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affection?
hello, i have a question.. we all no that at the start of a relationship that its great, all the attention and excitment.. but wat about in 6 months time. ive goten my relationship to 7 months now, and most the affection has stopped the little things he used to do has stopped and i asked him if he was only geniunly happy to see me after he haddent seen me in a while.. he went quiet, then i felt bad for asking.. he said that were different, but he still felt the same. he said that he gets excited over fishing and camping, thats wat he loves the most. so is that giving me the hint that im not the right girl for him or is it just something else..how do i fix this situation? i dont no where hes coming from. please help im so confused.
thankyou
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hey its completely normal for a relationship to mature. it doesnt mean your relationship is dead or that you should break up..but think about it..the constant affection and cuteness in the beginning isnt there after a few months all the time like it was..and thats normal. look at ur parents..they arent all lovey dovey probably.
my suggestion is to give each other more space..on a friday night go hang out with your girlfriendds while he plays video games with the guys or goes fishing..
do more activities together..go more places..and the affection and love is stil there..but in a different way. i hope this makes sensse..keep in touch about how it all goes..ive been with my bf for almost a year now..yeah we have had our ups and downs..and a little break inbetween..but i have come to learn that after almost a year..of course it wont be like it was in the first month or two...its normal and im still very happy :)
there are cute moments still of course..but you gota work to keep it going..give each other space..do more activities like fishing for example together..and see how things go
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it seems like hes driffting apart from you things are changing and you dont like where there heading and rightfully so since he like camping and fishing so much ask to join him try to bring the relationship closer together but you can only try so much and if you still feel that the relationship is not where you want it to be than its time for a serious talk you know and maybe he is trying to tell you something he didnt say anything when you asked him if he missed you also he said you guys were diffenet so its his loss you havent changed he has so try some of his intrest and if it doesnt work than maybe its goodbye time before you get hurt goodluck i hope i helped
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I like what the others said yea thy sat that statisticly they say that relationship lasts for 6 months so you are doing really well right now. but wat you can do is to stay in touch with him get to know him more go uot with him go camping and fishing with him just spend anytime with him and you do sometimes need your own time alone with other people like your girlfriends have fun with your friends and he will sometimes need his alone time to so just take it like that have fun and i hope this helps thanks
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This happens if every relationship that lasts so long. The first few months of dating, you can't stand to be away from each other for more than one day. As time goes on, you kind of get tired of being around the same person so long. If you want to salvage this relationship, give each other some space every now and then. Let him have a weekend to go fishing and camping so you can have a weekend to spend time with your girlfriends. If he really loves you, he will miss seeing you after spending a few days apart. Maybe once you two get past the exciting part of starting a relationship and getting into having a calm, serious relationship, ask him if you can go fishing and camping with him.
The key when things get like this is to spend a few days away from each other and everything will be just fine.
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First of all you need to think about how you feel. Are your feelings for this guy stating to fade? Almost all relationships hit a bump in the road somewhere. How often do you two see each other? Do you spend too much time together? If that's the case maybe you two need some time apart doing your own things so you aren't tired of being together. If he likes fishing and camping so much ask if you could go with him sometimes and then have him go somewhere with you doing what you like to do. Also most importantly talk to him about how you feel. Tell him you don't want to upset him but he needs to know how you feel. Stick it out a lil bit longer, and then follow your heart. Don't stay in a relationship that makes you miserable.
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