesource.com
good luck!
oh and for the online now icon you can find the code to hide it in the same website i just gave you=]
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Q: ok when i try to sleep at night i just keep thinking about stuff and i cant slep then the next thing i know its 3 oo in the morning- anyone have a way i can go to sleep faster or think i have a sleeping disorder? thanks
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I know me to!
Well u know like try not sleeping for one night and then you will get sleepy like in the morning and stuff but hold it till like 9pm or something and wake up early hehe thats what i did and it worked=]Hope you understood what i mean....=/
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Q: This is for girls. I want an honest answer; is penis size an important factor in relationships and does it matter?
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Wut do you mean?Like in a fuck free relationship or a really involved relationship?lol
Well in a simple relationship i dont think it would matter.But if its like a relationship where you fuck maybe it does hehe.But remember if the relationship has love those type of things shouldnt matter!=]
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Q: 15/f
I have a 5 month year old son with my boyfriend. I considered adoption from the start, but it was too hard to say goodbye so I pulled out at the last minute. (Which made my boyfriend happy, surprisingly.) My mom (my dad isn't a part of my life) gave in and said she'd raise him for me if I helped. Now that school's in, it's becoming harder. We have to pay the babysitter, pick him up, etc. Plus, I made the cheerleading squad. Neither of us have time for him and my boyfriend's family can't take him. Mom wants me to reconsider adoption, but I can't give up my baby now! But I also don't want to give up being a cheerleading and all the other fun stuff in high school. Mom's afraid my grades will slip. So am I. But my bf and I have grown so attached to ourson. We plan on getting married and raising him together once we're out of high school. But what can I do until then? It's too stessful! HELP!!! Please!
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UM i would say to not give your baby on adoption!
I mean this might sound pretty bitchy n stuff lol but you should really pick your baby over chearleeding and all the fun stuff in highschool because its not your babys fault(it didint ask to be created u know).You and your boyfriend need to figure something out so that your baby grows with love and care from the both of you.=]
for now i think you both should give up something to have a few extra time to be with your kid.Sorry but thats how life is=/hehe.
well farealz i hope everything turns out good!
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Q: My husband and I have never really been to close since we got married, mostly because I'm starting to find him boring and inconsiderate. While I was his girlfriend, I was a lover. Now that I'm his wife, I'm his slave. Anyway, he's has in the army and away from home for the past year. I got lonely so I started hanging out with some friends (both guys & girls mixed). I ended up starting a semi-romantic relationship with a man who had just lost his wife during her labor. So I helped him with his daughter and we just leaned on each other for support. Then my husband came home unexpected one day and caught us sharing one of the few kisses we've ever had together. So now my husband is fuming and wants a divorce, plus, he thinks the man's daughter is my child! He won't believe a word anyone says! Do I just divorce him and take it as a blessing in disguise, setting me free, or what?
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I think you should just get the divorce.I mean come on you dont wanna be with him so just take advantage of the situation=]
(p.s.Omg ur husband is tripin i mean he wasent around and you werent gonna wait for him 4ever!)
hope everything works out!=]-
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Q: f/15
I want to date this guy who I have been quite close friends with for years. We have always liked eachother as more than friends (although it was sort of on and off since we went periods without hanging out) and that is what kept our friendship alive. We have always acted like we were dating (to some extent) and I'm quite sure it would be long lasting between us. I think he is going to ask me out within the next two weeks since we recently told eachother for the first time how we really feel.
Now the thing is that I have had two boyfriends in the past but never told my parents so they think I have never dated a guy. They know I hang out with this guy a lot and he calls my house sometimes asking if I wanna come over. My parents have never met him since I always go to his house and he has never been at mine (because I don't think my parents would allow it).
I am a really good liar and I know I could hide it if I was dating him, but should I? What would be the benefits of telling my parents rather than keeping it a secret?
If I tell my parents (if he asks me out) that we are dating and they don't approve they would probably think differently about letting me go to his house even as friends. If I keep it a secret and get caught they may find out other secrets I have since I basically live a double life (I am a straight A student but I drink and lie to my parents a lot, but they think I'm 'good' and don't do drugs).
Sorry about that being so long but there are many factors and I am running out of time to make a decision
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i think you should tell your parents because (hopefully not)but if something went wrong they would know wuts up and would be able to help you!
My mom is the only one that knows about some of my boyfriends because my dad thinks i have never had a boyfriend eigther!haha if he knew!but anyways yeah i suggest you tell them!
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Q: okay...first off i am 20 years old and I am a virgin and dont plan on EVER having sex until after marriage, so any relationship I have will always be innocent. so now my question...
