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Best Guyfriend.
I'm 16/f. My best guy friend is 16/m. He recently told me that he really liked me in december, and was even going to ask me out. Then he changed the subject, and I realized I'm a dumbass for asking him why he didn't ask me out.
Recently he's been treating me shitty. We don't hang out at all really, while during december we hung out almost every day. I have hung out with him once in January. Why do you think hes acting this way? Does it seem to you he gave up trying to be my friend because maybe he doesnt like me anymore? He still could, I dont know I didnt ask. But I truly feel he doesnt care for me at all anymore and it really hurts, he used to be the most carng person. I have talked to him about it, all he says is that he cares.
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He still likes you, but he thinks that you don't like him so it causes him to treat you differently. If you like him, tell him and start going out. Because if you never tell him how YOU feel, he's gonna continue to treat you differently.
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ok I'm going to be honest with you. I am a guy so I guess I probably have a better saying in this question. Ok a lot of women think that guys don't have feelings but they do it's just they express it differently they might treat you like shit at times. So all you can really do is treat him like you would normally would try not to get stressed out cause that will make everything worse for you. Just be kind to him in anyway you can. Ask him out then tell him how you feel. Guys like to know how women are feeling just as much as women like to know how guys are feeling. Just tell him how you fell and what you are feeling. I hope this helped if you need anymore help my email is christian_grg@hotmail.com thanks!!!
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i think he thinks that you think of him differently now that he spilled his heart out to you.. i think he does like you but he's just starting to give up because he doesn't know if you feel the same way.. talk to him about it again.. that's the only way things could be better. tell him you don't want things to be any different than they were before
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after being in this situation myself, i'm pretty sure i know what's going on. i think that he's getting a vibe from you that you are not comfortable with him liking you. so in order to maintain the friendship, he's spending time away from you to try to get rid of his feelings for you. i know, it sounds dumb, but guys are generally morons anyway. i think he still likes you, and he knows it. it may take a little time, especially after he told you that he liked you, but i think you're both doing the right thing. i'm pretty sure he still wants to be best friends with you, but maybe y'all need some time apart. he probably doesn't really mean to blow you off or whatever, but once again, guys are morons. i predict that in a month or so he'll get over himself and things will pretty much be back to normal. hope i helped :)
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