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Hey people my name is Christan. I'm 17 years old I am a junior I have been through a lot in my life I have a dad somewhere out there that I don't know. He left me when I was born my mom and my step dad were in big time drugs we did not have really any money we had to steal from stores to get food we got food from churches. If it weren't for my grandpa they would have been living on the streets.

So now I am adopted and am doing a lot better then what I would have been doing.

Obviously if your reading this then you are on my page then you will know that I am good at answering love questions, friendship questions, and computer questions so if you ask a question I will try to answer it as best as I can. Thanks!!!


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okay so this guyyyyy that ive been liking for quite sometime now, well i found out he likes me. and he has for a year and a half now... whenever we hang out we have a blast and then w/e. and he knows i like him. but why does he never ask me out. i dont get it. i mean, like he tells me he lkes me then i tell him, you know, "i like you too." er w/e. then, nothing changes. we dont get closer. we dont get further apart. nothing happens, so why doesnt he make a move.


thanks for the help...
oh btw 14/f


xoxo

ok I see your point and I'm a guy so I probably know whats going on and what I think is this I think he wants you to make the first move I don't know why but usually the guys are supposed to make the first move. A lot of girls make the first move my girlfriend did. Now either you can wait till he makes the move are you can make the move maybe he is shy to ask the question but I don't know him so I cant really say that so either you make the move or you can wait and see if he asks you out. I hope this helps!!!

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well usally theirs steps in a relationship and you usally tell your bf/gf that you want to go to the next step in a relationship as in my case french kiss or make out. but this person lives in another state. when they come to visit i'd like to take this step. so i was gonna tell them i wanted to make this step. but is that a good idea because i hardly ever see this person. i dont want to go to far and then not see them for a while and reck our relationship. any advice? thanks

Well wow I was reading this question and it sounds familiar it kinda sounds like my girlfriend she asked me that question. Well kinda it was on a quiz she sent me and I answered it and then we were talking about it. But anyway it is a good idea to tell them because it would make your relationship a lot stronger then it is. You said that your bf/gf lives in a different state thats really cool that you can do that just like my girlfriend. Ironic! Well I think you are one of those people that really stick to a relationship thats really cool to see a person that is willing to do that and I'm sure he/she really appreciates that. Sorry its so late I did read it on the 30th but time got away from me and I had to work really hard in school. So yea I hope its not to late for this answer but I hope you have a great time at whatever you want to do either if it frenckissing or just making out with each other. Wow this is really ironic lol!!!

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which programs help get rid of spyware? any you can download free?

AVG Grisoft does a really good job it might take long but it works and it is free it updates automatically hope this helps. oh and download Spybot S@D that really helps too well I hope all this helps.

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Hi. I want to use HTML in my column. For pictures and such. I've seen other people use it, but I havn't been able to. As far as I know your column can not support HTML. Has that changed? Or is there a way to use it?

Advicenators does not support HTML i believe some people pay for there accounts and i think they are able to put HTML. But no Advicenators does not support HTML. Sorry

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My BFF's older brother (who just so happens to be a Senior) says he loves me alot. And i kind of like him too. So what I want to know is if it is cool to date your BFF's bro, or just say no?

He is like 4-5 years older than me.

Much Hearts,
DaAdvicePerson

Ok well i don't what all the other people are talking because yea you can do whatever you want like my gf lives about 3 to 4 hours away and yea you are probably thinking how in the world am i doing that. its hard but actually if he really likes you then go for it actually your brother can help you a lot so if you really like him to just tell him how you feel and go from there if you need anymore help leave a message in my inbox or just email me at christian_grg@hotmai.com thanks.

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i was wondering if you could give me some ideas on what to get my boyfrined for valentines day. hes 16 and he is into hockey.. but i dont know if i want it to be hockey related. i dont exactly have a lot of money. but yeah, i dont know. just some ideas? pleas and thankyou!

ok well you can try to get something he likes perhaps you can get him hockey related stuff i don't know you have to do something that you know he likes i'm sorry i cant help you how bout you email me on things he likes and we can choose or i can ask my girlfriend to and get her opinion if you want you can email me or just leave it in my inbox again my email is christian_grg@hotmail.com. sorry i could not help you and please just give me a list on thinks he likes that would be great.

