I am a Christian, and I love giving advice, so you can be anonymous or not, I would just love to hear from you! My friends tell me that I am a great person to come to for advice. I seem to know just what to say. I don't know. =) I love listening to people and problems. I just don't like being in the middle of them; I do choose sides if I absolutely have to. I want to be a Social worker or a counseling Psychologist someday. I am a senior in high school, and I start college in August of '06. I'm in band, and choir. I play French horn and sing alto. I have been through a lot with friends/family and even though I haven't, I feel like I've seen it all, so I hope I can help!
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simple question, long story behind it, but i want to know, what do girls want in guys? (link)
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Girls LOVE chivalry (opening doors for them, initiating the first move, etc.), looks are good, but not foremost, we love it when a guy acts cute and isn't headstrong, we love to feel protected. If something is wrong, we love it when a guy notices and is concerned. We love it if you smell good. (Guys' cologne is AMAZING!!!) We like eye to eye contact. If we are sick, we love to feel taken care of (or they at least try to make us feel better ;-) It's the little things, whether they realize it or not, that mean the most. Good luck, and I hope this gives you a heads up!
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does anyone kno a good web site with some bible verses or a place where i can search bible verses and dont tell me google cause i already looked and didn't do any help
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You can google search but type in bible verses online or online bible or something to that extent. I think there is a good site with the words "bible gateway" or something. I hope that works. I'll look myself and get back to you. :) Good luck and I hope that helped!
(just looked, and it's www.biblegateway.com)
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I have a friend we can call him john well john smokes and we're only 13 i dont think thats right i told him what i think and he agrees and hes tried to quit but it NEVER seems to work is there anything i can do to help john because hes my best friend and he could getin in alot of trouble for smoking around school and hes damanging his body (link)
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I think that it is awesome that you see your friend smoking and that you are concerned for him b/c a: he's underage and it's illegal and b: smoking is really bad for you...It would be great of you to say something to him about it...say something like "I don't like you smoking because smoking is bad for your health, it causes cancer, it's bad for the people around you, and you can get into a lot of trouble. You're my best friend and I don't want you to get sick or in trouble with the law (or who ever he lives with.)" I commend you for noticing this, and I wish you the best of luck. I will warn you that your friend may not take your advice well, but you don't want to feel guilty for NOT saying anything to him about it. I hope he does listen to you though. Good luck and I hope I helped.
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can anyone tell me what the appropriate amount of time would be until i should start dating again? there's this guy i really like.. but me and my bf just broke up today and we'd been going out since october 30, 05. please help! how long should i wait? (link)
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Waiting a few days would probably be best. If you hang out w/ him w/ out the lables, that would probably just sound better just so it wasn't like you broke up to get w/ this other guy. Good luck and I hope I helped.
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If a guy wants to kiss a girl for the first time, what r some cute romantic things he can do leading up to the kiss? (link)
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Something I find really cute is when I smile at him really big and he says "What?" and he just knows I want a kiss. Just those random moments when he least expects it. You can be that way w/ whoever you date. ways to let her know you want to kiss her is to catch her eye at a moment, and then kiss her. It's really sweet, good luck w/ that and I hope I helped.
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on eof my friends teases ppl even if it is not a good time to tease ppl. and i just dont know what to do.they tease in seirious sictuations A
LOT!!! and i am getting really tired of it..what should i do?
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Sometimes people tease a lot and don't even realize they are really hurting someone. Or, sometimes they do it b/c the person is no longer around, so they feel it's okay. I say go straight to the person about it b/c they may not even realize how bad it is. I've been around some of that and sometimes it is funny, but then again, sometimes it isn't right...just talk to them. Good luck, and I hope I helped.