There is this guy, who really loves me, and whenever I am with him I feel great. He is like the perfect guy that every girl dreams of meeting. and I love him very much. The thing is he is only 16 years old. :S so I feel like its very wrong for me to have any type of relationship with him, other than friends.
he keeps telling me it doesn't matter how old I am, and he doesn't care. but i feel like its really really wrong. and i told him that once he turns 18-19 to call me up. i could tell it really hurt him, and i cant stand the thought of not being with him. :( have i completely lost my mind? please give me your opinion and advice. negative or postive, as long as your being honest. and please no jokes.
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ok well i think that if you love him and he loves you then you should go out with him because true love only comes once in a lifetime!
Yes he might be like young and like the columnist below me said it dosent sound bad when somebody is 44 and the guy is 40 but then again it does when somebody is 13 and they go with a 9 year old lol!anyways i seriously honestly think that you should just go out with him because it seems like you really really like him and since your older and more mature you can help him out while you are happy 2=]well i hope everything turnz out great!
mucho luv~~~
(p.s. i think its so good that your waiting to get married to have sex!;])
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Q: ok i am 15 1/2 and my bf is 16 1/2 can my mom turn him for rape if we have sex? i live in california
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ummm no i don't think so.
well unless u didint agree to have sex with him then yes she can turn him in for rapin you but if u are okay with it then i guess not!
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Q: Does anybody know where I can get this top or something like or similar to it?
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=42746456&imageID=823739325&MyToken=8f31ab72-12ed-4c61-9dd2-b45268da46e6
Thanks muchos!
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where do u live?because i bought a shirt just like that at this one store named pink....im pretty sure there`z plenty of shops like that one around so look there=]
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Q: Okay so i`m in the eiqhth qrade &+ i like this quy whos a senior. hes seventeen &+ im thirteen. It seems like a huqe difference but aqe is just a number if you ask me. We have talked alot he is extremley mature &+ wants to wait for sex just like I do. At midniqht he always takes his parents car &+ comes see`s me. We have a qreat time toqether &+ what not. He said I was one of the closests friends he has &+ I admitted I liked him to a friend who told him. &+ now he has talked to me alot more lately. he calls me all the time. i was wonderinq does he like me or does he feel bad. My parents love him &+ his love me. I like him alot i`m confused.
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screw the answer below meh!shyt yes you are adding something its called words lol
anyways i think he likes you!
if he didint he wouldve already talked to you or something!im talking to a 18 year old guy now and im 13 to and he likes me but he hasent told me he told my brother...maybe it's a similar case=]
well best of wishes!
mucho luv~~~
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Q: 13/female. I always figured people could tell if I was happy, mad, sad, confused, or any other emotion because it just seemed obvious to me. If I'm mad my mouth forms a straight line, my eyebrowns go together, and you can just see in my eyes I'm mad. But lately I don't think my emotions are that clear. I guess my first hint was yesterday when my mom started yelling at me that I never tell her how I feel. It's just that it seems stupid saying I feel this way, I feel that way. It's always been this way with me. I just storm to my room and slam the door without a word, giving the world a cold shoulder. See my whole life has been hard. When I was practicly born my dad divorced my mom. Then my mom fell in love, but never married him, and he died of cancer the day after my birthday. Then my aunt died in her sleep on july3, in the same year my moms soon to be hubby died. I didn't even cry, I guess because I figured somebody had to be strong. Then my mom met another guy about a year ago and we found out about 4months ago he died in december. Since then my mom has fell in love 3times, one is still alive but has moved on, the second one doesn't know what to do, the third one is here at this very moment. I'm always getting into trouble over anything. I hate visiting my dad, but I don't know if he realizes it yet. I hate school, everyone knows it. I feel weird with all my moms bfs, none knows why not even me. I read almost all the time wishing I wasn't where I was at. I think to myself all the 'why' questions we all hate. So tell me how can I tell people my feelings?!?!?! How do I realize my moms love life is none of my buisness, and yet it is? How do I learn to love, trust, and express my feelings? How do I tell my dad I can't stand him? Please help me with all of these questions and more.
OoOhaileyOoO
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umm ok think of it as wut u feel towards your moms relationships is probably wut she feels since she has lost so many of them...u can probably be feeling the same thing and can open up to each other easier than it seems! about expressing yourself...you have to learn how to express yourself to you first!
you won't be able to tell people how you feel if not even you know how you feel!
ok ive seen the other answers from the columnists below me have been super long but i just summed it all up to this.
if it makes you feel any better my family always brings me down and i dont feel comftrable with my dad because he's never there for me.i feel almost the same like trapped and you can't breathe and feel like is life even worthwhile?...maybe if you trust me we can share and help each other out=]]
well i really hope you figure something out and ill always be here if you need me!
