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I am not so sure this school relationship with this guy will
This guy at school asked me out last week to hang out. We hung out and I ended up having a great time. But then a few days laer at school, his friend asked me an inappropriate question about how far we have gone. I feel like this guy that likes me just wants to see how far he can get with me. He also doesn't talk with me at school, until his friend asks him if we're still together, then he will go up to me to talk. He chooses to talk to his girl friends before me. It's also very awkward on the phone, because we run out of things to say to eachother a lot, and I thought a relationship sounded nice, but I feel like we would just be better off as friends. How should I deal with this, because his sister told me he really likes me a lot and had a really fun time with me.
16 year old, female.
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Friends can be negatively effective on people's relationships, or who they like etc. trust me, i know. His friends could just be making him mad or you mad because they think it's funny. The best you can do is get an answer from him. find out how he truely feels about you from the person who knows for sure. guys' friends could get envious sometimes. i hope this helps
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this guy can possibly like you but yea i am a guy to but yea teenage boys can tend to laugh at people when they do stuff like that so they play it cool and ask other friends that is really cool and know they wont laugh at him so yea ummm think of some topics to talk about get to know eachother play 20 questions it works have fun and if you feel awkward just tell him strait up this feels awkward and go from there and hope he will understand I have a girlfriend and she lives 3 hours from me and yea it does stink it really doesbut we keep in contact either mailing letters or instant message or emailing but yea get to know him more think about topics to talk about and get to know him i hope this helps thanks
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It sounds like he does like you alot ,he doesnt want to show any feelings around his friends as they will laugh at him. Give him time (if you decide to stay in the relationship) you will notice that the way he is towards you changes . good luck
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He could really like you, but be embarassed. Guys at this age can act really wierd with their feelings. He might worry too much about what his friends think. His friends could be, and probably are, making fun of him and giving him a hard time, because that's what teenage boys do. As far as his friend asking you how far you two have gone, tell him to mind his own damn business. If you really like him I would stick it out a little longer and see how it goes. If he does try to go further then you are comfortable going just tell him to lay off, you are not ready for that. If he really does like you he will respect you and take it slow. Phone convos can be awkward, especially when you are just starting to get to know somebody, just think of a few topics to talk about before he calls to keep it flowing a lil bit. And if it gets too awkward say your mom is calling you and you have to go. I hope this helped you out :-)
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