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anyone know any good quote sites besides firehotquotes.com thankz
p.s. about love, friends and stuff (link)
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www.xanga.com/xxUr_biggest_mistake has some really good ones...www.xanga.com/love_quotez_xo, and www.xanga.com/umm_quotes is good too... :-)
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Okay guys do you knowe where i can get a xenga for the song numa numayay or whatever its called. It is from the movie chicken little. My annoying math teacher plays it all the time between brakes and at first i hated the damn song but now i got used to it. (link)
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I love that song! Look for Numa Numa song on Real Player or Windows Media Player and you can possibly click on the song in Real Player or right click for the properties in Media Player if you find the song. If not, go to www.xanga.com/music_galore because they might have it, or go to blogrings and look up music...you might find xanga's that host it so you can get the link for the song through one of the players, and add it to your look and feel if you didn't know. I hope you find it, that song is great! Have you seen the silly guy dancing to that song!?!? It's hilarious! Good luck and I hope I helped!
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how can I start lucid dreaming? (being able to know and be aware that your dreaming) it seems really interesting and i really wanna learn. websites etc.
all 5's (link)
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I'm taking psychology, and the best way to remember your dreams is keep a pen and paper by your bed and as soon as you wake up, write down what you remember. But, this isn't gauranteed, it's just the best way. If you can, remember anything said specifically, people in the dream and surroundings. I hope I helped!
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whats "come hither"?? (link)
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come here...if you haven't heard it already. People say that to make fun of old english! haha!
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My best friend and i got into a fight. a really bad fight. one when we don't talk to each other for a month. my mom knos about the problem. now my x best calls and apologizes. we have gotten into so many fights i can't even count. so i told her we would talk a bout it in the morning. i don't want my mom to think we are friends because she don't like her. i don't like her. but i don't want to be mean or be enemies wat should i do????????? (link)
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You don't have to LIKE someone to be nice to them. Believe me, I know and it's hard. You should be nice to anyone though. As hard as it is. I know you've probably heard "you have to give respect to gain it". I don't know if you respect her, but just show it. You don't have to like her, like you don't have to like your teachers at school, but just be nice. (And of course, avoid fights if you can cause that'd be good) Good luck and I hope I helped!
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I have this friend. She has been my friend all of my life literally but lately we've been drawing apart. :( what do i do to get this relationship back togeter? (link)
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I know you feel. It's hard b/c your life seems like it's different. But as you get older, things change and you just have to expect that. It doesn't mean that you won't be friends anymore, but you still have two different lives. Just as long as you both come to an understanding that you still want to hang out and do things that close friends do when you can. It may not be intentional on either of you, things just happen. Boys, classes, churches or community stuff, family. Talk to her and just let her know that even though may not be as close, you still care about her. That's pretty much all that matters. Good luck and I hope I helped.
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i have liked this boyy for about 2 weeks now and he is so hard to read i dont know if he likes anyone? but he flirts alot and stuff and he flirts with me too but i dont want to tell him that i like him...but if he doest know that i like him he might not ask me out? and i do not like asking guys out at all like i wont do it...any advisssee?? hopefully lol
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Give the boy time and get to know him, and learn to read him and what he likes in a girl. You don't have to tell him you like him b/c if he does like you or will end up liking you, he'll give you hints. I know how you feel, guys are sometimes hard to read, I didn't know my b/f liked me at all until he started holding my hand and we've been together since. He didn't know I liked him. It could be different for you though. If you want to though, and if you can, ask him casually if he might want to hang out sometime like with a bunch of your friends. Maybe that will break the ice and you'll know for sure. Good luck and I hope I helped a little!
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What is a good birthday present to give to my boyfriend?? im all out all ideas (link)
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if you have little inside jokes or special things like an animal/song etc. that may be cute. Or if you have a cassette tape or cd burner you could burn him a cd, that's what I did. Good luck and I hope I helped!
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k well, every guy i go out with i really like him and what ever, well, i have this issue, ive gone out with most of them for at least a month, and every time they ask me to do something with them, or hang out, or come to their house, i always make up a lame freaking excuse, i hate it, the one guy im going out with right now, i like him so much, i seriously think im in love with him this is our second time going out, and he always askes me to go to his house, and i always make up an excuse, i guess im afraid of whats he gunnah think about me, because i mean, im not pretty. at least not to me. i mean i have random people come up to me and theyll be like awe your so gorgeous, i dont think i am, im really self concious because i have ache. like so freaking self concious about it. can anyone help me like.. figure out why im self concious, i mean i wannah figure out why i keep doing this, i wannah spend time with my boyfriend so bad, but i keep stopping myself.
