i am with this guy and we have been seriously disucssing marriage. we both want to get married to each other and we want that badly. more than anything else. we are about to move in together shortly, but my question is, if we are planning it and things, but he hasnt actually ASKED me "Will you marry me" and all that shit. so are we considered engaged or what? i am a bit confused. he wants to wait to actually ask me until he can buy the perfect ring and all that cutesy stuff. but until then are we considered engaged or not...i know its stupid but i cant figure it out. i will rate all answers that i get, i promise! (except the smart ass ones)
crazygoober2006 answered Saturday October 15 2005, 8:13 pm: It depends on you and him. I say ask him something like "I know you haven't "popped the question", but if someone asks me if I'm engaged, can I say yes?" I mean, you practically are, just no ring or proposal. Ask him what he thinks. Congratulations! Good luck, and I hope you find that one out! [ crazygoober2006's advice column | Ask crazygoober2006 A Question ]
karenR answered Saturday October 15 2005, 6:55 pm: I don't think i'd consider it official until he outright asks.
Shortie8959 answered Saturday October 15 2005, 6:26 pm: You aren't actually engaged. If you want to move things along though ask him what he feels about getting enagaged. Don't rush it too much though. Hope everything turns out for you! Hope I helped! ♥ Erin [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
babygirl17 answered Saturday October 15 2005, 4:31 pm: I wouldn't consider you guys being engaged until he actually asks you to marry him... Then it is offical... Even with all this marriage stuff going on... Moving in together.. and such.. doesnt make you guys engaged.. I believe he has to actually ask you before your engaged.. hope this helps..
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