take care
mucho luv~~~
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Q: well i find myself unhappy and always getting jealous and always looking on the bad sad, i really wanna change this, and i think the cause of this is because i lost alot of friends because they were backstabbers and im in a hard relationship with my boyfriend and my friends cant really be trust and its summer and i havent done anything. Please help me on how to be happier and eve rything thanx
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ok i go through this everyday!
i have learned to forgett about everybody and rely on myself.boyfriends and friends come and go.if you cant trust your friends well i keep a "diary" and write down everything...it's like my best friend...when you express yourself into anything its just so releaving! keep that as your trust buddy and just hang with friends have fun with them!i have noticed this answer isint really related to your question but it may help in a way if you learn to understand wut im trying to tell you lol=]
best of wishes
mucho luv~~~
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Q: What do girls look for in a guy??? I mean like calone, styles, and personality. Please help.
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well it depends wut kind of girl you are trying to get...every girl looks for something different in a guy...but mostly everybody want's a nice, caring,sweet guy besides them...the style thing i couldnt really tell you because well im from south central-ghetto
and im into guys with baggy clothes and stuff like that but some girls love casual,rockerish,preppy,nerdy kinda looks i guess...well also just a lil more advice beyond that...wait for the girl that likes everything about you and dont change your style and how you are for anybody but you!well hope i helped and if not sorry for wasting your time=/lol
mucho luv~~~
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Q: If you try one cigarrete do you automatically get addicted to smoking?
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well i havent tried it and NEVER will!
i know 2 never say never but ive had plenty of peer pressure to do it and ive said no to all of them!anyways even if it dosen't don't you think that you will feel like doing it again?i say you don't at all!
even tho you didin't really specify if it was just a question or you were thinking of doing it lol i just answered both....just in case;)lol
take care!
mucho luv~~~
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Q: I need help, really bad.
I lied to my boyfriend about something really big, not going to get into details, it's a VERY long story! He just called me & told me that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me right now, because he just can't handle it.
& I have absolutely no idea what to say or do to make everything better. I can't handle thinking what it would be like without him, it's just WAY too much for me.
So, PLEASE. If you were in my position, what would you do?
Thanks in advance.
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yes like the other people have said
b completely honest with him...if he's smart he'll understand that you are trying to have honesty in the relationship and will not break up with you...but even if he does.....remember that u don't need a guy 2 rely on because in the end all uve got is you.
but anyways back to the question have a talk with him and hopefully he forgives you for watever the reason may be he's mad.=D
good luck
mucho luv~~~
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Q: I am 16 almost 17 in a few months ( female) and i met this guy bryan at a party and we started going out together and meeting up with eachother and sum frends every saturday night. he doesnt go to my school so we would basically spend every sat. nite together. we began to get pretty close and we kissed.. then hooked up.. but the problem is. .he is one year and a few months younger than me.. it doesnt really bother me.. but he is a grade younger than me too. that is mainly the problem.. i defiantely would consider making this a more serious relationship except that he is in a grade younger then me.. i am going to 11th grade and he is going to 10th. it seems like such a big defference bc wen we used to "date" he was still in 9th grade adn i was in tenth. 9th grade seems sooo young ..the problem is not that he is immature or anything.. bc he defiantely is not.. if anything he may know more about a long term relationship than me. I went out with my other bf for 6 months and he had a gf for about 2 yrs on and off.. but more on.. .. they broke up about 2 months before me and him startted talking.. what i was mainly worried about was that people would find out weve been seeing eachother and think that we are going out and that is mainly wats bothering me. he is younger than me and it makes me look bad.. i dont want that reputatiion:"that i go for younger guys" and i no that people always say that i shouldnt care wat other people think, but the reality is that you should.. bc that is wat matters.. its like going around sleeping with guys not caring wat people will say about you.. like if they would say ur a slutt or a whore.. but the truth is that you do have to care wat other ppl think bc if you dont then you will fuck up your reputation and i dont want to do that. we are currently not talking or communicating anymore but i do no this. he is now with his ex gf.. they are bak together but i honestly dont understand why.. like i dont.. she looks like she doesnt shower.. and i gues shes just like somone he nos he can go bak to.. she seriosuly is obssessed with him and even wen they werent together she'd always be hinting things like.. - i want to be wih you- she'd basically be all up on him and i thikn she is his comfort and thats why he went bak to her.. they really probably had sumtihng.. 2yrs.. like damn, i totally understand wow.. but thats not what really bothers me.. i diidnt really like him thattt much to like cry over him bc i was "with him" for like 2 months and thats bc i wanted to have sombody.. and i realizedc i just wanted SOMEBODY.. even if it wasnt him,.. i just wanted somone..my question is .. if an opportunity to be with him or another younger guy than me comes along.. should i take it even if it may fuck up my rep? ( bc i really feel like he would have been such a good bf.. ) but i dno if hes worth my rep ( or if any guy is)
also,my other question is- how do i act around him if i see him one day
like we ended really weirdly... we jsut stopped ccalling eachother and that was the end of it. do i say hi to him? or wat? like if i run into him shoulkd i hugg him? how shuold i act?
