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Loss/Hurt
I just got rid of my best guy friend. I'm a female. I don't know what to do, he's the only one who listened and seemed to care. Lately he seemed like he didn't care at all, he hasn't even been talking to me. So I'm avoiding him now, and it feels like I've basically lost him.
How can I not be so hurt? I'm sinking into depression and it's horrible. Are there any things I can do to not be this terribly upset? Thank you.
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Start talking to him again. Show him you care. Maybe he'll get the picture. If not, find another friend that you can see yourself being bests with.
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Hey whats up? How are you?
Right now, while reading your problem, it was exactly as reading my own problem. I just lost my best guy friend a week ago. It was exactly the same problem ,but on the contrary, I asked him about it and why he has been ignoring me and not talking to me. At first, i thought that maybe something was bothering him or putting him down, but there wasn't anything, and he just kept swearing and cursing and saying that he doesn't want to be best friends any more, just like that out of the blue. And i was terribly hurt to the extent that i couldn't cry, and everything has been bottled up inside me ever since last week.
So you see, its my job now to help comfort you and tell you that everything is gonna be alright. YOur wrong to even waste your time crying or falling into deep depression and nervous breakdowns. I mean.. jesus christ, when he ignores you and doesn't listen to you and treats you like crap, i think he's making it clear enough that he doesn't want to know you or talk to you, and he doesn't even care about you or care that he would hurt you by his actions, then why would you care about such a horrible beast like him. He's just causing you pain and depression and leaving you in a melancholic state, so why waste your time . I do know that you just can't help it, and that although how bad he's treating you , you still want him, but look on the bright side, you may have lost him, but at least , you lost someone who was mean to you and wouldn't care or listen to you. I know thats not a really bright side. lol. But just try harder, try to accept the fact that he's no good. And i am sure that you have many other friends who are much better, and if you want ,you could develop a friendship with someone and have another best friend, who would be better and would deserve such an amazing person like you. Think of what i said ,and if you need to talk or if you need any other help, please be free to contact me with a private message or an email.Take care.
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I'm going through the exact same thing as you right now. I wish I could help you, but I'm not sure I can. I have one person who just seeing makes me feel better, or just talking to, and that's my voice teacher. I hope you have someone like that in your life.
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baby if he's all of a sudden acting like nothign matters. than maybe soemthing is wrong with him, and he just maybe can't deal with other peoples problems right now because he has his own to try and deal with.. so you should try and talk to him and not avoid him because you never know he might be going through a rough time as well.
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