=/ anyone thinks they can help me? (link)
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if you have a boyfriend, and he wants to spend time with you, he should like you for you. That's why he either a: asked you out, and you said yes, or b: he said yes he'd go out w/ you. Being self consious is something every girl goes through at one point whether the girl admits it or not. I know I am. But don't let that stop you from hanging out w/ him. I hope I helped, you go get your boy! hehe Good luck!
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My best friends parents just told her that they are getting a divorce. I don't know what to say to her. I basically said "I am soooo sorry" and "this should be happening to you" I also toldh er tha ti am always there for her she can call me anytime, it doesn't matter if its 12 midnight, and she can come over whenever, she doesn't hav eto call or nothin' i don't know what else to say. HELP!!!! (link)
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Sometimes there is really nothing you can say except that you are always there to listen. That you'll be your friend's shoulder to cry on, and that you'll even be there in the silence. Divorce is rough. Just be a comfort as best as you know how to be. Good luck. I hope I helped.
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Me and my g/f have been together for 8 months on and off, and I'm taking a liking to her friend...what do i do? (link)
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Do her a favor and be honest with your self. One of my friends had to find out from someone else that her b/f (now ex) liked/was talking to someone else. Now many people are mad at him and it was the unclassy thing to do to wait to tell her. If you decide to break it off for her friend, don't go out w/ her friend automatically, cause that will just make a lot of people mad. Good luck w/ that one.
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i am with this guy and we have been seriously disucssing marriage. we both want to get married to each other and we want that badly. more than anything else. we are about to move in together shortly, but my question is, if we are planning it and things, but he hasnt actually ASKED me "Will you marry me" and all that shit. so are we considered engaged or what? i am a bit confused. he wants to wait to actually ask me until he can buy the perfect ring and all that cutesy stuff. but until then are we considered engaged or not...i know its stupid but i cant figure it out. i will rate all answers that i get, i promise! (except the smart ass ones) (link)
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It depends on you and him. I say ask him something like "I know you haven't "popped the question", but if someone asks me if I'm engaged, can I say yes?" I mean, you practically are, just no ring or proposal. Ask him what he thinks. Congratulations! Good luck, and I hope you find that one out!
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Hey advicenators! =P
What do you think should be the curfew for a 15 year old girl? I'm asking this because I'm going to the movies with my guy friend and my parents want me home at 10pm. I'm a very trustworthy person and I WON'T have sex with him, that's for sure. He's only a friend. I'm kinda pissed about this because I want to stay out later, but they're strict & say only 10pm. I know I'm lucky because some kids can't even go out with friends yet. But, what do you guys think? Thanks. (link)
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I say impress your parents with the 10 o'clock rule and just deal with that for now. If they see that you are responsible enough to be home when they ask you to get home, they may consider an extension. I think that is kind of early, but it's better to get your parents trust than get your priveledges taken away because of that, or arguing with them about it and not be able to go out at all. Hope I helped. Good luck!
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I am a Christian who doesn't go to church. I pray every night and believe that Jesus died for our sins and that God exists.
My question is that why do so many other Christians put down other ones that don't go to church? I have a relationship with God, too! Thanks. (link)
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It is good that you have a relationship w/ God and that you pray and believe strongly. But that's not all Christianity is about. You go to church to encourage other Christians. Sure, there are Christians at school, and that's cool too, but it's wonderful to worship w/ people, and praise God. Hebrews 10:25 says "Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another-and all the more as you see the Day approaching." We are also to commune with each other. Even though no church is perfect, you generally learn new points of view on what is said in the bible and it can challenge you as a Christian, and I don't mean challenge as in like a test. Just something you might learn to strengthen your relationship w/ God. If you have any more questions so I don't say to much here, feel free to ask! I hope I helped a little bit. Good luck, and I hope that you consider trying different churches someday, and maybe after that you'll find the right place for you.
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