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ok
im from the ghetto south central and im just gonna say it ok!
FUCK reputation!u can alwaiis build it back up and it's not like your going to be in school forever people are going to forgett.....but love only comes once in a lifetime and when you find it nor age...grade...or wut people think should matter at all!hold on to it and screw wut others think!
to your other question i would say that probably a nice hi would be good and if he hugs you well hug him back but remember you don't do it because as you said he has a girlfriend no matter how unatractive you think she maybe lol
just be nice and friendly but don't kiss ass!if you know wut i mean..=]-
kk then hope i helped and if not oops ma bad for wasting your time=[
mucho luv~~~
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Q: Soon i will be able to get a new phone and am not postive what phone i want for sure so i just wanted some thoughts and oppinons on these phones. I can either go with Verizon or Cingular.
The Razr
The Pebl
The SLVR
"Chocolate"(from verizon)
Any thoughts from people who have the phones (that are already released) would also be a great help.
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omg!the chocolate is so cute!
im so getting it!!!!!
well yeah i would go with verizon i mean we get free minutes almost all the time!
-verizon to verizon
-starting at 9-7
-and weekends
but yeah the slvr is also pretty!
i dont really like the razr but that's only my opinion and ive never heard of the pebl=/
well i would go with eigther the chocolate or the slvr=D
hope u enjoy your new phone!
mucho luv~~~
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Q: I met this guy at a party back in May. I knew him before but didn't really like him, but this party made me think he was a decent enough person. I wasn't attracted to him in a romantic sense though. Anyway, he asked me for my number and I gave it to him. He was okay at first, but then I started hating him. He is really immature. I tell him that I don't like him at all and to leave me alone, but he won't stop. He calls me about 394834 times a day and at odd times since he knows I'm awake a lot. He even calls the house phone where my parents are sleeping at 4am. One time I went to the store and there were twenty seven new calls on the phone. Going to the police isn't an option because I'm not exactly their favorite person ever. I've told him many times but he just won't listen. The only reason he talks to me is because he thinks my interests will fit in with his image. It's pathetic. He pretends to like every movie and band I like, even if he knows nothing about them. How do I get him to leave me alone?
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well i think you should talk to your parents so they can change your numbers. If you cross paths with him also just sit him down and make him understand that you just don't feel right with him around.Oh and the police is supposed to be around for people no matter how much they don't like the person!=D
hope it all turns out good for you;)
mucho luv~~~
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Q: 13/f
i need one. badly! im not ugly not gorgeous.im not skinny. im a bot overweight. and im real nice. but no guys ever talk to me. i dont wanna be mean but my friends that are less attractive get a b/f. and not just one. like 3 in a week. what is wrong with me? i try talking to guys but they think im weird bc sometimes i get a little weird. they think im a short pipsqueak bc theyre usually 16. im like there annoying little sister. ughh. i wanna find guys my age. who wear most perferably tight girl pants. and usually have long skater hair. but its hard to find guys like that. of course i want them to be nice and funny and sweet and attractive. but how do i find guys like that?! schools starting soon. how do i get guys to notice me? what should i wear? like how do i throw myself out there without begging for attention. i want to be the girl with the best b/f! idk im like overreacting and i want a b/f. please help. i dont want like "youll find one soon" i want some like details and crap.
p.s.-sorry for seeming desprate. i almost am!
and sorry it was so long.
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ummm k.well first of all im 13 to and i just broke up with my boyfriend!they r drama and i dont think you want one...but i guess since u do just dont change urself!never change 4 anybody but urself!ok well wait for skoo to come and theres alwaiis new guyz 2 see and meet!!!also b kinduh flirty with them but not like xsagerated hoe kinduh flirty... where do you live because i know a shyt load of guyz like dat lol but yeah good luck hope you find a good guy soon
mucho luv~~~
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Wats up?! my name is laura people call me lauris or dee nee wich is short for dulce nina:]
i stay at south central & i can be hella ghetto but ima keep it good for this.
im usually pretty good at listening to peoples problems & i dont know exactly what to say at times or i may not say much at times but when i do it really means alot so feel free to drop me a question if youd like & i promise ill get back:]
if yew wish add me on my yahoo-->dulce_niina
or my myspace just search for abelsandoval@sbcglobal.net
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: South central!!! Occupation: i get ma edumacation Age: 15 Yahoo: Member Since: July 25, 2006 Answers: 90 Last Update: September 8, 2008 Visitors: 8867
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