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How can I fix internet explorer error message page cannot be displayed? I cannot access a site on my computer. I even typed the address correctly. I also cannot delate a user account in my computer. It just freezes when I delete an account.

ok check your internet connection if you have internet 7.0 and that comes up again click on the diagnostics link and it will check your connection and it will tell you whats wrong or go to the bottom right hand corner there should be a thing that looks like 2 computers click on that and there should be a general tab and a support tab click on the support tab and there should be a button that says repair click on that and it will hopefully fix your internet connection and if that does not work restart your computer. it depends on your operating system i have a windows xp so if you have one this should work but if it does not it helps to shut down the computer and if none of that call your isp (internet service provider) just call them and tell them what going on and they will help you. if you have anymore questions my email is christian_grg@hotmail.com. I hope this helps for a 15 year old kid i know my computers really well and im not a geek lol. well i hope that helped. oh and about the freezing your computer might have a lot of programs stored on there and its causing your computer to freeze so i would try to get rid of the programs you don't use and try again.

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Me and my bf broke up of 21 months a month ago. We both were in love so much but he left for college 50 min. away and things changed. Im nothing just but just a jr. in highschool. Its clear we are both moving on but yesterday i read something that he wrote and it said "I am looking for a woman" it just made me burst into tears on the spot. Is it totally natural that Im torn up about it? I know im moving on, going on diff. dates with diff. guys, and all that other sort of stuff... But it just struck me so hard to just know he was officially moving on. I just feel selfish && stupid.

P.S-I'd like to get back together but i dont see that happening if that helps any.

don't take it the wrong way but you need to move on and get over with him i hope that didn't sound mean but it sounds like he wants to meet other women. and I'm sorry what has happened to you i know how it feels it hurts. All you can do is move on and try to forget about him thats the best thing you can do right now and i'm really sorry.

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So I know its illegal to have sex with someone over 18 if you are a minor... no big deal, we both are very strict about the wait till you aare married thing and i will not let my guard down. my quaetion is, is it still illegal if we date and i am a minor and he is 18 but we do not have sex or anything?

ok im looking at the laws of the United States and i dont see anything thats pertains to what you are saying i cant find anything. but no it is not illegal to date someone if he is 18 and you are a minor i hope that is right i would ask your parents but i am not seeing any law that states that.

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Why in school my boyfriend acts like he doesn't really want to be around me or even talk to me?

There can be a number of reasons like one his friends can laugh at him you really don't give enough detail to answer this question I'm sorry. But if you could just email me the whole story my email is christian_grg@hotmail.com thanks!!

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Heyy, if anyone can help me with this that'd be great: Myspace has always worked fine on my computer until recently. My myspace hasn't been letting me sign on. Actually, myspace isnt even showing up on my computer. Whenever i try to go on it it says page cannot be displayed. It's been doing this for about four or five days now. So, I tried to sign into my account on my friends computer. Now myspace isn't working on her computer. In other words, any time someone trys to sign into my username on my account on myspace on their computer, myspace will no longer work on their computer at all either. Does this mean my account has been hacked or what?? and is there anything i can do about it. Thanks alot.

Ok first their is no way someone can hack Myspace. I'm a computer whiz to for only being 15 ok myspace has a 128 bit ssl (secure socket layer) which is the strongest ssl you can have and its impossible to hack. i don't know whats going on with myspace on your computer or if you log in on someone else's computer but first I would probably try to delete your temporary internet files and delete your cookies if you dont know how to do that on top go to tools and internet options and delets all cookies and temporary internet files then try to get on myspace again then if that does not work then something is wrong and you should contact you isp (internet service provider) and if they cant find out whats wrong try to contact myspace and maybe their is a glitch with your account and making it so other people cant login i hope this helps if you need anymore help email me at christian_grg@hotmail.com thanks!!! And good luck!!

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I'm 16/f. My best guy friend is 16/m. He recently told me that he really liked me in december, and was even going to ask me out. Then he changed the subject, and I realized I'm a dumbass for asking him why he didn't ask me out.

Recently he's been treating me shitty. We don't hang out at all really, while during december we hung out almost every day. I have hung out with him once in January. Why do you think hes acting this way? Does it seem to you he gave up trying to be my friend because maybe he doesnt like me anymore? He still could, I dont know I didnt ask. But I truly feel he doesnt care for me at all anymore and it really hurts, he used to be the most carng person. I have talked to him about it, all he says is that he cares.

ok I'm going to be honest with you. I am a guy so I guess I probably have a better saying in this question. Ok a lot of women think that guys don't have feelings but they do it's just they express it differently they might treat you like shit at times. So all you can really do is treat him like you would normally would try not to get stressed out cause that will make everything worse for you. Just be kind to him in anyway you can. Ask him out then tell him how you feel. Guys like to know how women are feeling just as much as women like to know how guys are feeling. Just tell him how you fell and what you are feeling. I hope this helped if you need anymore help my email is christian_grg@hotmail.com thanks!!!

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okay i'm making a cd for my boyfriend for valentines day.

what are some cute/romantic/loves songs i could put on there?

im looking for 10-20 songs possibly.

thanks =]

If everyone cared (Nickelback)
Its not over (Chris Daughtry)
Far Away (Nickelback)
Have You Really Loved A woman (Chris Daughtry)
Keep Me Close (Chris Daughtry)
Before Your Love (Kelly Clarkson)
A Moment Like This (Kelly Clarkson)
A Room In My Heart (Faith Hill)
Always And Forever (Kenny Rogers,Luther Vandross)
Photograph (Nickelback)

Hope some of these helped sorry if they didn't thanks!!!

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okay i have no idea what song i just heard on the radio but i loved it! i have no idea how the lyrics go but i think i heard the guy say it was by anberline or something. can anyone help me?

yea the group is called Anberlin go to a lyrics page then type in Anberlin and then search every song until the song looks familiar then go from there ohhh and Anberlin rocks have every song

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i was just wondering if someone could specifically explain how to burn a cd oh a hp pavilion vx74. i've got limewire, but no burning software. do i have to download something?
i was just wondering if anyone could tell me how to burn SONGS not VIDEOS.


Thanks for any help!! :D

Well you don't have a CD burner so no you cant burn any CD's so and the only thing you can do is download a CD burner and but i costs money approx. 30-40 dollars i hope this helps if you have anymore questions email me at christian_grg@hotmail.com thanks

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Hey, does anyone have an account on IMVU the 3-D Chat? If you do I just have a few questions. What is the main purpose of it and what do you do? Is it like a myspace or completely different? Can you actually move the characters around? Lastly and most importantly how do you get credits? Do you actually have to pay money? I know it says it's free to sign up but than how do you get the credits? Thank you SO much in advance! Help is very much appreciated! =)

Well yea i do have an IMVU account well yea ummm imvu is totally different to myspace u can actually chat in 3-d the avatar you created at the beginning of the sign-up is the the person you will be using while doing 3-d chat with other people around the world. yes you do get a little bit of credits when you first start and then you can earn credits by playing games and other things you can earn credits just look out and soon enough you will learn how to get credits it took me awhile to. while on the 3-d chat be careful cause people will try to harass you like they did to my girlfriend just be careful i hope this helps if you need anymore help email me at christian_grg@hotmail.com thanks

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This guy at school asked me out last week to hang out. We hung out and I ended up having a great time. But then a few days laer at school, his friend asked me an inappropriate question about how far we have gone. I feel like this guy that likes me just wants to see how far he can get with me. He also doesn't talk with me at school, until his friend asks him if we're still together, then he will go up to me to talk. He chooses to talk to his girl friends before me. It's also very awkward on the phone, because we run out of things to say to eachother a lot, and I thought a relationship sounded nice, but I feel like we would just be better off as friends. How should I deal with this, because his sister told me he really likes me a lot and had a really fun time with me.

16 year old, female.

this guy can possibly like you but yea i am a guy to but yea teenage boys can tend to laugh at people when they do stuff like that so they play it cool and ask other friends that is really cool and know they wont laugh at him so yea ummm think of some topics to talk about get to know eachother play 20 questions it works have fun and if you feel awkward just tell him strait up this feels awkward and go from there and hope he will understand I have a girlfriend and she lives 3 hours from me and yea it does stink it really doesbut we keep in contact either mailing letters or instant message or emailing but yea get to know him more think about topics to talk about and get to know him i hope this helps thanks

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hello, i have a question.. we all no that at the start of a relationship that its great, all the attention and excitment.. but wat about in 6 months time. ive goten my relationship to 7 months now, and most the affection has stopped the little things he used to do has stopped and i asked him if he was only geniunly happy to see me after he haddent seen me in a while.. he went quiet, then i felt bad for asking.. he said that were different, but he still felt the same. he said that he gets excited over fishing and camping, thats wat he loves the most. so is that giving me the hint that im not the right girl for him or is it just something else..how do i fix this situation? i dont no where hes coming from. please help im so confused.
thankyou

I like what the others said yea thy sat that statisticly they say that relationship lasts for 6 months so you are doing really well right now. but wat you can do is to stay in touch with him get to know him more go uot with him go camping and fishing with him just spend anytime with him and you do sometimes need your own time alone with other people like your girlfriends have fun with your friends and he will sometimes need his alone time to so just take it like that have fun and i hope this helps thanks

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hey man im having asking this girl out will you help me

yea ummm just ask her first some questions about her and then hopefully u no her well then just bring it up and ask her out

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ok theres this guy and we both know that we like each other, except i told him i only like him as a really good friend, but ive relized now that i like him a lot more than that and i want to tell him... but i dont know if i should or how i should.... idk but any advice would be great. thanks!

Yea if you do like this guy then tell him how you really feel i'm sure he will except your change of heart and then you can work at the rest just let your heart guide you and you will be able to do it!!!

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